have you recieved it? just out of interest more than anything else.

I don't really like giving oral sex to women, however the main/only joy I do get out of it is knowing i made her feel good, and hopefully getting the act returned.

I doubt many women would be too annoyed, but you'd probably have to do something else that was more just for them? I dunno.

If it makes you feel any better I have never enjoyed being given oral. I just don't want it. I still like to give it though.

Girls vary. You should talk to your wife and ask her what she wants.

I have received oral sex, although I never ask a woman to do this. It is strictly voluntary and I do enjoy receiving, but I really like intercourse with penetration much more. I could probably go forever without recieving oral sex again and be just fine. I could take it or leave it in regards to receiving...giving it is something I just can't/won't do.

That does make me feel a little better. All I hear about nowadays is how big and important oral sex is. For somebody who is not interested in this act, it is becoming more and more embarrassing. I still am hoping to hear more opinions on this matter.

no your fine - there are many men that do it and many men that don't do it and many men who havent even considered doing it - it doesnt mean your gay or anything of that nature

Truthfully it it makes your toungue ache and takes a long time but i do it because i know it makes her feel good

Oral sex is about how you make them feel more than how it makes you feel...

To me every woman tastes/smells different...I had a couple really bad experiences and a few really good ones...The woman I am with now was/is and will always be the love of my life...I posted somewhere else about performance anxiety with her but once I did it it was no biggie...In a weird sort of way its a power thing...To see her moan uncontrollably(probably a little theatrical) and squirm and to feel her orgasm at least imho is the best...I would rather give oral to her then get it any day I can't honestly say that I have ever received a good BJ in my life...I hate teeth and getting scraped and scratched...im ok length with decent width and everyone till this point says they cant put it in there mouth...

Me personally, I would feel like I held out on her if I didn't do it regardless if she ever did it for me...But I understand its not for everyone...

there is nothing to be embarassed about. its a personnal preference. to each his own. the only two it should make a difference too is you and your partner. if she is ok with you not performing on her then there is no problem. you should talk to her and make sure she is ok with this.

Why does it say "Copied" beside the topic now? Does that mean I copied my question from someone else?

Thanks