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chantigeek

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Joined: 03 Aug 2006
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Location: ontario, canada

Miserable... Posted: 08-05-07 13:50pm


Now i dont want be too whiney but i am due in 2 days and feel absoltely irritated, tired and physically i feel like crap. I am excited for my baby to come but waiting to go into labor is horrible lol. I have really strong braxton hicks, the baby feels low so i feel a lot of pressure around the bikini line and lower back area. Sorry for the tmi but i have had diarea(spelling) like 8 times a day it seems for the past 2 weeks, which makes me not want to go out. Everything my bf does irritates me, i have 10 people a day call me and say hey are you in labor yet! Which is nice cuz their concerned, but getting highly annoying. I don't know i just feel bummed out when i think i should be feeling more happy cuz the baby is coming real soon? I see my doctor tommorow and she gonna book an induction date on aug 12 incase i dont have my baby this week. Again sorry for the venting but my bf doesn't understand and i was wondering if anybody else feels the same way, or have gone through the same things as me before labor? thanks for any comments or adivise

young Girl

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Posted: 08-05-07 13:54pm


well hun you are almost done sorry youre feeling like crap it must be ahrd i just have the feeling that around 8 months im going to be layintg down for the rest of my pregnancy because thats how my mom was on bed rest for a month with me and my sister so..* sigh* but hey get some rest because your gunna need it best of luck!!!!!!!

Jolie_3110

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Posted: 08-05-07 17:22pm


well I am nearly 3 days overdue and I can totally understand where your coming from!!! My mood swings are even driving me crazy. I wont go into everything otherwise I will be here all day but I feel like crap!! At least you have an induction date to work towards hun! I wont find out mine till tuesday and its likely to be nearer the 15th!! I cant give you much advise because I am not coping too well either. I guess its one of those things we have to deal with. I mean, is it me or do the days just keep getting slower? If you feel you need to vent just pm me if you want We can have a good moan together. Otherwise, Just hang in there, they say it will be over soon!

taykare

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Joined: 09 Jul 2007
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Location: Manitoba, canada

Posted: 08-05-07 17:36pm


i know that waiting to go into labour my suck as much as it was to stay out of labour for a long time (hello my name is summer) that was my 2 year old wanting say hi to you all. anywasy have been told by my sister who waited almost until 42 weeks to have her last child and 2 days before she was to be indused she tired having sex as it is suppose to thin the lineing and get it ready for delivery, she did not want to try it as she was mooy, grouchy and just down right health forum then she tired and i have no idea if it was the reason or not but 4 hours after she sex with her hubby she went into labour. You can try it what have you got to lose and your husband or partner may still think you are normal!!!! LOL baby brain dowes strange things to us women. taykare god luck to you both and i will nbe praying that you have your nbabies sooner rather than later

chantigeek

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Joined: 03 Aug 2006
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Location: ontario, canada

Posted: 08-05-07 21:58pm


I am sorry for your loss. I do feel very blessed that i was able to have a healthy pregnancy and a baby soon. Jolie i am glad that someone else is going through the same as me lol. It must be hard to be overdue and why is your induction not until around the 15th? I don't know i live in canada and usually they wait till your 10 days overdue but my doctor wants me to have him earlier, trust me i'm not complaining about that but i will ask her why tommorow. But hopefully i will not need the induction and that i'll have him on my own this week. I sent my bf matt away for the night lol. I told him to go to his parents cottage to go fishing a relax a bit. Its about a hour and half away but i think i needed time to myself cuz i was getting on him about everything. Plus i have my parents down the street incase i go into labor then he will come home. To help my mood today i had some girlfriends over for lunch and movies, so they cheered me up a bit Now as far as sex... lets see i have everyday this week and nothing lol. So i guess it works for some people.... Oh well i'm due in 2 days so he might come on time? Anywho thanks ladies for your kind words, its nice knowing that i can vent to people who understand

Jolie_3110

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Posted: 08-06-07 02:26am

chantigeek wrote:

I am sorry for your loss. I do feel very blessed that i was able to have a healthy pregnancy and a baby soon.

Jolie i am glad that someone else is going through the same as me lol. It must be hard to be overdue and why is your induction not until around the 15th? I don't know i live in canada and usually they wait till your 10 days overdue but my doctor wants me to have him earlier, trust me i'm not complaining about that but i will ask her why tommorow. But hopefully i will not need the induction and that i'll have him on my own this week. I sent my bf matt away for the night lol. I told him to go to his parents cottage to go fishing a relax a bit. Its about a hour and half away but i think i needed time to myself cuz i was getting on him about everything. Plus i have my parents down the street incase i go into labor then he will come home. To help my mood today i had some girlfriends over for lunch and movies, so they cheered me up a bit Smile

Now as far as sex... lets see i have everyday this week and nothing lol. So i guess it works for some people.... Oh well i'm due in 2 days so he might come on time?

Anywho thanks ladies for your kind words, its nice knowing that i can vent to people who understand Very
Happy

Glad your feeling alittle more cheery!

I dont know for sure whether they will leave me that long, (find out tomorrow) but I had a csection with my first son and although I had my last son normally, after a section they dont like to induce so I think my consultant will leave me as long as he can to go on my own.

Make sure you plan something to do on your due date. For me, that was the worst day by far! Keep yourself busy and do something fun...Lets hope something happens for us both soon. Keep me posted!! Smile

Bridget

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Posted: 08-06-07 10:47am


most women are quite uncomfortable during their last days of pregnancy, especially in august. this is the perfect place for them to come and whine about how they're ready to have their babies and they're done being pregnant, and they should be able to do so without someone trying to make them feel guilty. every baby is a blessing and just because someone wants to vent a little when she's 2 days away from her due date in the middle of summer, that doesn't mean she doesn't treasure the fact that she's able to have a healthy baby.

sandyallen

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Posted: 08-06-07 16:32pm


Labor Dust to you that are due and past due! I understand about venting that is what we are here for! I have been there and once I was two weeks over-due with one of mine and then I went into labor and fortunately had both of mine naturally! I wish the best for all of you! Sorry you miscarried! I have been there too! I wish you the best with your next pregnancy, when you are ready.