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S4star
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I don't feel anything while having sex !
Posted: 08-12-07 13:02pm
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Im 18 yrs old and bin havin sex for nearly
a year and a half now but i feel nothing.
If i get sexually aroused it doesn't last
vry long, definatly not long enough for
sex. I dont get sexually aroused often
durin foreplay or rly ny sexual contact
what so ever. im sick of faking that it
even feels good 2 my bf. Wev spokn abot it
but i havnt told him that iv faked it
every single time. i dnt c how a guy can
do so much wrong over and over again that
i feel nothing. Ny ideas people wud b much
appreciated. 
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-12-07 14:04pm
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Hi... it seems like this is the answer I
give every girl but... do you masturbate?
Knowing what makes you feel good by
yourself can help you tell your boyfriend
what to do.
If you think it might be something more
serious than that, you should go to a
counselor. They can help you!
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HealthySex
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Posted: 08-12-07 18:56pm
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Haha, and this feels like the answer I
give every girl, not because I think it's
their problem, but because I think it's a
very unknown aspect of female arousal and
orgasm that has shown to be true, and I'd
hate for someone never to find the missing
piece to the puzzle.
Histamine levels play a role in your
arousal and ability to achieve orgasm.
High levels make it easy, low levels make
it hard. Same for men. L-Histidine, an
amino acid would increase it, L-Methionine
would decrease it.
You can talk to your doctor about your
concerns and if you're curious about what
I mention, you can have your Histamine
levels checked.
-Histidine is involved in the function of
the thalamus and hypothalamus glands, and
orgasm is triggered when histamine is
released from the mast cells in the
genitals. Histamine also causes the sexual
flush that occurs during arousal. Many
women fail to achieve sexual pleasure and
orgasm, and often other treatments
including psychotherapy may be
unsuccessful. This problem may be a result
of a biochemical imbalance, since
sufficient histamine must be present in
order to trigger an orgasm. Deficiencies
of L-Histidine will effect histamine
levels.
-Supplementing with L-Histidine will
increase histamine levels as proved by
Carl Pfeiffer, M.D., and Ph.D. in his
research on non-orgasmic women. He
administered doses of 500mg. of
L-Histidine (1) before each meal (for a
total of 3 per day) restoring sexual
pleasure in women. (He also helped women
who had irregular periods become regular
by giving doses of 4g. per day).
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-13-07 01:06am
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Yeah, masturbate!!! Figure out what feels
good, and figure out how to simulate it
during sex!
Also, if you are on hormonal birth
control, it can lower/extinguish your
sexual desire. Many girls don't know this.
If you suspect this is the case, switch to
a different pill or whatever.
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almondjoy
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Your Not Alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 09-09-07 05:13am
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I hear ya, I have never had a orgasm with
intercourse, I'm 27 years old. I have
faked every orgasm. I have no problem
having one while masturbating, or with
oral sex. If my husband knew that I have
been faking all this time he would have a
heart attack. We have been together for 10
years.
Sorry, enough about me. I'm sure that it
is of no concern, but I would tell your
boyfriend. I'm sure he would love to take
on the challenge ha ha.
If your still worried I would go to your
gyno. If I have any advice at all, it is
take care of it now. There are so many
things out there anymore. That how I ended
up here, I'm not waiting any longer I want
help. 
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Staocheb
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Re: I Don't Feel Anything While Having Sex !
Posted: 09-11-07 05:54am
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| S4star
wrote: | Im 18 yrs old and bin havin
sex for nearly a year and a half now but i
feel nothing. If i get sexually aroused it
doesn't last vry long, definatly not long
enough for sex. I dont get sexually
aroused often durin foreplay or rly ny
sexual contact what so ever. im sick of
faking that it even feels good 2 my bf.
Wev spokn abot it but i havnt told him
that iv faked it every single time. i dnt
c how a guy can do so much wrong over and
over again that i feel nothing. Ny ideas
people wud b much appreciated.  |
WOW It's typical... And normal. You have
problems with sex drive. Try Sentia pills
for women to increase it. Or find
something else. I know about and use only
Sentia, it's effective.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-13-07 16:49pm
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where can you buy Sentenia?
and is not feeling anything during sexual
intercourse a very uncommon problem?? i've
been researching this issue for a while
and get the same info more lube, and try
masterbation. it has to be a better
solution to this problem
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:07pm
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If you get aroused but can't feel the
pleasure, it's a problem of not knowing
how to pleasure yourself, not a lack of
sex drive.
Masturbation really is important. Because
if you can't figure out how to make
anything feel good, a guy will NEVER
figure it out. Play around with EVERYTHING
and see what feels good. And do it for a
long time without expecting an orgasm,
just see what feels best for you. And not
just the vagina, but definitely the clit,
and labia and the whole genital area.
