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everyday_struggle

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:29pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
i dont think women as toys. You can take it anyway you want. The reason im saying it your responsibility is because, who else will give him sex? Im not talking about a knocked up teenager who thinks she knows life because she found a guy who is willing to have sex with her.


who else will give him sex

well he could result to

a dog
a horse
a sheep

and many other mammals that have vaginas

Shocked
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Marfa2107

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:30pm

okay thank you for finally agreeing with me
i am not talking about some one night stand b/c obviously the guy is
thinking about one thing...
but a guy in a serious relationship does put feelings (emotional) with
sexual experiences...
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everyday_struggle

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:33pm

Marfa2107 wrote:

but a guy in a serious relationship does put feelings (emotional) with
sexual experiences...

sometimes, i guess. But because the feelings of love is already there. But any man can put the soft feelings aside easily.
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:33pm

everyday_struggle wrote:
Marfa2107 wrote:
it is NOT about "giving" either person sex
it's about the feeling.. and i'm pretty sure other men (not yourself)
will agree with me..
maybe an immature guy.. that only thinks about the next girls he's going
to bang...but deffinately not someone in a serious relationship like
i, myself am in...

well in my opinion. There already is feelings in a serious relationship with or without sex. The man has feelings for you, but not because your giving him sex. Once feelings are brought into the picture, its a different ball game.


thats what we have been trying to say lol
when its a real relationship
"love"
"puppy love" whatever it is
and the people have feelings for each other then yes its different than just a one night booty call
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:34pm

everyday_struggle wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
i dont think women as toys. You can take it anyway you want. The reason im saying it your responsibility is because, who else will give him sex? Im not talking about a knocked up teenager who thinks she knows life because she found a guy who is willing to have sex with her.


who else will give him sex

well he could result to

a dog
a horse
a sheep

and many other mammals that have vaginas

Shocked


what! its the truth
gross but true

it happens unfortunately
between both men and women and htese other species

*shudders*
freak me out
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everyday_struggle

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:38pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
Marfa2107 wrote:
it is NOT about "giving" either person sex
it's about the feeling.. and i'm pretty sure other men (not yourself)
will agree with me..
maybe an immature guy.. that only thinks about the next girls he's going
to bang...but deffinately not someone in a serious relationship like
i, myself am in...

well in my opinion. There already is feelings in a serious relationship with or without sex. The man has feelings for you, but not because your giving him sex. Once feelings are brought into the picture, its a different ball game.


thats what we have been trying to say lol
when its a real relationship
"love"
"puppy love" whatever it is
and the people have feelings for each other then yes its different than just a one night booty call


and what im trying is that women sometimes mistake "love" for "sex". Thats where im getting at. You can think your man is in love with you but he might not be. Its easy like that for a guy.
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everyday_struggle

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:41pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
i dont think women as toys. You can take it anyway you want. The reason im saying it your responsibility is because, who else will give him sex? Im not talking about a knocked up teenager who thinks she knows life because she found a guy who is willing to have sex with her.


who else will give him sex

well he could result to

a dog
a horse
a sheep

and many other mammals that have vaginas

Shocked


what! its the truth
gross but true

it happens unfortunately
between both men and women and htese other species

*shudders*
freak me out

you pretty much dissed your boy, lol. You said that if it wasnt for you then those are his only options. 0of. Im sure he cant be that bad.
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Marfa2107

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:42pm

that is a true statement...
a lot of women mistake sex for love
but all i'm saying is
A. don't go around saying things that make all men look like they have no feelings and all they want is sex (cuz thats what i got)
and
B. don't tell girls to do something they are uncomfortable with.. =( that is how women get such low self-esteem


***edit: not the statement about the mammals... but about woment mistaking sex for love!***
**edit#2: i am an fool and apparently don't know how to spell mammals**
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everyday_struggle

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:50pm

Marfa2107 wrote:
that is a true statement...
a lot of women mistake sex for love
but all i'm saying is
A. don't go around saying things that make all men look like they have no feelings and all they want is sex (cuz thats what i got)
and
B. don't tell girls to do something they are uncomfortable with.. =( that is how women get such low self-esteem


***edit: not the statement about the mammels... but about woment mistaking sex for love!***

A. In the beginning of a potential if any relationship. That is all we want, because that is what we are thinking about when we are out with you.
B. Im not saying girls should do something they are uncomfortable with. But the fact that this girl is doing it because she knows it pleases her man. Im saying thank god, because most women such as yourself do not view it like this. Be happy that your man still wants to have sex with you because who knows if he always will.
Guys just have as much low self esteem as women but on different issues and if a woman has a low self esteem because of guys, then she really needs to work on the fact that she lets a gender of people affect her personality.
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everyday_struggle

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:51pm

Marfa2107 wrote:


***edit: not the statement about the mammals... but about woment mistaking sex for love!***
**edit#2: i am an fool and apparently don't know how to spell mammals**

or women. Laughing
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The Ginger 1

