baybeelouxo
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Age Difference
Posted: 08-14-07 11:31am
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I recently joined one Forum, and all i ask
was how did other teens find it given
birth. But then when i told them my
boyfriends age they kept criterzing me and
him, saying he sould go to jail, but i am
from England and it's Legal here..
Does anyone see a problem in age
differences, after all he treats me right
we been together for a couple off years
now. We havn't done anything Legal we
waited until i turnt 16, I was on the pill
and we used protection, but i feel
pregnant.
My mum is sticking by me through this..
My boyfriend is 24 and he treats me good,
he didnot rap me, He's brought all the
baby stuff so far, but on other sites i
wanted advice but didn't fell comfortable
because the way they treated me.
Can someone just help without criterzising
my boyfriends age please..??
my email address is on my profile feel
free to add me 
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Rodge
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Posted: 08-14-07 11:45am
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FIRST OF ALL: I know it's legal, but it's
not ideal. Eight years is a lot when
you're a teenager. I can't profess to know
your exact situation but I can kind of see
where everyone else is coming from.
That said, what do you want help with?
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rosejackson
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Posted: 08-14-07 13:16pm
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ive seen worse situations before from
where i live, so it doesnt surprise me,
but with some other people it can surprise
them and even disgust them. please dont
take any notice of it. age difference does
not matter! my parents have a 12 year age
gap and theyve been married 22 years this
sunday.
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benc152
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Posted: 08-17-07 05:02am
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of course we'll help, what' the problem?
and yeah the age gap is big, but it' not
that important.
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LittleMissDomino
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Posted: 08-19-07 07:28am
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Don't listen to anybody who tells you that
age difference is a problem. Age is just a
number and if he loves you and treats you
right that's all that matters.
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mizosoflyy
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Dont Worry
Posted: 08-21-07 01:01am
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Girl... If he makes you happy and if you
guys are in love. WHO CARES what other
people think. Age is nothing but a number
and if your parents dont have a promblem
with it dont worry about what other people
may say. When I was 16 I was dating a 21
year old he was the love of my life. He
was my first and where still together
Plenty of people had bad things to say but
i ignored it. So the moral of my reply is
Dont worry about what these people say
about your relationship, as long as your
man makes you happy thats all you need to
worry about, and your baby will be fine.
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ice3
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Re: Age Difference
Posted: 09-13-07 12:16pm
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age aint nuttin but a number, ive always
dated guys way older than me, i think that
if ur boyfriend is that good, then ya'll
were meant for each other
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lchica23
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Posted: 09-14-07 17:43pm
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There is nothing to be ashamed of. When I
first got pregnant I was 14 years old and
my boyfriend at the time was 27, which was
a 12 year difference. I didn't think it
was a big deal because I also stated he
didn;t rape me I wanted to have sex and I
got pregnant there wasn't much more to
say. He was very very nice to me and
always had him at my side. I married him
due to the situation that in the United
States if there is a older man having sex
with a minor is totally paying the price
and he did he was in jail for 30 days and
got house arrest for 1 year. But like I
had told them you cannot criticize or tell
me anything since we both wanted this to
happen.
Trust me I went through alot myself. Just
be happy enjoy life because no one is
going to live your life but yourself.
Enjot it seems he cares about you and
treats you right and that is what a women
needs. Who cares about the age. 
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nextinlineforsuicide
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Im 17 And Just Had a Baby Girl
Posted: 09-15-07 14:56pm
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hey im 17 and just had a baby girl i was
16 when i found out i was prego and if
anyone needs to talk im all ears and i
got great tip on being a mommy and to help
during and after pregnacy
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 09-16-07 06:15am
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Age gaps mean nothing to me. If it's legal
and you're happy then go for it who cares
what other people think it's YOUR life so
go ahead and live it for you and only you.
My sister is 20 and her husband is 31 and
they have got two children together, got
married earlier this year, have their own
home and are trying for baby number three
after christmas and there's 11 years
between them
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maza
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Posted: 09-17-07 05:44am
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Its ligal in Australia too I see nothing
wrong with it
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sexxybexxy
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Hi
Posted: 10-02-07 06:27am
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age is of no importance.As long as you are
both happy together then
there is nothing to stop you carrying on
your relationship. I am 15 have a son aged
2 and the father is 18. I know that their
is not a big age group. Live your life how
you want afterall it is your`s to live
no-one elses.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-03-07 12:24pm
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Although I do feel 16 and 24 is way wrong
I wont criticize you for it.
You feel pregnant or ARE pregnant? have
you tested?
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latinaluv4one
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People Are Crazy to Think Age Difference Is Illgal
Posted: 10-04-07 01:53am
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Honey when I was 13-15 I was engaged twice
by a man 26 and 29. At My matuarity level
at the time, I felt I would never be with
a guy my age and the reason the multiple
men I was with didn't feel bad about being
with me was because of my maturity level.
I'm only 18 now and still to this day I
only date older men because that's just my
personality level. I've been with men 40
years old before. I did feel bad about
that though because I knew it couldn't go
futher so the fact is that I believe if
your mature enough and you want to be with
an adult then you need to be one yourself
when it comes to your mind.
Don't worry about with everyone else
thinks. If your family is ok with it then
don't worry honey and let love take it's
chances. Your young and just know that you
have lots of time to still figure out
yourself because I always thought I know
exactly how I was until I got older and
now I'm just getting started
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sweet_mom
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Posted: 10-20-07 23:56pm
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Like everyone else has said,age is just a
number.
I met my bf when I was 16 and he had just
turned 30,we have been together for 2
years now and it's amazing.With him I can
be myself,I can live the way I want to.I
used to date guys that were closer in age
to me but I found them to be so
immature,always wanting to play videogames
or go bmx-ing or skate boarding.I really
had nothing in common with any of them,and
found myself bored all the time.
Now I am at home with my child everyday,I
babysit other kids just to make some extra
money.I love being home,cooking meals and
just doing the whole housewife thing.I
know that probably sounds weird and all
but this is what I like doing.
I love my bf and he is 13 years older than
me.
Any questions you might have,just
ask.There will be no judgment from me.
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a7x_deathbatgirl_a7x
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Posted: 10-26-07 21:35pm
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okay so what he is older! my parents have
a like a 12 year difference! if u2 love
eachother and u know ur going to be
together then i say okay! good luck !
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Becky
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Posted: 10-27-07 03:12am
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I am 23 and my OH is 37! We are trying for
a baby. Don't worry about it
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MommyToBe2007
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Posted: 10-27-07 11:06am
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yeah they are right age is just a number.
so are you pregnant?
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