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C0245
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I Hate My Vagina
Posted: 08-19-07 08:09am
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One of my inner lips is very long, brown
and wrinkly whereas the other one is much
smaller and pink. I know that some women
have big lips and others have small ones
and I wouldn't mind if both mine were the
same but the fact that they very
drastically don't match really upsets me.
My clitoris on the side of the large labia
is also really meaty and thick but it's
not the same on the other side!
I've only had sex once in my life about 2
years ago and it was then that I noticed
it and now it bothers me so much that I
can't bring myself to get close to another
guy again because I know he'll notice how
odd it looks. It's made me really shy and
self conscious and I've split up with guys
once sex started to become an issue, which
is a real shame!
Is there anything I can do about it? Or is
there anyone else the same?
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-19-07 14:22pm
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Everyones vagina is different.
...I dont know if yu have heard this, but
you know how people are more critical
about them selves, like I hate my legs but
people tell me all the time I have great
legs...maybe its not as bad as you think.
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unknownperson
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Posted: 08-19-07 14:32pm
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Yeah.. I'm sure it doesn't look 'bad',
just different. Honest, I'm sure some
people would even like that it's
different.
But if you must, you may be able to get
surgery and have the longer one trimmed...
I don't know if they offer that, but if I
were you, I'd stay you.
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-19-07 14:43pm
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| unknownperson
wrote: | Yeah.. I'm sure it doesn't
look 'bad', just different. Honest, I'm
sure some people would even like that it's
different.
But if you must, you may be able to get
surgery and have the longer one trimmed...
I don't know if they offer that, but if I
were you, I'd stay
you. |
I agrea, stay you.  But maybe
surgery is an opption if you really
believe its affecting that negatively. But
its ur choice.
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Tylanas
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Re: I Hate My Vagina
Posted: 08-19-07 15:14pm
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| C0245
wrote: | One of my inner lips is very
long, brown and wrinkly whereas the other
one is much smaller and pink. I know that
some women have big lips and others have
small ones and I wouldn't mind if both
mine were the same but the fact that they
very drastically don't match really upsets
me.
My clitoris on the side of the large labia
is also really meaty and thick but it's
not the same on the other side!
I've only had sex once in my life about 2
years ago and it was then that I noticed
it and now it bothers me so much that I
can't bring myself to get close to another
guy again because I know he'll notice how
odd it looks. It's made me really shy and
self conscious and I've split up with guys
once sex started to become an issue, which
is a real shame!
Is there anything I can do about it? Or is
there anyone else the
same? |
Hun, everyone is different down there. I
have a giant brown birthmark that covers
my left inner thigh, the left labia and
part of my clitoris. It's flat, but it
looks like I took a doo doo all over
myself :/
I have never been embarrassed or
uncomfortable about it because it's just who I
am. I've had it since birth. It's
visible in "short-shorts", and every
bathing suit known to man shows it off.
Yet, I was still on swim-team, wearing a
bathing suit 3-4 hours a day. Screw what
other people think!
If you treat your body as normal, other
people will too.
Yes, both you and I could have cosmetic
surgery to remove and fix these
"blemishes". But I refuse to change what
ain't broke. I can orgasm, and I bet you
can too. So why risk a surgery that could
potentially remove that?
I'll live with my giant freckle, thanks.
It's my "love spot".
Not every woman is "perfectly even"! In
fact, most women had "lopsided" inner
labia, just like guys have one testicle
that hangs below the other!
I know that if I was a guy, I wouldn't
turn you down just because you had special
labia. I'd cherish them!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:15pm
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There are fetishes devoted to large or
uneven labia. Don't worry about it! He'll
be so happy to be having sex that he
either won't notice or will like it. Trust
me. Guys aren't nearly as picky as we
think.
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:33pm
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I really dont think anyone will treat you
any differently. So you said you had one
sexual expierence before, did the guy say
something?
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C0245
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:43pm
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Thanks for all your replies, I guess it's
just something I'll have to learn to live
with since I don't fancy surgery eek! lol
| victoria16
wrote: | | I really dont think anyone
will treat you any differently. So you
said you had one sexual expierence before,
did the guy say
something? |
No he never mentioned it, that was just
the first time I became aware of it
myself, thats why nothing has happened
since then.
