Sex with my husband has only gotten better as we've learned to experiment and we make a conscious effort to spice things up every once in a while. We recently went shopping at a sex shop together which definitely helps, regardless of what you buy! Lol- the trick is to do it together so you are both equally invested in your sex life.
I've been with him for five and a half years. I find him equally as attractive as I ever have, and like I said, the sex is better every year.