Lol It's all good man. It's just puberty. It's perfectly normal. Most guys encounter this, sometimes they think they are homosexual cause they get it when guys are around and no girls. But it's fine, it's even good I guess, means you dont have ED.

Catcher is right At your age, random boners are common. Math class, during videogames, whenever. Annoying, but not harmful in any way!

Why are you getting them? Because you are becoming a man. This is puberty. For men, their penis starts to mature, get larger, have random erections, and you will start to ejaculate during masturbation. Girls grow breasts and get their periods (oh woo hoo lol).

Yeah, it's going to happen.

The best things you can do is not think about it or try to hide it nonchalantly. I remember those days and thinking about it and worrying people will see it never make it go down. But if I just forgot about it, it would be more likely to subside.

Then of course, trying to hide it helps. Sometimes they grow in a way that will make them point outwards when they get caught in your clothes. So it's best to have it lie flat against your stomach, where it at least is only bulging due to the thickness of your penis as opposed to it's length.

dude when you get to like 13-14 you will have so much fun

Don't sweat it sweety. At 12 you will have boners at various times. Don't be embarassed. Eventually when you masturbate you will ejaculate as well. Just enjoy it ...you're normal.

Wendy

i totally know what you mean man. the other day my mom we talking to me. and i glanced at her breasts and i got a random boner. but my mom saw it and thought i was some kind of messed up kid. and also sometime when im watching porn i get this random boner. its really anoying and i totally get you.

yeah thats so true, that actually happened to me many time when i was over my friends how and i'd look at his mom and i get a boner, or when i looked at one of my friends id get a boner its totally normal dude. i knew it wasn't right when i seen my grama naked and i got a boner.... but i guess its all right

yea man i get you guys, the last day i was lieing down and my dog came at me and lied down on my stomach, a couple seconds later i had a boner and my dog actually started to lick it! it felt weird but it actually felt kinda good so i layed back and pretended it was a hot girl. My dog actually made me cum it was kinda weird/exciting
but yea so its normal to get random boners dude trust me

yeah man thats not right... i think you actually got turned on by your dog being on your stomach and the "dog actually started to lick it! it felt weird but it actually felt kinda good so i layed back and pretended it was a hot girl." wow thats just.. damn disgusting are you like into beastiality or sumthing?

no, i'm just saying
i like little girls not dogs
thats just nasty

yea im 13 and i do wrestling in the winter and during school and stuff this happens to me and i dont want anything like this to happen when im wrestling cause that would look realy gay and yea so please any advise

what you saying you like little girls wats that suppose to mean

Maybe this has to do with the effect war has on your erotic nature. I am actually not at all surprised that a war video is provoking his erection. I feel it is a normal and very common male sexual response. War and human sexuality and reproduction are intimately linked; I do believe in a biological theory of war. Males and females evolved in such a way as to play their respective roles in the process.

when i am round my mates i always get erections as i really like his mum and her tits are nice and pert, so i get really hard. This causes a serious problem when i stay over and in my shorts and t-shirt (night stuff)cos it's free and it bulges out more. It is hard to cover up especially if she asks me to move for some reason lol and one time i had a huge boner because she was leaning over in a top where i could see her great tits and i couldnt help but look and i didnt notice her look up at me and she noticed both my boner and that i was looking down her top :S, at this point i didnt know i had a boner either, i just felt really horny lol, but instead of saying something she just smiled and giggled a bit and continued bending over cleaning but then i realised i had a boner and covered it up ( i was in my normal clothes so it wasnt as hard to cover it up). But later i had to wank after this had happened lol. The nice thing is she didn't embarass me by saying something how cool was that? lol
but the main thing i wan tto know is are random boners normal?

its perfectly normal i get them before school and even in school. when I'm around my girlfriend, her parents, I've unfortunatley even got one in locker room in my gym which wasn't good, but yeah it happens anytime anywhere

Guys,
I think you can all see that young men, and some older ones as well, will have a tendency to get erections (random boners) when they are in a sexy situation or one that makes them feel really good inside (like playing your favourite computer game). Sexy situations could be anything from seeing your buddy's mom's body (breasts, bum, etc.) and thinking about what you would do with it, to looking at pornography. The results are the same, you get a hard on and you masturbate. Bottom line is "don't sweat it!".

Wendy

is it ok to masturbate at my mates? after i have seen his mum? i am worried this may be wrong to do it not at my home. although i swear his mum knows i am doing it, because she once said "had a good time" when i came out. but that just turned me on.

I am 31 and when i put my speedsuit on i feel imbarrased cause, i get a boner very easy. is this normal.

bluebird384,
If you are a healthy and horny guy, this is going to happen. Now having a skin tight speedsuit on is definitly going to give away the fact that you have a hard on. I would suggest that you wear something a little more baggy, unless your intent is to have others see the outline of your boner. I have seen men in speedo's with definite erections or semi erect penises and it doesn't offend me, in fact, I kind of like it if he got the boner looking at me in one of my swimsuits!

Wendy