Omg what happened stacie? He left you? Why?

I am a mess. Last night larry came home and he said to me, "can I go to matt's here at 11:30." I was like yeah but I was really wanting to spend sometime with you. But he went anyway. Stating that he would be back by 1am. I wake up this morning at 6am, to get sean a bottle and he was not home. I get up 6:30 for school and leave at 20 after 7. He did not come home until close to 10am. Everyone in the house is pissed. Him and I fought, he is intoxicated. So I left after he sobbered up and stuff, I let him sleep for 4 hours.Well then we fight some more about why he would do that, and we end up breaking up. Now I am at the library and I called him to tell him regardless I love him with everything. His comment "you dont love me, or we wouldnt fight like this. You are not the girl I want to be with and you arent the girl for me...Click" I love him. How am I supposed to live in the same house as him and not be with him. If he lives there how am I supposed to have a life? I look at him and try to tell my grandma ohh it must have slipped his mind. Why am I doing this?? Please call me I dont know what the hell I am doing in my life anymore. I am now crying in public. I love you, thanks for listening. I dont care what time it is!!

Hello?

Aww girl, calm down....Im sorry about everything and im right with you..Ive been through all this before...If he leaves you then he isn't the one for you! I know u have lil sean and really, stace, thats all u need! Look after urself and him...First and foremost...

Jordan and jaydyn

I dont think I can do this by myself..

If anyone is available I am on aol

I know I cant do this by myself, and he will be living in my house, then I cant have a ife what the medical question

Stacie you can do this by yourself. Your a strong girl. And if larry doesn't want to be with you, tell him to get the f*** out of your house then. Why should he be allowed to live there if he is going to treat you with that kind of disrespect. You don't have to put up with it. And maybe he'll come around, but if he don't then your obviously better off. What is your aol sn??? You'll be ok girl!

I wont be doing it ok. I cant kick him out because I want him to be with sean. And he doesnt know anyone but that matt kid here and he isnt old enough to get a place. And it isnt my house. I dont know what the hell I am doing. How am I supposed to get my education. I have already missed two days this week.. medical question. I am so lost..

Mesmerizeu16 on aol

Stacie,
i am going somewhere so I cannot get on-line but I want you to know I am here for you. I knwo how hard it must be. I'm going through a semi-dame situation with joshua right now! I am you and larry will work this out and you will be fine. Sweetie, why don't you call me tonight ok. I'm here fro you babe!
Love,
chanda

I cant call you I dont have my cell....Ahhh *screaming my head off*

That is so weird! That's exactly what aj did to me last weekend!! I asked him to come over and help me, and he said he would if he had time to after he got done doing some stuff he had to get done around the house. Well, he never called to say he was done or anything like that. Then, I found out that he had went out to a party and got drunk and passed out and then walked home around 5am the next morning. What a loser! Don't you think we deserve better than that!?!! I mean come on...We're the one's that had to go through all that pain to have their kids!!


Crystal

Aww stacie calm down hun. I am sure he will come to his senses. You guys have so much together and I doubt he will just throw it all away. I went on aol, but you weren't on. I'll be back later hun. Stay strong!

~sara~

You could do it on your own. Your not the only teenage mother who has had to raise a child on their own. Think about it this way there must be a specific reason that he is acting the way he is. Love sometimes isn't enough in a relationship. Your main priority right now and for the next 18 years is your son. Guys come and go. I'm sorry if I sound a little harsh, but being one of the oldest here I think I really know what guys are like. You will find somebody that is good for you and your son. I'm not trying to be mean, but why don't you sincerly ask him if the reason he doesn't want to be with you is because of a another girl. If not then asked him what changed in his life that he feels that he doesn't need you in it anymore. I know it's hard to think of, but you can't let him play games with you. Love and life sucks all in one. I hope things are okay, maybe he was just mad. Try and talk to him like an adult, and try not to show too much emotion. Tell him to talk to you with the truth and not lie, that your no longer a little girl.
I'm not trying to be noisy, but why is it that you live in the same house, and why is it not your chioce if he leaves or not.

Brenda

Stacie,

i know I just called you but all of us are right. You can make it on your own even if he says you arent the girl he wants to be with. Then screw him, let him go. Be an independant woman. If he doesnt want to be with you, kick him out. So what if its not your house, its your grandma and he has no reason to be there. Let him tough it out, thats why hes a man. He wants to play, he has to pay. If he leaves then you can collect welfare. You could even get food stamps right now. Just go apply. And have larry pay child support if this is what he wants to do and he can have visitation with sean. You can let him hurt you like this. You do everything on your own already, hes just there. You can get indepentant study if you need to. Dont stay because you feel like you have no other choice. Right now its all about you and sean ok! Take care!

Stacie,
ok, all these girls have good advice. Now, I am going to speak with reality! I know you won't just leave larry, nor will you throw him out. I would never do it to joshua either! Sweetie, talk to him. Try and work this out. You need him and he needs you. Ya'll love one another....However, if after the talking and the time apart and stuff, it still doesn't work, then you might need to move on. Babe, I know it's hard. Oh god do I know
but you are strong and wonderful and if ya'll can't work it out..... Then you have to do what is best for you and for your son!
Love,
chanda

Awwwwww im sorry stacie but if he wants to act like that, he could still see sean, but he should consider lookin for other living arrangements. You've housed him and helped him and he goes out and acts like this? He cant say u dont love him cuz u wouldnt fight like that, all couples fight, thats what a healthy relationship depends on.. U need to fight once in awhile... I hope ur feeling better.... Maybe u could look into a daycare and get subsidized by the government?? Do u have a school nurse at ur school? Maybe she'd be able to help u out... Im sorry everythings so hard right now.. I hope u feel better

shauna

Stacie i'm really sorry to hear about this but for now you need to worry about you and sean. Larry needs to medical question grow up! If he wants to go then let him go but you better make his ass pay child support! They will make him get a job if he doesn't already have one. Let him know that he can't just walk away eithout paying the price! I hope that once you both calm down you can work this out but if not he will pay! I will make sure of that!!!!!!



Xoxoxo,
angie & rylee

Thanks girls, things ended up working out. He came home at like 11:30 and he brought me a candle and a card. I am sucker for candles!! But he apologized and we have sex. It was great. Thanks ladies

yeah jen we had sex!!

Love, stacie