Marie,
Sounds like you found yourself a really wonderful and caring spinal doc. He actually sounds a lot like my spine doc and that's a good thing.
You did a great job explaining everything that he said, almost felt like I was in the room with you.
Big Hospitals, big mess, one hand doesnt know what the other is doing, and one of my favorite parts is how they lose your ins. info going from one dept. to the other. Even is this day and age of computers, that good old number on the ins. card gets logged in in one location and vanishes when you get to the next one. Like I said, one hand doesn't know what the other is doing.
So, based on the info that you posted, I want to respond to some of what you said and some of your questions.
First of all, all the questions you filled out and answered several times is routine in a good practice and/or large facility. The first one you filled out goes into your medical record. The same questions asked by the nurse are written down by her and also put in your chart, as are the ones that your doctor asked you. You may or may not have noticed that they had the answers to the questions from the prior set you answered.
I asked my spine doc why I had to go through the same questions, first filled out by me and then asked by his PA and then by him. I told him, it seemed to be a waste of time.
The answer just blew me away. "The more times you answer the same questions, the more detail a patient usually adds of remembers more info and he showed my the answers to a couple of questions that I had written the answers and then was asked twice. Each one of them had more info than the prior ones.
My thought was, very thorough docs.
The fact that the doc spent 2 hours with you is really a blessing. Looking at your MRI and all films with his own eyes and not just the readings is really important. From experience, if the doc can't read the MRI, CT or xrays, run away from that doc as fast as you can. If the doc relys on mostly the radiology readings, likewise, run away as fast as you can.
I'm impressed at the various models etc. to explain things to you. I had only one doc do that with me out of all the ones I saw for second opinions. That was my spinal surgeon and he, too, took all the time needed to explain everything to me.
Like the minimally invasive, 1 inch incision as well. That's what I had for stenosis in the same area as you, L4,L5,S1.
As for his wanting to do a laminectomy and prefers to do fusion vs laminotomy or percutaneous decompression. I can only answer from what my best friend asked my doc and she's a nurse.
Simpley put, he said that a laminotomy can be done or a partial laminotomy if there is severe stenosis only in one small section of the vertebrae and it doesn't involve lots of other things in other areas of the spine or the stenosis inovlves the majority of the canal.
If more than just a disc or a small narowing of the canal from the lateral articulate is present, then a laminotomy is necessary and the proper relief can't be done with just a small area of the vertebrae is removed..
My doc also said that if he has to do a laminectomy he also wants to do a fusion because the spine is left unstable and can create big time problems down the road.
I'm impressed with his idea of in situ. If I remember correctly, that gives you far more flexibility afterwards as well, though I could be wrong.
He sounds like he's very confident in the surgery that he talked to you about and believes that it will be good for you. The fact that he cares enough to have you go to a smaller hospital for surgery, so that you don't get lost in the system is really great.
My doc does the same thing. He only uses a big time Boston Hospital if he needs special equipment for the spinals surgery he has to do, which has happened about twice in the past 7 years.
He prefers the smaller hospital as he knows the staff well, nurses on the floor post op, PT people, OR staff and they know him well.
My friend, who is a nurse, was with me the day I had my surgery. She works in a major teaching hospital in a very high pressure, step down unit from ICU, so she is quite familiar with the inside of a hospital and nursing care.
Over a year later, she is still talking about the small hospital, the wonderful, personal care that I got and she saw the other patients get in the short period of time I was there, and the relationship that the staff had with my doc and each other. Real team work, and real caring. Since it isn't as busy a place, they have the time to spend with a patient and do the little things.
I smiled when I read your comments about your husband's thoughts. Sounds like mine. My hubby is an elecrical engineer, very precise, very methodical, takes his time doing things, and has to see things to make his own determinations. He walked out of every doc's office that I saw, except my spinal surgeon, and said, "how can he make a determination with only a glance at the MRIs? Did he really look at them? He spent more time reading the written report than going over the MRI's. I don't like that, he's having someone else make his decisions for him."
I felt the same way as did my friend.
Marie, this doc sounds like a gem and if it where me, I would trust him.
Like that he's not that far away. I know, not around the corner, but if you need him, he's fairly local. He left you to leave and make a decision about what you want to do or not do.
Going to the laser places, involves a lot of money, long distance to get there, far away from home. You meet with them when you are there and have to have a place to stay, another expense and have a decision to make, more on the spot. Go ahead with their recomendations or go home.
If you go home and then decide to go back, more expense.
You have to be the one to make the decisons and they aren't easy. I will admit again, I'm just not sold on the laser places. You know the questions I still have about them.
I'm older, 57, and can be very old fashioned in some ways with medical care. One of those things is having my doctor close by so that if I need him/her, he is available to go and see and not a couple thousand miles away. To me that is a big draw back to Florida.
I could be wrong, and I'll be the first to say it; but it sounds like to me you have found a gem of a doc. They are hard to find.
Fran