My current boyfriend orgasmed while i was giving him head, but his penis was not erect. It got "harder" but not hard enough to be legitimately erect and i was surprised.......to say the least by the orgasm!

We have not had sex, this is during foreplay, and it has happened 3 times now. the first two with him actually orgasming, the third I was too confused to even continue.

Is this impotence? I hear its nerves. But I mean I don't really understand how nervous he could be, he said he has had sex before, not in the past 6 months, but he has. Well he says he has.

HELP