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When my fiance goes out with his freinds or sister etc. I get jelouse.
Its like when yur little and yu have a best freind and she was invited to go to another school girls b-day party but yur not invited. yu know? I think i'm over reacting, but I somethimes end up crying cuz I feel left out. Like hes having fun with out me, or when he forgets to call its rare but it hurts my feelings.
Its like when yur little and yu have a best freind and she was invited to go to another school girls b-day party but yur not invited. yu know? I think i'm over reacting, but I somethimes end up crying cuz I feel left out. Like hes having fun with out me, or when he forgets to call its rare but it hurts my feelings.
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jelousey is not good victoria 
you have to someway get over these feelings because sometime it can hurt realtionships really badly
you have to someway get over these feelings because sometime it can hurt realtionships really badly
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| the_girlfreind wrote: |
| jelousey is not good victoria you have to someway get over these feelings because sometime it can hurt realtionships really badly |
Yahh I know I been trying, I've gotten better. But its wierd it started like 2 months ago, it hasnt been the whole time weve been going out.
It just happend out of the blue?
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its an attachment thing
but then again travis and me never go out without each other so i dunno how i would react to the situation your in
it must be tough but you have to remember he loves you
not any one else so just keep calm and never get mad at him about it because its a huge turn off for guys
but then again travis and me never go out without each other so i dunno how i would react to the situation your in
it must be tough but you have to remember he loves you
not any one else so just keep calm and never get mad at him about it because its a huge turn off for guys
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Maybe it would help if you tried to have fun while he was out. Meaning, if he leaves, (I'm assuming you live with him though I don't really know) then take advantage of it, have a long bubble bath, invite a girlfriend over and watch movies he won't watch with you, go shopping, whatever makes you happy.
If you focus more on your enjoyment and not his, it might help. You will have to learn to let go
he is allowed to have his fun without you, just like you should have fun without him.
I know what you mean, though. You gotta fight it. Trust me, when you're married it will go away- you'll want him gone every once in a while....
If you focus more on your enjoyment and not his, it might help. You will have to learn to let go
he is allowed to have his fun without you, just like you should have fun without him.
I know what you mean, though. You gotta fight it. Trust me, when you're married it will go away- you'll want him gone every once in a while....
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| Georgia59 wrote: |
| Maybe it would help if you tried to have fun while he was out. Meaning, if he leaves, (I'm assuming you live with him though I don't really know) then take advantage of it, have a long bubble bath, invite a girlfriend over and watch movies he won't watch with you, go shopping, whatever makes you happy.
If you focus more on your enjoyment and not his, it might help. You will have to learn to let go he is allowed to have his fun without you, just like you should have fun without him.
I know what you mean, though. You gotta fight it. Trust me, when you're married it will go away- you'll want him gone every once in a while.... |
Ya I suppose yur rite. It would be nice to get some me time.
SHOPPING sounds lovely. lol I just wish I didnt feel so crappy, and its not all the time that I feel this way just sometimes. But hes very busiy alot of time hes working 2 jobs, his father often calls him to come in to work, since its a family buisness, well one job, he works at another place also.
Recently I told Chas (my fiance) that maybe we could do some double dating, I figured then I wouldnt feel so left out. I even offered to help his family with thier buisness for the day, and it was quite fun even though it was alot of work.
I have even been having friends over more often like when hes buisy, so atleast I'm getting somewhere. Thanx for the advice.
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If he goes on a night out with friends or sister, then maybe treat yourself to one too when he does, get out there and enjoy girlfriend time 
..And on the occasion ask him if you "Both" can go on a night out together..
I love going out with the gals, I love Hubby's company, but there is something about girl time too..
..And on the occasion ask him if you "Both" can go on a night out together..
I love going out with the gals, I love Hubby's company, but there is something about girl time too..
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| Chezzy wrote: |
| If he goes on a night out with friends or sister, then maybe treat yourself to one too when he does, get out there and enjoy girlfriend time ..And on the occasion ask him if you "Both" can go on a night out together..
I love going out with the gals, I love Hubby's company, but there is something about girl time too.. |
Yaaa. An thiers so many things that only yur Gf's would understand.
