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Should I keep the baby?
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Q: Pregnant An Scared.
asked by: LaulLaul on August 15th, 2007
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About 2 or 3 months ago i went ova 2 ma best m8s house,but only her step-brother was in ,he told me 2 come in coz she might be a few hours and it was rainin out.
We talked for a bit and he went into the kitchen 4 a beer and asked if i wanted a vodka i siad yes.we had a few more and i think he was really drunk coz he kissed me.I fancied him so i kissed him back.he pushed me onto the sofa and asked if i wanted sex.i said yes.

afta he had a shower and left while he thought i was asleep.i realised we had'nt used a condom but he did pull out so I forgot and got dressed and left.
I felt a bit icky since then and finnaly took a test about a week ago and it came back positive.
So i told ma mate and she was fine coz of all the mess i was in and i txted him sayin im pregnant its urs but he said it aint he dont want a family now.
But ma mate said she'd tell thier dad if he didnt be responsible for his own mess.so we went and told ma mum.she was shocked and angry and told me to get out so I stayed at his mums and we had sex again.

He woke me up about 3am and he was dressin.I asked what he was doing he said he was leaving till this all blows over and he'd call me sometime.He kissed me and left.
Its been about 3 days now.no phone call.

Im sorry if this was long but im really scared,please help.
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Mabel
replied on August 15th, 2007
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You need more help than you can get from polling internet strangers, sweetie.

First off, stop sleeping with this guy who isn't responsible enough to take care of his own. You are the only one who is going to be responsible, from the sounds of it. You are the one who has to make the decision.

I think it is inappropriate to ask people you don't know and who don't know you if you should have an abortion. There is no way we could know your whole story.
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Jules
replied on August 18th, 2007
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I've locked this because a poll is really inappropriate here and I don't want smartarses coming along and telling you what to do.

Here is the address and phone number of your local family planning clinic which gives free and confidential advice:

Southend Family Planning Centre
Southend Health Centre,Queens Way House Essex Street
Southend-On-Sea Essex SS1 2NY
Tel: 01702 577110


Or you could visit your GP for a totally confidential chat about your options, your parents won't have to know and it won't cost you anything other than your time.

Good luck.
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