Well, first of all there is a pill out there for you! There are so many different ones and many people have terrible side effects on one and are completely happy on another. Don't give up!
Anyway, it usually takes up to 3 months for your body to completely calm down and side effects to go away. Definitely the first month can be rocky. My advice would be to wait it out.
If you are trying to skip your period, you should start skipping it (taking the active pills over your placebo week) a few cycles before you actually want it to skip, because it probably won't work the first few times and you'll probably have spotting or something for a while. But it works differently for everyone.
Good luck, congrats on the marriage!