I think we are failing to see the most
important thing to remember, the fact that
we even have a vagina!! So theres the
bright side right there!!! No matter what
it is that makes you uncomfortable
remember this, every body is beautiful no
matter what "abnormalities". No ones is
the same andit sounds like yours is even
more special! I used to be embarrassed
about my vagina because, face it, its
never gonna look the same way it did
before we started making love! But no
matter how uncomfortable I was i never let
it show, I told myself and my partner that
I loved my body and if you tell yourself
that everyday soon you'll see that you
do!! If you accept it so will others and
feeling pride about your own body feels 10
times better than how much it hurts when
you hate it. Hope I could help. You are
all wonderful, beautiful women that
deserve to love every part of yourself!
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-26-07 13:14pm
I was just watching a show and did yu know
labia surgery is very common rite now. It
makes a big difference after getting it
done apperently sex is more comfortable,
clothes fit better, and your confidence
gets better.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-26-07 13:27pm
victoria16
wrote:
I was just watching a show
and did yu know labia surgery is very
common rite now. It makes a big difference
after getting it done apperently sex is
more comfortable, clothes fit better, and
your confidence gets
better.
It is sickening genital mutilation. Its as
sick as male circumcision.
DId you know that in 3rd world countries,
when a girl reaches puberty, she is taken
into a room and other females hold her
down while her clitoris is dug out, and
then her labia are cut down, sometimes off
completely, and then sewn shut so there's
only a tiny hole for her to pee and
menstruate through!? The flesh is cut open
slightly with a knife so she can have
completely pleasureless, painful sex, and
then cut larger again with a knife for
birth. Then it's sewn shut again.
Maybe now you can understand why no woman
should ever be mutilated.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-26-07 13:34pm
Eiri
wrote:
victoria16
wrote:
I was just watching a show
and did yu know labia surgery is very
common rite now. It makes a big difference
after getting it done apperently sex is
more comfortable, clothes fit better, and
your confidence gets
better.
It is sickening genital mutilation. Its as
sick as male circumcision.
DId you know that in 3rd world countries,
when a girl reaches puberty, she is taken
into a room and other females hold her
down while her clitoris is dug out, and
then her labia are cut down, sometimes off
completely, and then sewn shut so there's
only a tiny hole for her to pee and
menstruate through!? The flesh is cut open
slightly with a knife so she can have
completely pleasureless, painful sex, and
then cut larger again with a knife for
birth. Then it's sewn shut again.
Maybe now you can understand why no woman
should ever be
mutilated.
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victoria16
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Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 08-26-07 15:23pm
Eiri
wrote:
victoria16
wrote:
I was just watching a show
and did yu know labia surgery is very
common rite now. It makes a big difference
after getting it done apperently sex is
more comfortable, clothes fit better, and
your confidence gets
better.
It is sickening genital mutilation. Its as
sick as male circumcision.
DId you know that in 3rd world countries,
when a girl reaches puberty, she is taken
into a room and other females hold her
down while her clitoris is dug out, and
then her labia are cut down, sometimes off
completely, and then sewn shut so there's
only a tiny hole for her to pee and
menstruate through!? The flesh is cut open
slightly with a knife so she can have
completely pleasureless, painful sex, and
then cut larger again with a knife for
birth. Then it's sewn shut again.
Maybe now you can understand why no woman
should ever be
mutilated.
WOW!! Im not sugesting we tie her down
cutt of her clitoris and chop off her
labia. Its a simple reconstructive
suregery to help woman feel better about
them selves. Yu know, something they chose
to do. Its very common in Holly wood rite
now that was all I was saying, so chill. N
Im going to have my son circumsized, just
like his dad.
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 08-26-07 16:03pm
I'm going to tell you the same thing my
husband has been telling me for years. You
have to learn to be happy with yourself as
you are. Accepting yourself and all your
special qualities is important to do in
order to be happy. Sure, you can have
surgery or do other things but it will
never be enough. That's how we get all
these surgery addicts.
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-26-07 16:11pm
monkeygirl22
wrote:
I'm going to tell you the
same thing my husband has been telling me
for years. You have to learn to be happy
with yourself as you are. Accepting
yourself and all your special qualities is
important to do in order to be happy.
Sure, you can have surgery or do other
things but it will never be enough. That's
how we get all these surgery
addicts.
True. Its become very common.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-26-07 16:33pm
I still find any surgery on a woman's most
private and beautiful body part to be
insulting. Every woman is different and
that's how nature intended it. Unless you
were cutting up your vuvla to look exactly
like mine, you're pretty much saying that
neither mine nor any other woman's vulva
is beautiful except your own fake one. A
real vulva beats that any day.
I've got weird things about my vulva and
vagina, but I'd never let someone slice at
them. The thought sickens me.
No woman is perfect. We are all
asymmetrical because nothing is perfect.
I'd go into a long spiel about how
asymmetry is actually the perfection of
nature but I don't think anyone cares. I
believe that unless something is
ridiculously wrong (aka... a foot-long
labia, super saggy post-nursing breasts)
then nothing needs to be done.
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victoria16
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Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 08-26-07 16:40pm
Eiri
wrote:
I still find any surgery on
a woman's most private and beautiful body
part to be insulting. Every woman is
different and that's how nature intended
it. Unless you were cutting up your vuvla
to look exactly like mine, you're pretty
much saying that neither mine nor any
other woman's vulva is beautiful except
your own fake one. A real vulva beats that
any day.
I've got weird things about my vulva and
vagina, but I'd never let someone slice at
them. The thought sickens me.
No woman is perfect. We are all
asymmetrical because nothing is perfect.
I'd go into a long spiel about how
asymmetry is actually the perfection of
nature but I don't think anyone cares. I
believe that unless something is
ridiculously wrong (aka... a foot-long
labia, super saggy post-nursing breasts)
then nothing needs to be
done.
I understand were you are coming from.
Everyone was made the way they were
intended to be...but Im just saying
surgery is an option I personaly wouldnt
choose to get surgery done on my self
because though I have things I dont
exactly like about my self Im not going to
run to the nearest doctor willing to cut
staple, me etc. but thier are some people
who feel plagued by some personal issues.
