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Jude-Love

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It Bothers Me...
Posted: 08-13-07 21:46pm

...that pro-life propaganda is full of phrases like, "the defenseless who cannot speak for themselves" and "the weak who need our care" and all that happy stuff.

What about our elderly? To me, THEY are the real victims of society. All the while the disgusting things that happen to them are happening, these people are standing around outside of abortion clinics, accomplishing squat.
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Posted: 08-13-07 22:01pm

believe me euthenasia and disregard for life of the elderly is related to the abortion/birth control issue.... it is that we must first defeat
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Jude-Love

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Posted: 08-13-07 22:04pm

Uh, no it isn't.

What is related to that issue is our greedy, stupid government and the fact that once our parents get old, our society thinks it's okay to just put them away and forget they were ever wiping our asses.

Birth control and abortion don't have much to do with that.
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Posted: 08-13-07 22:12pm

The whole issue of pro life is not focused on abortion but on the ideology that lies behind abortion.

Human life disregard by mothers or by governments is still human life disregarded, the focal point of society is the family, Governement is merely reflection of our parents looking after us and so if we want our government to change its possiton who they find a convinience and wanted we need to accept the fact that all human beings are wanted human beings, that all life is sacred and it must come from the family
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Jude-Love

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Posted: 08-13-07 22:16pm

Gu£st wrote:
The whole issue of pro life is not focused on abortion but on the ideology that lies behind abortion.

Human life disregard by mothers or by governments is still human life disregarded, the focal point of society is the family, Governement is merely reflection of our parents looking after us and so if we want our government to change its possiton who they find a convinience and wanted we need to accept the fact that all human beings are wanted human beings, that all life is sacred and it must come from the family


You are just rambling and completely missing what I am saying.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT PEOPLE WHO AREN'T HERE YET AND WORRY ABOUT THOSE WHO REALLY DO NEED US.
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Jules

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Posted: 08-14-07 02:57am

I totally agree that, generally speaking, the way the western world treats its elderly is a disgrace and more should be done to ensure our elders are treated with dignity and respect, as I'm sure we will wish to be when we reach that stage of our lives.

However, I don't think it's fair to draw a comparison between that and abortion because they are separate issues. It's like the people who say, "Why concern ourselves with animal welfare when there are so many children dying from starvation?!" Two totally different issues.

There are many problems in this world that need attention and until the human race is united (don't hold your breath) we all have to fight for what we as individuals believe is most important.

That said, I think standing outside abortion clinics, hurling accusations at women, is abhorrent and counter-productive.
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milletics

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Re: It Bothers Me...
Posted: 08-14-07 06:02am

Jude-Love wrote:
...that pro-life propaganda is full of phrases like, "the defenseless who cannot speak for themselves" and "the weak who need our care" and all that happy stuff.

What about our elderly? To me, THEY are the real victims of society. All the while the disgusting things that happen to them are happening, these people are standing around outside of abortion clinics, accomplishing squat.


Are you doing anything about it? And it is not acomplishing squat.
If just one woman has a change of heart because of the protesting; it was worth it.
You can say the same thing about the homeless. Are you doing anything to combat it and if not, how can you point a finger.
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sillyakchick

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Posted: 08-14-07 09:52am

I think some people have a strange regard for life, in that they will do anything scientifically possible to prolong it or provide for it no matter what the cost or outcome. I personally think that science has gone too far and medicine is being used to keep people alive against the natural order of the world, both in utero and in sickness in old age or cases of brain death, etc. Our society seems to be focused on life at all costs without thought to the quality of that life or the costs on society to prolong it.
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Carifairy

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Posted: 08-14-07 10:06am

My father is 80, he has alzhiemers disease, and is basically a vegetable. He can drink and eat, but nothing is really 'right' within his mind.

He became violent, and we had to place him in a skilled nursing facility. He is treated very well. He lives in Black mountain NC, in the mountains, someplace he loved.

He would have rather been euthanized than live this way, we know this, the entire family knows this.

He cannot consent now, obviously, and we would not do that to him now.

IF he could have consented to special euthanasia measures in writing, if it was legal, he would have.

LIFE at all costs is no life at all. I look at this once proud man, this scientist, and he is reduced to diapers and mindless babble. Waiting to choke to death on food and water, because that is typically what happens to people in his state.'