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lol im going "shopping" this weekend
and travis is takeing me
its horrible when he goes
he picks out the first thing he sees in hopes to hurry me out of the store lol
and travis is takeing me
its horrible when he goes
he picks out the first thing he sees in hopes to hurry me out of the store lol
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| the_girlfreind wrote: |
| lol im going "shopping" this weekend
and travis is takeing me its horrible when he goes he picks out the first thing he sees in hopes to hurry me out of the store lol |
Oh well thats the typical guy for yu, Chas will go in with me n pretend he interested but hes really not. lol Its obviouse
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How is every thing going now ?I use to have the same issue with my husband when we first started out as well lol , we were very young to now am 27 and we have been together for 9y . I started to go out and acting like I didn't care and before you know it he was telling me " let just stay home this weekend " lol try that
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| Boojeanie wrote: |
| How is every thing going now ?I use to have the same issue with my husband when we first started out as well lol , we were very young to now am 27 and we have been together for 9y . I started to go out and acting like I didn't care and before you know it he was telling me " let just stay home this weekend " lol try that |
AWW thats sweet...I would love for chas to say that...he does ask me on dates alot but still. An I wish I could ask him to just hang with me alll weekend but hes got work all the time.
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ehh I can be the same way, but I try to bite my tongue..its hard but, I just tell myself if he wants to be with me, and loves me, then its his choice..I can't make him love me you know..and if he does love me then, he wont do anything out of line...8 months of our relationship was long distance bc i was in college, it was hard but..we've made it...we still make cute little jokes to each other you know haha..."so you get any numbers tonight"...its hard not to get jealous but, sometimes I like it if I see a girl lookin at my man, its my hand he's holdin not hers..and at the end of the night..he's leavin with me tooooo bad
tooooo bad
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| worrywart001 wrote: |
| ehh I can be the same way, but I try to bite my tongue..its hard but, I just tell myself if he wants to be with me, and loves me, then its his choice..I can't make him love me you know..and if he does love me then, he wont do anything out of line...8 months of our relationship was long distance bc i was in college, it was hard but..we've made it...we still make cute little jokes to each other you know haha..."so you get any numbers tonight"...its hard not to get jealous but, sometimes I like it if I see a girl lookin at my man, its my hand he's holdin not hers..and at the end of the night..he's leavin with me tooooo bad |
lol Its funny cause girls look at him but not really. Everyone always asks me why Im with him cuz they think hes funny looking and Im a model...but love is blind. N I know he loves me or he wouldnt have asked me to marry him.
So worrywort011, how yu long yu n yur man been 2geather?
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just over 14 months..never ever saw it comin haha..we met a few years ago, worked together but didn't click..i came back after a year of college and went back to my job for the summer, he was still there and kept buggin me about goin on a date but i kept turning him down..him and my bro are friends..thought it'd be weird, finally gave in and glad i did
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| worrywart001 wrote: |
| just over 14 months..never ever saw it comin haha..we met a few years ago, worked together but didn't click..i came back after a year of college and went back to my job for the summer, he was still there and kept buggin me about goin on a date but i kept turning him down..him and my bro are friends..thought it'd be weird, finally gave in and glad i did |
AWW thats like a movie love storie.
lol My fiance b4 we were going out was telling everyone I was his future gf, n guess wat happend. lol
Hey I wanna put a pic up of me an my bf so yu girls can see what he looks like. can anyone tell me how 2?
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no idea how to! i can't wait to finally get married, we have promise rings right now that we wear...my cousin is engaged to a guy shes been dating since sophomore year of college so..about 4 years now and they're getting married next year, she just graduated...I'm just ready to get through school and start my life you know...I'll be into my junior year of college in the spring..i'm just tired of the in between phase I guess...lol...but I wanna do anything and everything to make it work with him, I can't imagine being without him..even when we fight..i can't sleep until i make things ok, I wanna wake up and have him be the first thing I see every morning wow i'm a cheeseball
wow i'm a cheeseball
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| worrywart001 wrote: |
| no idea how to! i can't wait to finally get married, we have promise rings right now that we wear...my cousin is engaged to a guy shes been dating since sophomore year of college so..about 4 years now and they're getting married next year, she just graduated...I'm just ready to get through school and start my life you know...I'll be into my junior year of college in the spring..i'm just tired of the in between phase I guess...lol...but I wanna do anything and everything to make it work with him, I can't imagine being without him..even when we fight..i can't sleep until i make things ok, I wanna wake up and have him be the first thing I see every morning wow i'm a cheeseball |
No your not cheeseball, I feel the same way. My fiance is my best friend...what would I do without him? well...cry!!!!!! lol
Thats cute yu have promise rings!!!! I wear my promise ring around my neck and my engagment ring on my ring finger. Congrats to your cousin!!!
WOOH!!!!
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how long have you been with your fiance???
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| worrywart001 wrote: |
| how long have you been with your fiance??? |
Only a year. We wont be getting married till 2009 though
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