Me and my boyfriend have been having sex
for a while now which is great but he
always goes on top as that is what i like
best at the moment. I want to try and go
on top soon though but i dont no what to
do really ? Also
I never seem to be able to have an orgasm
when we have sex but i do when we do oral
can someone please help me
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moviefreak00
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2007 Posts: 13 Location: IL
Woman On Top Posted: 08-18-07 19:34pm
For the most part you really just need to
go for it. Once you try out the position
you'll figure it out. You don't even have
to do all the work.
You can start off with kind of holding
yourself up a little and leaning forwards
with your hands on the bed and your
boyfriend can control the thrusting.
You'll figure out a rhythm just like I'm
sure you have done when he is on top.
As far as not orgasming during sex, I
don't know if you've read the other posts
on the topic. Many women can not get
vaginal orgasm's. Usually only clitoral,
which is why you have orgasmed during oral
before. That is the only way I can as
well, or if you can figure out a position
where he is stimulating your clitoris
during intercourse that could help to.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-18-07 19:43pm
only 10% of women can have a vaginal
orgasm during sex
clitoral stimulation is how most women
have orgasms
also its great with the girl on
top...travis loves it infact ive
been on top alot lately and its not hard.
just go for it and you will get used to it
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:20pm
Just jump on him and it will come
naturally lol. When you're on top, there
is also a lot more space for you to
stimulate yourself or for him to stimulate
your clitoris. Imagine, having sex with
him and he's got one hand on your breast
and one on your clit- I'll bet you can
climax this way.
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 08-21-07 21:47pm
It's not like there's one correct way to
do it. If you are comfortable enough to
sleep with your boyfriend, you should be
comfortable enough to experiment a little
with him. So if you want to try being on
top, try it. The worst that will happen
is that you two won't like it. Not a big
deal.
More women orgasm from oral sex than from
any other way. Just make sure your
clitoris is being stimulated.
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Aryeani
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 128 Location: Edinburg, Texas, United States
Posted: 08-21-07 22:52pm
There's not really a correct way to be on
top. Every couple has their own rhythm and
it's just the process of finding it.
You'll find that once you start, it'll
just come naturally and it's amazing too!
Just go for it and don't be afraid
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zoidberg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2007 Posts: 49 Location: Paris, France
Also
I never seem to be able to have an orgasm
when we have sex but i do when we do oral
can someone please help me 
infact ive
been on top alot lately and its not hard.
just go for it and you will get used to it