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Posted: 08-09-07 17:54pm

Hey now Guys this is getting out of hand... I suspect you have your views, however, it's causing a bit of an argument ...
Everyday Struggle .. could you keep it civil, or not post in this area ..
this is verging on Sexisim !!!
Thanks

Ginger


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everyday_struggle

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Posted: 08-09-07 18:00pm

The Ginger 1 wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
Marfa2107 wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
billyruffian,
I applaud the fact that even though u dont like it, you will give him sex. Most women dont do that, and lose their man because of it.


give him sex??
what is she like a slave??
you say it like it is her responsibility..
and if a girl loses a guy b/c she wasn't comfortable having sex...
i'm glad b/c that guy wasn't worth a crap...

oh and btw.. my boyfriend finds sex just as special as i do it's not just a f*** fest... it's intimate and means something..
ane i don't have to GIVE HIM SEX...

you remind me of the men that everyone complains about
only in it for the sex.


everyday struggle

are you ok? because seriously...why do people think like you?
what the heck

Because i am a guy. Im not a phony and i tell it like it is.



Excuse me Everyday Struggle - this is a Womans Chat Forum, so please can you NOT post in this area ... stick to your own Mens Chat Forum

Many thanks
GINGER

But ofcourse, lol. I just thought that since women posted there, it was ok to post in here. But i can understand the double standard. typical of females.
PEACE!
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Posted: 08-09-07 18:05pm

thanks ginger
sorry about that hun
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The Ginger 1

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Posted: 08-09-07 18:05pm

everyday_struggle wrote:
The Ginger 1 wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
Marfa2107 wrote:
everyday_struggle wrote:
billyruffian,
I applaud the fact that even though u dont like it, you will give him sex. Most women dont do that, and lose their man because of it.


give him sex??
what is she like a slave??
you say it like it is her responsibility..
and if a girl loses a guy b/c she wasn't comfortable having sex...
i'm glad b/c that guy wasn't worth a crap...

oh and btw.. my boyfriend finds sex just as special as i do it's not just a f*** fest... it's intimate and means something..
ane i don't have to GIVE HIM SEX...

you remind me of the men that everyone complains about
only in it for the sex.


everyday struggle

are you ok? because seriously...why do people think like you?
what the heck

Because i am a guy. Im not a phony and i tell it like it is.



Excuse me Everyday Struggle - this is a Womans Chat Forum, so please can you NOT post in this area ... stick to your own Mens Chat Forum

Many thanks
GINGER

But ofcourse, lol. I just thought that since women posted there, it was ok to post in here. But i can understand the double standard. typical of females.
PEACE!


My apologies - I thought this was the Womens Chat Forum, however, if you keep it civil, there should be no problem.
Peace and Love !!
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The Ginger 1

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Posted: 08-09-07 18:12pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
thanks ginger
sorry about that hun


No problem, everyone is entitled to their say .. but when it gets heavy, then we must make sure there is someone to Mediate...

Everyday struggle is just viewing his beliefs, may it not be to everyones elses beliefs, but he is entitled - just like we girls are entitled to ours.. as long as things remain civil, there should be no problem .. I misread Womens Sexual forum, for Womens chat .. and I have apologied to him, as he is entitled to post, just as us ladies post in Mens sexual.
Ginger
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Posted: 08-09-07 18:15pm

The Ginger 1 wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
thanks ginger
sorry about that hun


No problem, everyone is entitled to their say .. but when it gets heavy, then we must make sure there is someone to Mediate...

Everyday struggle is just viewing his beliefs, may it not be to everyones elses beliefs, but he is entitled - just like we girls are entitled to ours.. as long as things remain civil, there should be no problem .. I misread Womens Sexual forum, for Womens chat .. and I have apologied to him, as he is entitled to post, just as us ladies post in Mens sexual.
Ginger


yes you are right

every day im sorry if i offended you in any way
i understand your opinions and beliefes and hope you understand mine as well
seems we dont get along very well
obviously we are two different people
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fallwithme

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Posted: 08-09-07 20:09pm

don't apologise to him! look, sure everyday you're allowed your own opinion but this place is where people come for help, you telling every girl that their husbands and boyfriends are phnoey isn't helpful. stop being such a jerk!
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Posted: 08-09-07 20:10pm

SmileSmileSmileSmile
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Posted: 08-09-07 20:11pm

everyday_struggle wrote:
Eiri wrote:
Ahahaha XD

You're citing ONE source, and even funnier, it's from FOX news!!! ha ha ha.

and your citing an "ex" that no one knows anything about and hes not here to verify it.
Laughing


Yes, I have quoted my ex... that many people on here know about except you. And I never said my source was a fact. You seem to think your ONE source is definitive proof that all men on Earth are pigs.
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Posted: 08-09-07 20:22pm

fallwithme wrote:
don't apologise to him! look, sure everyday you're allowed your own opinion but this place is where people come for help, you telling every girl that their husbands and boyfriends are phnoey isn't helpful. stop being such a jerk!


lol i know i know

but
sigh
its the only way ill be able to shut up

somehow angie always helps calm me down :]
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