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:50pm
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| C0245
wrote: | Thanks for all your replies,
I guess it's just something I'll have to
learn to live with since I don't fancy
surgery eek! lol
| victoria16
wrote: | | I really dont think anyone
will treat you any differently. So you
said you had one sexual expierence before,
did the guy say
something? |
No he never mentioned it, that was just
the first time I became aware of it
myself, thats why nothing has happened
since then. |
lol Im not big on suregery either. SO he
didnt even notice? You know you shouldnt
worry about it so much.
Im sure it looks just fine.
However I am sorry that you have been
feeling so uncomfortable.
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Birch
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:53pm
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I'd be willing to bet that very, very,
very few guys would turn down sex because
of how you looked down yonder.
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:58pm
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| Birch
wrote: | | I'd be willing to bet that
very, very, very few guys would turn down
sex because of how you looked down
yonder. |
Lol yur rite. N yu know, I personally
think that its not that good looking down
thier but my fiance thinks its beautiful.
Thats a guy for yu. 
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Shanelleabella
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Posted: 08-20-07 21:38pm
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MOST men really dont care what it looks
like as long as its there....i asked my
boyfriend on this question and thats what
he said....you shouldnt worry too much
about it...i dont like the way my vagina
looks thats why i always have the lights
off 
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Shanelleabella
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Posted: 08-20-07 21:41pm
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MOST men really dont care what it looks
like as long as its there....i asked my
boyfriend on this question and thats what
he said....you shouldnt worry too much
about it...i dont like the way my vagina
looks thats why i always have the lights
off
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babygirl24
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Re: I Hate My Vagina
Posted: 08-20-07 21:53pm
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hi mines the same way too im
sorta happy now that i know im not alone.
but mine are the same way but both and i
feel real bad about it. and thats cause im
scared to tell my mom lol. but yah i need
help to so people please comment back.
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Tylanas
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Re: I Hate My Vagina
Posted: 08-20-07 22:03pm
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| babygirl24
wrote: | | hi mines the same way too
im
sorta happy now that i know im not alone.
but mine are the same way but both and i
feel real bad about it. and thats cause im
scared to tell my mom lol. but yah i need
help to so people please comment
back. |
Why do you need to tell your mom? Your
labia are none of her business... I've
never discussed my genitals with my mom...
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C0245
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Posted: 08-21-07 08:14am
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You know sometimes you just need someone
to tell you how silly your being lol! All
these posts have actually really helped me
calm down about the whole thing.
Also, babygirl, theres no need to tell
your mum I guess we both just have to take
a step back and realise that as long as
we're ok with it then guys will be too.
I told my mum once about a year ago just
because I felt like I needed her opinion
on whether it was weird or not but she
didn't even bat an eyelid about it and she
pretty much forgot the whole conversation
happened soon after lol because, like
everyone keeps telling me, it's not a big
deal.
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babygirl24
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Thank You
Posted: 08-21-07 22:17pm
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its caause im worried that its not going
to be healthy for you is it ok health
wise. and dose it bother you too when you
wear tight pants sorry for asking i just
been needeing to talk to some one about
it. and i feell alittle bite better
thank you and please reply 
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C0245
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Posted: 08-22-07 12:54pm
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Sometimes it can be uncomfortable when I
wear french knickers but it's never caused
me any problems health wise. I have been
reading a lot on the subject online lately
and it seems that theres absolutly no
reason to be worried about health issues
just because of the size of your labia, as
long as your not experiencing any actual
symptoms that would suggest otherwise
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-22-07 13:31pm
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You just need more comfy underthings...
Some types of
underwear are uncomfortable for everyone,
regardless of the size of your labia lol.
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Honekaur
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I Agree...with Everyone!
Posted: 08-23-07 19:51pm
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I'm not trying to be preachy, but it's the
darn media's fault for making us feel bad
about the small differences that we have.
We can't all look like Paris Hilton or
whoever.
And I have to say mine are "small
differences". I never liked how small my
boobs are; I was really flat in high
school then I finally got to a 32B and
stopped growing when I was probably 17 or
so.
I was self conscious about them at first,
but then realized that everyone's are
different and plastic surgery has way too
many complications.
So I just accepted them and got on with
life (Any boyfriend that I've had was even
against me getting plastic surgery).
Besides, everyone thinks I have a great
butt! So flaunt your best asset and
forget what anyone else thinks!
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