Hello Marie,
Before lunch I had your one post to respond to, and now there are three. I had better hurry up before there are more.
All kidding aside Marie, you really touched not only my "nerve", but also my spine, for which I thank you.
Such phrases as "Boy am I glad I chose my surgeon instead of the aggressive doctor who wanted to do 8" incision, rods and two discectomies." "He said he believes that for the patient, "Less is better."" "I can't tell you how grateful I am the my surgery was Min. Invasive and not Open Back. I can say that my incision was not 1 to 1 1/2 inches. It was 3 inches." Marie, I really needed to quote your entire post, but needed to quote your salient statements that "jumped out" at me.
And last August my spinal surgeon was talking about a 12 inch incision and two fusions with screws and rods and more. That hit HARD. And YOU have confirmed my concerns. WOW you had and have one FANTASTIC spinal surgeon!!!!! I remember my doc saying in late spring that he was concerned, because of my age, that to do all that they really needed to do on my back they were not sure I would be able to "tolerate the surgery". From what you have said, I now better (though uncompletely) understand what he was talking about.
Marie, I am so happy for you. Happy that you found a FANTASTIC surgeon. Happy that you had minimally invasive surgery. Happy that the surgery was a success. AND happy that you are now recovering well.
Your post has even made me "happier" with the words of my surgeon last week - "It seems best we let well enough alone at this time."
AWWWWwwwww Marie, each day you will become younger. It won't be long and your husband and family will be having a hard time trying to keep up with you. LOL
To your 2nd post - Yes, I do have PT exercises that I do, especially now with little time spent gardening. I know I have to keep physically active or my back is going to complain.
Understanding doctors - More impossible to understand doctors than it is for us guys to understand you ladies. LOL In all seriousness, it IS concerning the vast differences in doctor's OPINIONS, for it seems there is little "science" connected with their opinions. Oh yes, we humans are one diverse species, HOWEVER -------. I almost feel we have never left the days of "alchemy" and "witchcraft". Just seems like part of the medical "puzzle" hasn't been put into place. Perhaps no different from any other discipline - There are those who are outstanding in their field, those who are so so and those who are total zeros.
I have not corresponded with Carol for some time. I have been thinking about doing so, though I know she is very busy. You have given me the "shove" I needed, so next off is an E-mail to Carol to ask how she is doing and to relay your message to her.
About the "big trouble" - Yes, that too haunts me because of the slippage I have at L5-S1, and a multitude of other things. A good thing I had a math course in college about "Probabilites". Helps in making decisions that give you the best odds.
YES, morphine CAN be used to reduce pain, but as you know it must be used very wisely. Wisely such as in the paste. Not in a manner in which one would become an addict.
Again Marie, thanks SO MUCH for your thoughts, insight, wisdom and food for thouoght.
Have a Wonderful Day in your recovery.
RichT