Usually I would probably just jump in and join him. I don't have a problem with guys masturbating as long as I'm still involved in the sex life (ie, the masturbation hasn't replaced me)

Although if I were home and not busy I'd rather he come to me first...

I have only caught my fiance once. And i was caught off guard i think. I didn't know what to do. Because it was my first time catching any of the guys i have been with doing it. I don't think it's wrong at all. I do it, and i know he does. And i'm sure a bit more now that i'm pregnant, and don't want it Which brings me to something i have always been kinda chicken about. I know couples masterbate together, but i have never had the guts to do it with my guy. The thought turns me on, and i would love to do it. How do i get over the being chicken part???

I'd join in and help out my lover too lol.

the girl got mad at me. eh

The girl you were dating caught you masturbating and got mad? Sounds like you need a new girl.

o, i got rid of her. She had some real issues that i just didnt feel that she was worth dealing with.

Honestly, I would probably tease him. I don't have a problem with masturbation of course. My partner and I both do it. However, we tease each other a lot.

About two days ago, I got on my computer. I looked over at his, and saw he had been looking up porn (we have side by side computers since he works from home on the computer, meaning we can't really share). I teased him about it.

If I did actually walk on him masturbating, I am sure he would make me join in in one form or another though.

I just asked him what he would do if he walked in on me masturbating. He said, "Get turned on." However, I masturbate next to him in bed sometimes when he falls asleep before I do, and he always says that creeps him out.

Well, like I said, I might be upset if I was home and not busy and he didn't come to me first...

But I don't know if getting mad would really be effective.

I'd ask, "want some help?" And then I'd tease him, sing into his penis like it's a microphone the "Masturbation Song" and then get down to business.

probably help him out haha, and hopefully he'd return the favor

lol
seriosuly

it honestly wouldnt bother me if i caught my bf masturbating as long as it wasnt on any of my stuff i quite happily watch porn with him and i have quite happily watched him masturbate in front of me and blow his load on my chest

I dont like my fiance to masterbate, but if i told him not to i would be a hipocrite.

Its him watching porn that is a NO NO. But he doesnt so its k.

At least he isnt out getting it from another woman! I dont think there is anything wrong with porn. I dont enjoy watching it but as long as I dont have to see it I dont really care if its helping him out. When my fiance would masterbate it used to make me a bit upset, especially if he was using pornography. Then I had to realize why this was hurting me and i think it was because I felt that he could be enjoying the fantasy of another woman. That is not the case, your man would rather have you in real life than a fake woman on paper.

im with ya on this one!!!! i watch it

as long as its not creepy porn its ok with me!

I dont think Ill ever like porn....

why?! its normal to like porn!!!

Some porn might be a little too hardcore for some people... Maybe not everyones into the whole 2 guys banging one chick while yelling "you're such a dirty prostitute" thing.

hunnie he's your fiance, so you're pretty much set as far as him not wanting to be with someone else. yet you don't like him to masterbate? why? he is using his own hand.. on his own member. how is that so bad? you're not always going to be around him when he's in the mood for some action. also, i guarantee you at some point or another he will view porn. you seem so sure that he doesn't watch it but sweetie .. i just can't buy that. men love porn. not all of them watch it, but lots of them do. i've been thru hell & back as far as having a problem with it.. & i can finally say that i don't! it all boils down to insecurity. be confident in yourself & don't be so against the porn because one day you might find out that he actually does sneak a peek.. then you'd really be devastated about it because for all this time you've been so against it & thought he didn't do it. maybe he really doesn't, i don't know. but i'm just trying to help you out a little.. because i know that women who seem so sure about what their man does.. sometimes have it all twisted up. i know i sure did for a while.

i'm sure us ladies would all be so surprised about how many times our men masturbate when we're not around.. when they take out their porn.. where their eyes might wonder while we're out together.. men are very visual creatures & they always will be.