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Q: Random And Crazy.
asked by: HcoBrunette06 on August 12th, 2007
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i just want to say, that im sick of no one listening to me. 2 of my friends are into things that i cant control, one is drugs and the other is starting to starve herself because she wants a boy to like her. i've tried helping them both and both completely disreguard everything that i say, like they aren't listening or don't care. i guess im supposed to just sit back and watch them hurt themselves or worse. and the 1 person i go to for everything isn't around and i need him.


i dont know what to do/say anymore.
sorry, vent over.
im going to bed.
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young Girl
replied on August 12th, 2007
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sucks

one thing i learned is always listen to your true friends

hoefully they will come around
its freaking frusterateing
but...what else can ya do? youve tried to help them and they wont listen

then you gotta go throught he whole watching thme hurt and suffer because of what theyve done. and byy then they wish they would have listened to y
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Hollyberries
replied on August 12th, 2007
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That's the reason i have lost all my friends i grew up with in high school. They choose the drug scene, and i choose not to do drugs, and keep my family as number 1. I have seen both of my best friends lose a child because they can't get off of drug, drinking, and partying. And STILL continue to do it. Everyone that i used to hang out with is still going to the bars getting so drunk they can't walk, or end up taking some guy home and sleeping with him. I guess some of us grow up, adn some don't . But i have learned to just move on. I know it hurts, and it hurts to know you don't really have a true friend in the whole world, but at least i made something of my life, and i have something good to show for it. Confused
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Willa Weintraub
replied on August 13th, 2007
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Re: Random And Crazy.
HcoBrunette06 wrote:
i just want to say, that im sick of no one listening to me. 2 of my friends are into things that i cant control, one is drugs and the other is starting to starve herself because she wants a boy to like her. i've tried helping them both and both completely disreguard everything that i say, like they aren't listening or don't care. i guess im supposed to just sit back and watch them hurt themselves or worse. and the 1 person i go to for everything isn't around and i need him.


i dont know what to do/say anymore.
sorry, vent over.
im going to bed.
some people just can't be helped Terra. I know that from experience. Either you be with them through it or you stop takling to them. The second option is not harsh like it sounds. Soemtimes thats what you gotta do.
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arcadia
replied on August 13th, 2007
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Sad I wish I was around more to be here for you, Poop. You know you can always call or or text me or anything. You know I'm a true friend & I love you a LOT. I really think you should just stop wasting your time on your "friends." You are so much more mature & so much smarter than them. You don't need their drama. Just let them go. It'll be easier than you think.
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monkeygirl22
replied on August 13th, 2007
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I'm with Melissa. There are times when telling people things does nothing. You have to let them learn for themselves. If it gets really bad you could always tell their parents so they could get them some professional help. My uncle went through a drug problem for years upon years and it got him killed (literally by the drug dealers). Let them go through some things. If they get in too deep, tell their parents.
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