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Posted: 08-16-07 16:27pm
everyday_struggle
wrote:
Eiri
wrote:
I think people who are
incapable of feeling love are very sad
people indeed... This is just a general
statement in relation to what I said
before. Most humans are capable of this
feeling but if course not everyone.
Still, for someone to never
have an emotional attachment to sex... I
mean, there's got to have been at least
one partner they'd feel connected to,
right?
if i feel an emotional attachment its not
because of sex, its because of
her.
Well of course, I don't think anyone would
argue against that. But you can express
the emotional attachment through sex. And
that's when you're 'making love'.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
Posted: 08-16-07 16:39pm
Georgia59
wrote:
Well of course, I don't think anyone would
argue against that. But you can express
the emotional attachment through sex. And
that's when you're 'making
love'.
How does your husband express his emotinal
attachment to you when your having sex?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-16-07 17:17pm
It's the whole demeanor- gentle caresses,
looking into each other's eyes, skin-to
skin contact (not just the genitals)
caring about each other's pleasure,
expressing with words, etc. Passion- I
guess, sums it up. That's doesn't mean sex
is never rough and tumble- but when you
have an emotional attachment during sex it
adds a lot for both parties. When you are
really in tune with each other- keyed into
what the other is feeling...
That is making love.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
Posted: 08-16-07 17:39pm
Georgia59
wrote:
It's the whole demeanor-
gentle caresses, looking into each other's
eyes, skin-to skin contact (not just the
genitals) caring about each other's
pleasure, expressing with words, etc.
Passion- I guess, sums it up. That's
doesn't mean sex is never rough and
tumble- but when you have an emotional
attachment during sex it adds a lot for
both parties. When you are really in tune
with each other- keyed into what the other
is feeling...
That is making
love.
ok you pretty much summed up a female
experiance. I understand your a female.
But its so totally different for us
because i do all those things except i
dont consider it making love, i consider
it getting off. I guess whats slow sex for
guys, is "making love" to women.
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 08-16-07 18:30pm
everyday_struggle
wrote:
ok you pretty much summed up a female
experiance. I understand your a female.
But its so totally different for us
because i do all those things except i
dont consider it making love, i consider
it getting off. I guess whats slow sex for
guys, is "making love" to
women.
Everyday, I have asked you before to
please keep your sexist and ignorant
theories to yourself. I have pointed out
how you can't make claims about all men
and all women before, yet you still do it.
I am not sure what it is about that that
you don't understand. Some women prefer
the phrase "making love," other women
prefer the word "sex." The same goes for
men. It's about personal differences, not
about gender differences. It's really a
shame that you have to turn perfectly good
threads into complete garbage.
