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this is an exclusive online community designed to help ethnically diverse singles meet new friends and make great dates. Singles can discuss multiracial relationships, cultural exchanges, religion, professional development, leisure activities, life and more.

I am a guest before, but also receive many emails/winks and instant messages. At first, I am only there by chance, but then I really meet one I could treat sincerely to. I am happily in a relaship with her.

Hope every one who want to try have a same luck.

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I can relate somewhat to your post desiman, having an indian-american background (second generation) with parents who are at best ambivalent about bringing a non-indian into "the family." I found that most immigrant groups had similiar conflicts between those who came here and their children.

Remember that your parents are probably going through a mix of guilt issues and a genuine desire to see you happy. By guilt I mean, of them leaving their motherland and family behind to start a new life. Also they may feel you're lacking in understanding of indian culture. And they fell it's their fault.

And then there's the:

"joining of the two families."
"will she convince you to put your mother/father in a nursing home when we get too old to take care of ourselves."
"will you convert to another religion (if you're not the same.)"
"if she's had x number of boyfriends, has she slept with them, and why do you think she won't just find another man."
"will she leave you when things, financially, go bad?"

and that's in addition to everything you brought up. Sounds very sicilian, doesn't it?

In the end, if you love her and she's the one you want to spend your life with, you may have to choose. If your parents reasoning is in your mind wrong and unfair, it's up to you to decide whether that's enough to throw their never-ending font of caution to the wind. Listen to them. Rebut them. Don't ask your s.O. To prove herself or rebute issues that are between you and your parents.

Stand for what you believe in. Ask them to make a choice (if they object.)

I have the same experience!!! My parents dont want my recent boyfriend because I met him at wealthymendotcom and they were telling me that I should not be doing this and that.. But my boyfriend is a real gentleman and he loves the whole me... I've tried to assert this to my parents and its beginning to take effect..

Dont lose hope.. Believe in good chances :d

I met a guy on wealthymendotcom and he is half chinese and i'm not. I don't see why it should be much of a problem. I love him and its all that matters... :d

Who cares what people think, I have nothing wrong with it but just simply wouldn't do it myself for my own personal reasons.

Do whatever makes you happy.

Hello.

My girlfriend is hispanic and I have found myself more attracted to latinas than to white girls. I thought I had something wrong with me and I shunned my attraction. However I decided not turn my back on it but to enjoy and to love it.

I think your post would make more sense if you could spell and punctuate.

As far as the meaning behind your post, it belongs in the bin! It makes no sense! What does suicide have to do with inter-racial relationships?

you are nothing more than a troll.

If the relative amount of melanin in your skin is all you have to be proud of, that's a pretty poor thing.

Genetically, there may be more difference between people of the same morphological stock and two people of different stocks, even if they look very different - this is definitely true across populations, we all come from pretty much the same stock originally.

Genetically, the single most important heritable trait is simply the natural immunities you aquire, the rest is window dressing.

Culture is really what sets us apart, and I personally cannot respect cultural values that place too much emphasis on external appearence, I think we're past that - preserve the things about culture that are worth preserving, and weed out the arbitrary, atavistic superstition.

Genetic diversity is healthy: populations with hermetic immunity/adaptation profiles are at increased risk from pandemics, and/or climatic shifts - as are sclerotic cultures, unable to respond and adapt to changes in internal or external stressors - humans have become the most successful species on the planet through generalization and adaptation: overspecialization is the single cause of extinction for all species.

My childrens mother is pawnee and dineh, and they are some really good looking kids - better looking than I am, fer sure - anyone with a problem with that is beneath consideration - tougher when it's your parents, possibly, I didn't have that problem at least, the subject never came up.

I am in an extremely similar situation. I am white and my boyfriend is black (nigerian) i've had alot of health problems and we met in january when I was in hospital and he was working there. We just fell completely head over heels in love with each other and we're just getting closer and closer. I told my parents around may thinking they'd be no problem but the reaction was pretty extreme and they've been very unsupportive. His parents are also not very supportive, mainly because they dont believe in dating - they believe you should marry straight away!

I have stood my ground with my parents. I love this guy, he is making me the happiest i've ever been and my health has improved in a miraculous way this year and im sure a big influence in that has been his support. Colour means nothing. All that should matter is loving each other.

I think my mum would come round to the idea because she has met him and is saying he seems a nice guy she just cant understand me being 'attracted' to a black guy but dads sticking his heals in. Whatever happens though me and my boyfriend are not going to give in. We love each other and if being ill has taught me anything its live is too short.

We are planning on moving in together next year a few hours away, we both want to study and we are going to both study in the same place. We both want to spend the rest of our lives together so hopefully our families will support us in the end.

I'd say to anyone in a interracial relationship whose parents are unsupportive don't give up - u'll regret it. Xxx

Lucifer?

Don't encourage the very ignorant......................Obviously a mentally challenged drug induced person with the intellectual capacity of a 2 year old.

If you dismiss someone because of their race.....................It's also obvious .You are the one missing out.......................I've found some very lovely people, both friends and lovers from all races..........................Call me greedy, but gimme gimme some more!!!!!!!! :)

Somebody stop me - yes, that's what inbreeding can do to a person - when they said "try a sista", they didn't actually mean, you know, your sister...

**************nincompoop!*****************

...................Have a nice day!

thats what i'm talking about! Lol

.. If you want to be happy then stay with him, you arn't gonna live with your parents forever or follow there rules forever, just do you, follow your heart, it's your life nobodie elses, dont mind what anyone says! Your not dateing them, your dateing him.. And the only thing that matters is the love you two share.. Good luck in your relationship

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It doesnot matter your boyfriend is half white, half samoan/black, but dont be an emotional fool. If you love some one think of your future also. Caz love does not bring the food on the table, love does not bring the money. May be I sound bad, but that's the reality. Today money talks. If you have money you've got the power. With love-no money you will face problems and you may not get the love from ur boyfriend that you were getting before marriage.


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look i think it is a trend like rap music and everything like that people watch other people do it and think it is cool so they try it not knowing what they are getting into i mean we should all be with our own goddamn race ok not mixing you have a kid it comes out looking like two other races it is stupid and one thing that gets me is why white girls think they need black men i heard from one of them white girls that date black guys and i say she is viably retarded saying their size of their dick is bigger then everyone else but i have to disagree ok they are all the same as everyone else and i have never dated a black girl cause it is not right im white im gonna stay with white girls alright and we should all stick to our own

i'm black and indian and etc. and my husband is polish and middle eastern and etc. And there is nothing wrong with interracial relationships. People are people no matter what. Just keep expressing how you feel to your parents' and maybe one day they'll see from your point of view.