Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
Fiances penis is not getting very hard Posted: 08-13-07 14:57pm
this has happened several times in our
experience as a new couple .....he will
ask me if it is hard??? how is that
happening? Is it even possible he would
not know?guys......I am worried ...he
avoids the question and dependent on what
I tell him gets to it.he prefers I
concentrate on the head when giving oral
and never gets or stays really hard ...I
have wormed out of him that its on going
and nothing new to him and all his woman
have cheated on him .......I have a clue
why..........I am not complaining
now...And I am no quitter...we are engaged
and we are gonna get thru this but give me
a clue cause he won't ....I know of a
motorcycle wreck in his past possibly
while in his first marriage as it has been
a problem that long ....yes groin was
injured and its contents....now also he
was in a rock and roll band into his
twenties early thirtys....some hearing
loss from those days ...yes ......and
drinker on and off in seasons currently
not a drinker??????????thank you
wazzywoman
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 08-13-07 15:22pm
I don't know how he wouldn't know unless
he has some kind of loss of feeling. That
may be why he has difficulty keeping an
erection from oral as well. I myself have
never found oral that stimulating except
from one girl that knew some good
techniques. And yes, the head is generally
the most sensitive so it feels the best.
You'd really have to talk to him about it.
Don't do it during sex, because you might
put pressure on him. And don't be pushy or
judgmental or make accusations. I know you
say he doesn't want to, but he's the only
one that knows. And if you're getting
married then you really have to be open
with each other.
If sex is ever causing problems in your
relationship, then you could see a sex
therapist. Individually, as a couple, or
both.
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wazzywoman4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
Yes Your Right He Is Posted: 08-13-07 16:00pm
and I appreciate this comment from you
what little I have come across in research
gives me several avenues of concern but in
all truth he has the truest answer and if
he doesn't really know and does not want
to pursue it well guess I am in for an
adventure on the path less traveled
...hehehe...
his tool is not the greatest allure for me
thank god ....but health wise ????I wonder
ok will get talking to him and no not
during sex thank you...the only problem
was my mind set I assumed that I would die
with out more sex.....well it has not
killed me yet and I hear there are toys
out there to asist me in the my lack there
of....I really want to understand him and
work it through at his speed not my own
....will keep ya posted some where on here
...wazzywoman