If you really think you have an abnormally
low sex drive (you never or rarely desire
sex in the first place) than you need to
see a doctor. If you feel that you are
actually lacking feeling, you need to see
a doctor.
But if not, just keep playing around!!!
It's stress relieving, anyway. 
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:09pm
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i feel everyting with my clit.
but when it comes to putting a dildo or
having a guy's penis inside of me..nothing
is happening in there. not the slightest
hint of pleasure is going on.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:10pm
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Like I said in your post, it's normal. You
just gotta figure out how to make it work
for you.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:14pm
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okay. i'll give it another try
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:42pm
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Good luck! 
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-13-07 21:28pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | i feel everyting with my
clit.
but when it comes to putting a dildo or
having a guy's penis inside of me..nothing
is happening in there. not the slightest
hint of pleasure is going
on. |
Oh! Wow, yes, that's normal XD I'm there
too. I don't have a completely lack of
pleasure but I can't vaginally orgasm.
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teagz
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Posted: 09-14-07 07:22am
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WOW, i have the same problem 2 so dont
worry your not alone. i was also worried
about it. i would like to where can you
buy Sentenia?
Does any1 know?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-14-07 09:11am
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| teagz
wrote: | WOW, i have the same problem
2 so dont worry your not alone. i was also
worried about it. i would like to where
can you buy Sentenia?
Does any1
know? |
There's no need for sentenia, which is
what we're trying to tell the OP. If you
have a strong sex drive and you get
aroused just fine, then you don't have a
libido issue!! You are simply like most
other women on the planet.
The clitoris evolved for sexual pleasure,
not the vagina.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-15-07 20:33pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | AmandaRae123
wrote: | i feel everyting with my
clit.
but when it comes to putting a dildo or
having a guy's penis inside of me..nothing
is happening in there. not the slightest
hint of pleasure is going
on. |
Oh! Wow, yes, that's normal XD I'm there
too. I don't have a completely lack of
pleasure but I can't vaginally
orgasm. |
see at least you do feel something in
there. i don't. how is not feeling
anything normal though??
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-15-07 23:27pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | AmandaRae123
wrote: | i feel everyting with my
clit.
but when it comes to putting a dildo or
having a guy's penis inside of me..nothing
is happening in there. not the slightest
hint of pleasure is going
on. |
Oh! Wow, yes, that's normal XD I'm there
too. I don't have a completely lack of
pleasure but I can't vaginally
orgasm. |
see at least you do feel something in
there. i don't. how is not feeling
anything normal
though?? |
Because every woman is different. Some
women enjoy vaginal penetration - Most
actually, I'd say - though most can't
orgasm from it. Other women don't enjoy it
and get nothing from it. But it can be a
mental thing too. The feeling of being
"filled" can be erotic. And then feeling
that object move against the outer parts
feels good too, like the labia and
clitoris.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 20:41pm
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| Quote: |
tr> | Because every
woman is different. Some women enjoy
vaginal penetration - Most actually, I'd
say - though most can't orgasm from it.
Other women don't enjoy it and get nothing
from it. But it can be a mental thing too.
The feeling of being "filled" can be
erotic. And then feeling that object move
against the outer parts feels good too,
like the labia and clitoris.
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I feel like an outcast to not be one of
the many women who enjoy intercourse.
Especially in society where sexual
intercouse is made out to be the end all
be all of lovemaking. I don't know how to
deal with this.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:45pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | | Quote: |
tr> | Because every
woman is different. Some women enjoy
vaginal penetration - Most actually, I'd
say - though most can't orgasm from it.
Other women don't enjoy it and get nothing
from it. But it can be a mental thing too.
The feeling of being "filled" can be
erotic. And then feeling that object move
against the outer parts feels good too,
like the labia and clitoris.
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I feel like an outcast to not be one of
the many women who enjoy intercourse.
Especially in society where sexual
intercouse is made out to be the end all
be all of lovemaking. I don't know how to
deal with
this. |
Deal with it by coming in to the real
world of sex for females. Ignore the
media. For real women, vaginal orgasm
isn't a simple "insert part a into part b"
thing. It's not always pleasurable. It's
not always enjoyable. It takes a caring
male (or female) partner to actually care
about a female who doesn't gush and scream
out orgasms from two seconds of
intercourse.
Like I said on another topic, clitoral
stimulation during vagina intercourse is
very very normal. I would never orgasm
unless I did it.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:49pm
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Having an orgasm isn't my primary
issue..being able to feel pleasure while
bieng penetrated it. I guess an orgasm
would come secondary. But for now, I
don't feel any pleasure. I want it to at
least feel good.
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