I just love this comment from you
"O.K. I am now going to go see what to take along with me to the hospital.
Housecoat and slippers are on my list. Of course I have to decide if I want to take all of my hair supplies and cosmetics. Not only do I not like to scream in public, I want to look my best while yipping and yapping if I have pain. "
My hubby is still laughing and asking if we are related and he doesn't know it.
You see, when I went in for my surgery I couldn't find my dumb hairbrush. Searched everywhere and finally ended up going through my drawers to find the only other one I had. The hairbrush my hubby got me on our honeymoon that was 31 years ago.
Anyway, when I was ready to leave the hospital, I accidentally left that hairbrush in the bathroom and didn't realize it till we had been driving for 10 minutes. I got hysterical about leaving it. Hubby is going, it's just a stupid hairbrush, and I'm crying it's the one you gave me, blah, blah, blah.
That sweetheart turned the car around and sped back to the hospital, ran in to the floor and there in the bathroom was the "stupid hairbrush" I was crying about. the blue hairbrush, with mickey and minnie mouse on it that we got a disneyworld on our honeymoon.
The staff thought we where both nuts until he explained why it was so important. Then they thought he was the most angelic, romantic angel in the world. What an ego boost he got that night.
The other things he was laughing about where our heights and the med problems. Things like the regular dose of anesthesia can leave us out cold for many extra hours. The dose of meds to help with pain turn us into sleeping zombies and, as my daughter calls it "loopey idiots that can't stand up straight", and we have to remind the docs about us.
The organization too. It freaks my hubby out to see how organized I can be. Even when things look like a mess to everyone else, I can find anything you want in a matter of seconds in that supposed "mess".
As for waking up with no pain after my surgery, I should explain that the "no Pain" was no pain in the leg, no burning numbness and tingling. That's not to say that I didn't feel any pain from the incision after the initial pain med that was in my IV wore off. In my case, that pain was nothing compared to the crippling pain I had in my leg.
Can't tell you about fusions and pain though, but my guess is that without the instuments being used in your surgery, the pain will be less than if the doc used any of it.
My personal experience is that in today's world, medical staff either appreciate knowledgable patients or they hate them. If you have a doc that appreciates it, you will find that he works with staff that feel the same way.
It is a relaxing feeling for all when everyone is on board and working together for the end result.
Oh, the one other reason hubby wonders if we are related, is your attitude in the OR.
There I was on a gurney in the OR, hooked up with IV stuff and the anesthesiologist ready to turn the sleep stuff on and I was yaking away and telling her wait a minute. What is that thing on the OR table, I'm going on that, How the heck am I supposed to get on it. Where's the doctor, and his staff. Got to see him in here scrubbed and ready to go, before you knock me out. Remember I am a little person not even 5 feet tall.
Next thing I knew, the doc is standing over me, scrubbed, and ready to go to work, along with the nurses and his staff and I told him.
"remember now, NO SCREW UPS PLEASE, DO THINGS RIGHT, I WANT TO RETURN TO THE LIVING AGAIN AND ENJOY LIFE. AND I'M GOING HOME TONIGHT."
Lucky his mask was on and all i could see was his rolling eyes as he told the anesthesiologist, "Hurry up and knock her out before I do it with some piece of equipment in here. As for you Mrs. Patient, shut up all ready and let;s get this show on the road and I'm betting you $5 bucks and 2 co-pays that you will be going home in the morning, not tonight. Deal?"
I never got to answer him as I was out like a light.
But, I had $5 bucks in my hand when I went home that night, and never paid 2 co-pays after the surgery.
Ice on those butt muscles sounds like a good idea, better safe than sorry, is my motto.
Your attitude sounds great, good and positive and all your docs sound great and you have lots of trust in them. That's half the battle right therre.
So Marie, my prayers are with you and, if you can, check in with us before you go to the hospital.
We will all look forward to hearing from you as soon as you can post and give us all the juicy details of your talk with the staff in the OR and how you are doing.
Fran