hi and welcome to the forum!

please try not to post in all caps!!! thanks!!!!!

it is possible he had irritated or bruised your cervix. however sex should not hurt
next time try some lube and see if that makes it easier

well it was'nt the girth but the lenght that was so painful. i counld never attempt to take all if it it.

yes sometimes it just takes getting used to try going very slow and each time inserting more and more of it in
eventually you should gte comfy with it
it may cause pressure but it shouldnt hurt

Sex should never hurt, your first time or any time after that.

If he is very long, try positions where you can control the depth of penetration, and avoid positions like doggy style where it can go really deep. Some suggestions are you on top where you can control, you on bottom but with your legs together under his legs (like knees touching), spooning. And always make sure there is plenty of lube, try buying some and using that to see if it help even if you think you have enough yourself.

If it always hurts, you need to see a doc. That means something is wrong.

i guess what im really asking isn't possibly that he's just too long for me.
i have never been touch in that place as long as i have been have sex.
i understand lube and all that, but how is that gonna help with lenght.
help, help,

There is nothing you can do about a long penis. It's going to hit your cervix and that hurts you. He is just going to have to be careful and not thrust deep.

Yes it is possible that he's too long. There is so much infomatin out there about how to make penisis bigger and I think there should be more about how to intercede when they're too long. Imagine a bagel shaped inflatable device he could wear aroung the base. I just broke up with someone because he had a very long penis and sex was just not fun had to be too careful... Poor guy sex is always a problem for him. there should really be a device he could use. Maybe I'll invent something:)