That is not dignity. Screw "life" at all costs, quality is really what counts IMO.
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Posted: 08-14-07 12:23pm

I am sorry Carifairy about your father. I have seen the ravages of dementia, and I cannot imagine how awful that is for anyone to go through.

And I agree; what is "life"? Just sustaining bodily functions? That's not enough.

That's another reason abortion is no issue for me.
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marytartor

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Re: It Bothers Me...
Posted: 08-14-07 13:16pm

If just one woman has a change of heart because of the protesting; it was worth it.

Is it this a change of heart? Out of love for a human being? Or out of fear? Or does it not matter to you?
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marytartor

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Posted: 08-14-07 13:53pm

that was for milletics by the way.

So sorry about your father!
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Posted: 08-14-07 14:52pm

Birch wrote:
I am sorry Carifairy about your father. I have seen the ravages of dementia, and I cannot imagine how awful that is for anyone to go through.

And I agree; what is "life"? Just sustaining bodily functions? That's not enough.

That's another reason abortion is no issue for me.


I agree. Quality of life is what matters to me. My grandmother doesn't have clinical dementia yet, but we know she's getting there. It's very hard to watch.
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Posted: 08-14-07 15:34pm

Eiri wrote:
Birch wrote:
I am sorry Carifairy about your father. I have seen the ravages of dementia, and I cannot imagine how awful that is for anyone to go through.

And I agree; what is "life"? Just sustaining bodily functions? That's not enough.

That's another reason abortion is no issue for me.


I agree. Quality of life is what matters to me. My grandmother doesn't have clinical dementia yet, but we know she's getting there. It's very hard to watch.


Sucks, man, I'm sorry.

I need to add this to the "What are your fears" thread on the Gen.comm chat page.

Off topic entirely, but I met a young man who was suffering from schizophrenia. The guy was bright as hell, and he would have lucid moments on occasions. During those moments, he would realize what he was missing and what was going on, and he'd get very depressed.

He has tried to commit suicide many times. Crying
or Very sad
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everyday_struggle

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Re: It Bothers Me...
Posted: 08-14-07 15:42pm

Jude-Love wrote:
...that pro-life propaganda is full of phrases like, "the defenseless who cannot speak for themselves" and "the weak who need our care" and all that happy stuff.

What about our elderly? To me, THEY are the real victims of society. All the while the disgusting things that happen to them are happening, these people are standing around outside of abortion clinics, accomplishing squat.

what i love is that the same people that are pro-life support the war in Iraq. talk about hypocrasy at its finest. Very
Happy
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marytartor

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Posted: 08-14-07 15:49pm

and the death penalty. G-d would be fine with that...

I don't think G-d would be fine with the Death Penalty. I think we should leave it up to G-d to decide what is the best punishment for his children.
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marytartor

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Re: It Bothers Me...
Posted: 08-14-07 15:56pm

milletics wrote:
Jude-Love wrote:
...that pro-life propaganda is full of phrases like, "the defenseless who cannot speak for themselves" and "the weak who need our care" and all that happy stuff.

What about our elderly? To me, THEY are the real victims of society. All the while the disgusting things that happen to them are happening, these people are standing around outside of abortion clinics, accomplishing squat.


Are you doing anything about it? And it is not acomplishing squat.
If just one woman has a change of heart because of the protesting; it was worth it.
You can say the same thing about the homeless. Are you doing anything to combat it and if not, how can you point a finger.


"If just one woman has a change of heart because of the protesting; it was worth it."

Does it matter to you if it is a change of heart out of love for a human being? Or out of fear? Or does it not matter to you?
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Jules

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Posted: 08-14-07 16:43pm

marytartor wrote:
and the death penalty. G-d would be fine with that...

I don't think G-d would be fine with the Death Penalty. I think we should leave it up to G-d to decide what is the best punishment for his children.


Is G-d some new-fangled way of writing God or am I missing something? Confused

Never come across it before! Smile
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marytartor

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Posted: 08-14-07 16:45pm

My Dad's a jew so he always got mad when I wrote it papers so now it just habit
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Jules

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Posted: 08-14-07 17:09pm

marytartor wrote:
My Dad's a jew so he always got mad when I wrote it papers so now it just habit


Can't Jews write 'God' then? I didn't know that! Why's that then? (Sorry, 20 questions!)
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