!please Help Me Im Going Insane

Well, I don't think you're pregnant... If you're having problems with your period I would really advise going to your ob-gyn for advice and possibly a check up.

last month I actually did go to my ob got checked out (pap) all the blood test a person can have done and it was all normal!!! I wish I actually wudnt have whole thing coast me 200 sumthin dollers sux

Go to a planned parenthood.

They offer check ups and birth control for very very cheap.


SOME women will occasionally have a non ovulatory cycle, meaning that they do not ovulate. You will likely not have a period if this happens.

There are many "womens clinics" you can go to that offer low cost services.

You may need to go on BC pills, or use a medicine to jump start your period.


h ttp://www.ppin.org/

This is the site of planned parenthood of Indiana.. They offer low cost womens care.

firs tof all, I want to thank everyone who has replied thank you.
Ok yes I did go to the Ob but it was before this missed period ..i went and did all the stuff at the ob the end of june and I just missed the previous period I was suppose to start (july 22nd) soo.. not actually it wudnt of came up I was having a normal periods at that point when I went... so yeah I am frekin out I am 2 weeks late and 4 days now... my sides feel like theyre cracking really bad stomach pain... it feels like my uterine lmy sides are idk how to describe it like breaking or spreading out its horriable and I just started noticing this, this week,,, and Idk if I mentioned it but a few days before my expected period I had a light period.... well more like 'spotting" idk thas my main concern after that havent gotten NE thing since then I took those pregnancy tests the first week of my missed period Im so lost I am going to go get my 3rd one today if this ones - idk what to do! I guess I need to schedule a blood tests then.., anyone know how much those things coast outta pocket? okay anyway I forgot to answer this one post saying I needed to get on bc OKAY I AM ON BIRTH CONTROL i have been on the SAME birth control since like beginning april then it started regulating my periods ...and now I dont knoe where it went and no Im not going to planned parenthood they do abortions getting ym stuff from their wud be supporting it and I DID go to a OB my ACTUALL REGULAR DOCTOR OB OK so no planned parenthood I ahte them but thanx NE wayz!

ONLY a few PP do abortions.

MANY women will actually miss a period while on BC, it is because of the hormones!

That is normal =)

Planned parenthood does exams for VERY VERY cheap. IF you cannot afford to see another doctor, they can see you.

WHEN I SAID Birth control I did not mean that you needed to go on it.

You took that the wrong way..sorry.

I meant that women are often given BIRTH CONTROL to bring on late periods, and to regulate their cycle.

Since you are on BC, it is okay.

IT is normal to miss a period on BC pills.

A period on BC is not a normal period, it is only a withdrawal bleed from lack of hormones.

You do not 'need' a period while on birth control.

I have never been on the shot and will never go on the shot because of your reason and other reasons (my g/f had your same problem). The shot completely messes up your insides, my fathers a doctor and just to let all of you know the shot can make you infertile. Birth control of any sort is bad for you and of course planned parenthood and other "doctors" are going to tell you that the chances of the side effects are very slim. First of all the people who work at planned parenthood are nurses so they do not have the authority to tell you since they did not do 4 years of medical school. I go to planned parenthood for pap smears, blood tests, but not for advice. Second of all if you are taking the pill, the shot, patch or whatever I am here to warn you that just because you seem fine and aren't having any complications it can affect you in the long run. With that said, I am guilty of taking b.c for a couple months because of pmdd but stopped to see if it would help. If you have to be on b.c take breaks and let your body be natural and have a REAL period and ovulate for a while. Think about why we have periods in the first place...we need to cleanse our bodies every month...it makes sense right?

well now in total I have taken 4 pregnancy test and all of them r now negative so I guess maby idk Im so lost at this point thank you everyone for your advice and help..

Mommys, it sounds like you're not pregnant :/

To the other poster: My mother was on the pill for years... I guess it made her so infertile she gave birth to two babies...

And no, actually, women don't *need* to get their period to "cleanse" their body. There is no (good) evidence of infertility caused by long-term birth control use, and there's no proof of uterine harm from it either.

Do ALL women do well on birth control? No, of course not. However, the majority of women DO, otherwise it wouldn't be so widely used.

The shot doesn't "totally mess up your insides", that's preposterous. Just because your dad happens to be a doc and told you it can make you infertile doesn't make him a reputable source. My uncle is a doctor and he's very pro-birthcontrol. Let the doctors battle! Haha.

Nurse pracitioners DO go to a medical school for 4 years, this is why they can prescribe drugs.

YOUR period is late because you of the hormones in the pill, you are not pregnant.

MANY women will miss a period on the pill, and many more will intentionally skip a period.

my friend was on the pill for about 4 yrs and when her partner and her wanted to have a baby she stopped and about a year later they're expecting twins. my other friend is on depo too and theres no problems there with her.

its just that there are side effects with some people, as with any other medicine u wud take.

I mean I dont know I guess Im not jus mainly what freaked me out was tha spotting and pains N my stomach, but yeah I guess Ne thing oculd be caused by it soo okay U said its normal to miss a perod on birth control...again Im lost bcuz when I got my bc they told me that these should regulate my periods and on this pills i take em every day and Im spose to get a period according to the nurse, so yeah Im like okay so I missed this period obviously when shold I get it back next tme this really suc cuz I thought I was finally getting regulated it SUC so bad not being regular In fact its horriable I hate it

to the original poster, you totally have the wrong idea about planned parenthood. I've been there several times as a patient and now I working there as a volunteer. First of all, not all planned parenthood clinics offer abortion. Second, although a clinic provides abortion, they will not try to influence your position or your decision in any way. They are pro-choice people dedicated to serve the public so that they could benefit from high quality and unbiased reproductive care (not like pro-life people).

If you don't want abortions and don't like the idea, they won't force you do or to believe in anything. That is what being pro-choice is all about. And yet they will be able to provide people with very cheap sevices. I go there and I get almost all of my services including birth control, checkups, pap tests, annual exam, e.c. all for free because I'm a college student and I don't have income.

LOOK! I dont give a flying medical question about planned parenthood I AM pro-choice and if id go there and say pay for an examination,get birth control,etc,etc..that sorta like supporting planned parenthood in my opinion I mean I used to go there Infact I went there last time to get my bc and yes they do offer good prices on such stuff but dont get me wrong but going and being pro-life is in my opinion hypocritical because I am basically keeping plannedhood up and running I mena dont get me wrong illions of people go there everyday but atleast I wont be part of the cause so thats my choice not to go and like okay if Id go now and Id see sum1 who was pregnant Id doing it flip okay like I used to see pregnant girls at my pp and I didnt think anything of it but now that I know that they do that caca I jus cant bring my self to go in there because I know I will be a disrupincy and probally go to jail (lol) yeah but thats me

..and the beginning of my sentance I put I am pro-choice I meant pro-life whoops! and the thing messed sum of the stuff I said up soo its all weird and confussing but I a not discussing abortions or planned parenthood anymore lets please stay on topic people your nnot going to change my mind bout that one but yeah a special update still NO period so What do I doo if I miss my next period (when Im suppose to get it when I was sppose to get it last time?)