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Q: Sexual Fustration

asked by: theaprilshow on August 5th, 2007

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I don't know what to do or say to my boyfriend, but he dose not want to have sex as often as I do. I want to have sex and some times he will tell me he is tired or other times he will just ignore my advances. But when we finally do have sex I constantly have to give him a hand job or blow job to keep him erect!!!!! It's sooooo fustrating and then I start to feel insecure about my self! I have tryed talking to him, and helping him, but now i have given up and masturbate after he falls asleep. what can I do some one please help!!!!!! Crying or Very sad

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ThickGirlJM

replied on August 5th, 2007

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Hmmm....

Is he on any medication? Does he drink alot or smoke weed etc? Do you guys live together and argue alot? Have you done anything risly lately like wear sexy clothing or just get into bed nude? What have you tried?

Hope you guys work it out

Jess

Tylanas

replied on August 5th, 2007

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It sounds like the problem is actually his. Pull back and think of it from his point of view... I think he may have problems staying erect, which is why he never wants to have sex. He knows (or thinks) he's not good at it and can't stay hard. He's terrified he'll disappoint you. Ask him about that. It might be something you two can work together to fix with a doctor's help!

bjmcfarland

replied on August 6th, 2007

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Sexual Fustration

What you need to do is have talk to him and let him know what you think.
You also need him to answer you with the questions you have, be honest and forward about what you think. If he avoids the subject then it's time for you to make a real decision about the future with this person. If you are living with him move back to your folks house, if possible.
You don't give much else in your post so I don't know your age or anything else about you Confused

wazzyandme

replied on August 7th, 2007

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I Totally Understand And Sympathize With You

just need to know a few things as with my fellow repliers ....does he drink or anything else? is he on medication and does he have a stressful job? and how are the other asspects of your lives ? is sex the only thing thats wonky?
hey can I add you as a friend ? thanks wazzywoman

wazzyandme

replied on August 7th, 2007

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Oh And Heres My Story

read me .........complicated .........wazzyandme

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