I think in cases like this that the man should be able to sign away all rights to the future child, agree that he will never attempt to contact mother or child in the future - and thus NOT be forced to pay child support.
|Quite untrue for you to state that no matter what the biological father will play some role. No contact in the future means no contact in the future.
What about a 1-night stand? What if they are teens when they get pregnant? What if the woman gets married when the child is young - the child has a father so why would the child have any desire to find some guy who once had sex with their mom?
I am referring to the situation where there will be no future contact.
What if that leaves the child in poverty? It that not unfair on the child, who after all, did not ask to be created?
perhaps some wouldn't, but I know if my mother told me now that my dad wasn't my real dad I'd definatly want to find the man who was.
When the woman made the decision to have a child without the father's involvement that would be the risk that she took - and the responsibility that she took on. It was her decision to raise a child in a situation where the child can't be properly provided for.
Women are just as capable of providing for a family as a man is.
|If the guy doesn't want kids he should wear a bloody condom. Pure and simple. If he can't do that, then he'll have to do what the woman he knocked up has to do and 'face the consequences'.
(Bless? what filters.)
pfft if the woman doesn't want it she should ask him to wear a condom
sex is a two (usually) person act, don't blame either gender for pregnancy
he didn't knock her up, unless it was rape they did it together.
therefore they are both responsible...
don't the leave the other hangin...
|yeah because it is her body
she will be carrying that baby for 9months..
the guy wont..
i don't understand how you think it is fair for a woman
to put her body through that if she doesn't want to...
but you are saying that they are both responsible
and they are
but i think the woman has more say than the man on what she wants
HER body to go through and endure...
|Quite untrue for you to state that no matter what the biological father will play some role. No contact in the future means no contact in the future.|
|well it's a biological factor..
the man can not have a pregnancy...
and yeah it is 9months..
that's a long time.. ask any woman on here that has been pregnant..
do you know the hormones that pregnant women go through??...
and all the changes their body goes through...
not to mention labor..
none of that the man has to do any of...
if a man wanted a child
maybe he should have talked to the woman before having sex with her
and made sure they were both on the same page with having children
it's a responsibility issue...
this is kinda the same as someone telling a man he has to get snipped...
but he doesn't want to..
b/c it's his body...
but the woman wants him to..
b/c she doesn't want anymore kids..
do you see now?
|However, I have not reconciled this to figure out how this would not leave many women and children in poverty. Any ideas?