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Q: Have to Talk About the Ex-fiancee
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Tylanas
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My fear is that it's the puta he dated years ago and broke up with, Cora. Cora is psychotic. There is no other way to describe it. She has called him so many disgusting things, insulted his size, his capabilities, called him a jerk, etc in years past after he broke up with her.
I shall take the higher road and refrain from doing any of that, because quite frankly he's not small, he is good in bed, and he's gentler than a lamb.
So then of course last night I have a dream about how he comes back to my college and we end up having sex and I get pregnant and we decide I'll have to get in the airforce after college if we want to make this work. We even reenacted part of Grease with me writhing all over a car (thank you "Places to have Sex" thread
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Yes, of course I'm jealous!! I am positively green!! An online friend suggested that I must still love him, and of course I ... did (until this). But just cause I loved him didn't mean the relationship was going to work.
I'm just... appalled!! Like a shocked stereotypical British lady when someone drops a cracker in her tea!
"Well I never! This is an outrage!!"
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young Girl
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Georgia59
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Georgia59
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Tylanas
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Georgia59
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Birch
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Tylanas
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young Girl
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The Ginger 1
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| the_girlfreind wrote: |
| ahh that darn puta
they always complicate things lol |
What's a 'Puta' ?
My ex and I parted nearly 8 years ago .. it was an amicable break-up although I found him out 'doing it' with one of my friends .. as we had finacial ties, we had to come to some agreement on how to split the house etc ... after we were thru, no ties, and he married her, and made her life hell
I started trusting men again (my hubby) and started dating ... My Ex started getting all possissive over me, he didn't like that I moved on .. he started calling the house at all hours to see if I was alone ... I knew if I told his wife, he'd deny it, and she's come over to 'pull my hair out' .. so it got me down, cos I thought there was no way out .. I told Mike .. then he called again, and just laughed at me and hung up ... I think he did it to scare me ... Mike was there when he did it.. he called him and asked him to stop, when my Ex said it wasn't him .. Mike stated that it was 'stalking' and he'd report him ... then Mike said or I could pop around and break your knee-caps .. you decide mate !!??
I've seen him once since.... and he crossed the road to avoid me ..
Eiri ... I know it sounds mad ... but ... try and get over him .... and find someone else .. if you 2 were meant to be, then fate will bring you back together again... you're still young enough to have a great life .. with someone new ...
if laid n waited for my ex to return, I wouldn't be happy now .. my ex was a bad egg, and now I can see it was him that made me so un-happy, which put me into depression ... it's now considered as mental abuse ..as he was making out I was insane and paranoid.. and I was seeing things .. like lipstick on his collar .. which wasn't mine !!!
It is good to talk things like this thru with friends, as they can see more clearly, as love sometimes makes you blind ....
((((HUGS)))))
Ginger
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The Ginger 1
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| Eiri wrote: |
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I'm just... appalled!! Like a shocked stereotypical British lady when someone drops a cracker in her tea! "Well I never! This is an outrage!!" |
I love it when I drop a biccie in my tea, gives me something to spoon out. ... but I know what you mean .. them ones that are right prim n proper, and they still do exist ... laaa deee daaa ladies .... they're scary as I think they've forgotten how to smile ..
he he he I'm a Brit (as I've said loads of times now) 
but I'm a bit of a 'ladette' ... however, I can be lady-like when I gotta ..
Sorry ---- I digressed .... but I thought this funny ...
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Tylanas
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I knew we had Brits on here, s'why I said it 
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young Girl
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| The Ginger 1 wrote: | ||
What's a 'Puta' ?
My ex and I parted nearly 8 years ago .. it was an amicable break-up although I found him out 'doing it' with one of my friends .. as we had finacial ties, we had to come to some agreement on how to split the house etc ... after we were thru, no ties, and he married her, and made her life hell
I started trusting men again (my hubby) and started dating ... My Ex started getting all possissive over me, he didn't like that I moved on .. he started calling the house at all hours to see if I was alone ... I knew if I told his wife, he'd deny it, and she's come over to 'pull my hair out' .. so it got me down, cos I thought there was no way out .. I told Mike .. then he called again, and just laughed at me and hung up ... I think he did it to scare me ... Mike was there when he did it.. he called him and asked him to stop, when my Ex said it wasn't him .. Mike stated that it was 'stalking' and he'd report him ... then Mike said or I could pop around and break your knee-caps .. you decide mate !!?? I've seen him once since.... and he crossed the road to avoid me .. Eiri ... I know it sounds mad ... but ... try and get over him .... and find someone else .. if you 2 were meant to be, then fate will bring you back together again... you're still young enough to have a great life .. with someone new ... if laid n waited for my ex to return, I wouldn't be happy now .. my ex was a bad egg, and now I can see it was him that made me so un-happy, which put me into depression ... it's now considered as mental abuse ..as he was making out I was insane and paranoid.. and I was seeing things .. like lipstick on his collar .. which wasn't mine !!!
It is good to talk things like this thru with friends, as they can see more clearly, as love sometimes makes you blind .... ((((HUGS))))) Ginger |
ahh ginger
you can thank the spaniards for that word
(eiri it is spainish right?)
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Tylanas
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oxfragilerosexo
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| The Ginger 1 wrote: | ||
What's a 'Puta' ?
Ginger |
Puta means prostitute, promiscuous person or prostitute in Catalan, Galician, Spanish, Portuguese and Tagalog. See also Spanish profanity. Said to both women and men. The term for men is "puto" and it has a total different meaning in portuguese (kid) and in brazilian portuguese (angry). Puta has most recently been used as an American slang word for "health forum".
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The Ginger 1
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nightangel73
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Tylanas
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sillyakchick
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