That's the reason i have lost all my friends i grew up with in high school. They choose the drug scene, and i choose not to do drugs, and keep my family as number 1. I have seen both of my best friends lose a child because they can't get off of drug, drinking, and partying. And STILL continue to do it. Everyone that i used to hang out with is still going to the bars getting so drunk they can't walk, or end up taking some guy home and sleeping with him. I guess some of us grow up, adn some don't . But i have learned to just move on. I know it hurts, and it hurts to know you don't really have a true friend in the whole world, but at least i made something of my life, and i have something good to show for it.