I'm hispanic and my fiance is anglo-american. There is no problem. His family is not against but I recon that his dad is quite racist and he would have not liked me if i was chinese or black, jew or perhaps an illegal alien. His brother i think he didn't like me much in the begining because of being hispanic but he is over it by now. It was funny because he's gay so his grandma told, what are you talking about, we have accepted you gay so how come not accepting this one for being hispanic? hahaha

In the end is what you like. One of my best friend he is a anglo american like my fiance and he loves foreign women. He feels total no attraction for anglo women so there you go.

Interracial is always a hot thing by other people's eyes, but who cares? If you two just care about each other and really do love from your heart bottom, you know what I mean.

Maybe I am not right, but guess what I have got? I am also in an interracial relationship with a guy outside of my race. oh,,,, guys, you can not image what I have met. I am a black cuttie girl and I just met my love half year ago and we will get married next month, and interracial love of course. Am I lucky? So lucky I think, and I wanna share my happiness with all of you here.

By the way, I found my half part baby on a great interracialchats site. He is really gorgeous, even sometimes he is a little shy. - If you try InterracialChats.com, you also can be the next lucky one. LOL. Bye!! and good luck to you all.

I believe relationships should be based on attraction,genuineness,religious background and not the pigmentation of the skin. If you want to be happy then stay with him, you cannot live with your parents forever or follow there rules forever. I'm a white and my husband is a black, we met at a interracial blog site where let us know love is color blind. Our love proved this. You should follow your heart. Good luck in your relationship

Your parents should understand that interracial relationship is common in this era. Parents give priority to society in which they are living so they don't accept interracial relationship at first and I think it's common problem with them.

Try to introduce this guy to your parents. They get to know the guy and sooner or later they may like him. It may take time but things will work out.

I believe relationships should be based on attraction,genuineness,religious background and not the pigmentation of the skin. If you want to be happy then stay with him, you cannot live with your parents forever or follow there rules forever. I am also in an interracial relationship with a guy outside of my race, we met at blackwhitemeet dot com where let us know love is color blind. Our love proved this. You should follow your heart. Good luck in your relationship

I just want to say that I am white and my husband is hispanic and he is ABSOLUTELY the BEST thing that has ever come into my life and we have 2 beautiful bi-racial boys and we have been together going on 14 years now.When we first got together my dad did not approve, he grew up in the deep south and they believed that each should marry their own.He was constantly saying mean things about my husband (that he was a loser and would never amount to anything etc.etc.) well let me say that our oldest son (who's 15) is not his biological child even though he is hispanic,he was mine from a previous relationship.Well my husband and I got together when our son (I say our because he adopted him)was only 8 mos. old,and he has been there with him through a lung surgery when he was 15 mos. old, 2 bouts of brain cancer,at the age of 6 and again at 7,taken care of him when he was sick from medications and was there for all of his medical stuff when good ole' mom thought she was going to lose it!! His real father walked away when he was 5 mos. and never looked back. Anyway my father and I ended up fighting about 3 mos. after we got married and I just told my father that if he couldn't accept my husband then he didn't need to see me or my son anymore,we didn't talk for about 1 year.Then after our son was treated for his brain cancer my father actually came up to my husband and apologized right there in the hospital and asked my husband to forgive him for being so stupid,that after seeing how much my husband loved our son,that he was one heck of a man for coming in and stepping up and raising and supporting another man's child while loving him the same as our other son(2nd one is ours together)and never once complaining.Now my father and my husband are very close,in fact a few years ago my husband,myself,our two boys and my father all went to Arkansas to see my grandfather(my dad's dad the one that raised him to be racial)and boy was my husband nervous!! But my grandfather told my husband "I'm not like that anymore,life's too short I was wrong in the way I brought up my boys."And I'm glad we made that trip because my grandpa died 6 mos.later,but my boys were happy that "They got to meet great grandpa and he took them to McDonald's and bought them their 1st Big Mac!!
But I say go with your heart,eventually your family will come around and if they don't think about it,Is that really the influence you want around your children? Do you want someone who deep down may not really love your children because of what's on the outside,not on the inside.
P.S. Sorry about my book!!!

That is a very tough situation. If everything is truly great with him like you say it is, then don't worry about it. You're parents will soon realize that if they don't accept your relationship choices that it will only drive you further and further away from them.

if your parents cant respect that you have made the decision to be with this guy, then they truly dont respect you. They should except that he is who you choose to be with.

i am in an inter-racial relationship, i am white and he is native, and to be honest, i dont like dating men of my own "colour"
but thats just my opinion. i dont understand why people would have a problem . your parents should be happy for you that you have found someone who makes you feel special.

you may not know some of things your parents know, but you know how he makes you feel, and how you feel about him . you have to stand up for what you believe in !

GOODLUCK!

Perhaps your parents have the right idea--many of us think it is rather disgusting, and that interracial (particulaly white/black) children are on the ugly side. Of course there are exceptions to that, but in general, a great many would agree, just as not everyone will agree that a particular painting is asthetically appealing. The injustice is that the many of us who believe that don't truly have the "freedom of speech" to say so, for whatever reason.

Hey imap2
It's unfortunate that we live in an inclusive society where those who would disenfranchise others based on prejudices are marginalized. Take heart there are many nations in the world you could move to where the few rule over the many without reguard for their feelings or wishes.
Good luck!

The people who are self opinionated to think they are superior to another humanbeing are the ones who really have a problem. Hell is there choice & destiny!