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everyday_struggle
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:29pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | | i dont think women as toys.
You can take it anyway you want. The
reason im saying it your responsibility is
because, who else will give him sex? Im
not talking about a knocked up teenager
who thinks she knows life because she
found a guy who is willing to have sex
with her. |
who else will give him sex
well he could result to
a dog
a horse
a sheep
and many other mammals that have
vaginas |

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Marfa2107
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:30pm
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okay thank you for finally agreeing with
me
i am not talking about some one night
stand b/c obviously the guy is
thinking about one thing...
but a guy in a serious relationship does
put feelings (emotional) with
sexual experiences...
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:33pm
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| Marfa2107
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but a guy in a serious relationship does
put feelings (emotional) with
sexual
experiences... |
sometimes, i guess. But because the
feelings of love is already there. But any
man can put the soft feelings aside
easily.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:33pm
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | | Marfa2107
wrote: | it is NOT about "giving"
either person sex
it's about the feeling.. and i'm pretty
sure other men (not yourself)
will agree with me..
maybe an immature guy.. that only thinks
about the next girls he's going
to bang...but deffinately not someone in a
serious relationship like
i, myself am
in... |
well in my opinion. There already is
feelings in a serious relationship with or
without sex. The man has feelings for you,
but not because your giving him sex. Once
feelings are brought into the picture, its
a different ball
game. |
thats what we have been trying to say lol
when its a real relationship
"love"
"puppy love" whatever it is
and the people have feelings for each
other then yes its different than just a
one night booty call
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:34pm
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | | i dont think women as toys.
You can take it anyway you want. The
reason im saying it your responsibility is
because, who else will give him sex? Im
not talking about a knocked up teenager
who thinks she knows life because she
found a guy who is willing to have sex
with her. |
who else will give him sex
well he could result to
a dog
a horse
a sheep
and many other mammals that have
vaginas |
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what! its the truth
gross but true
it happens unfortunately
between both men and women and htese other
species
*shudders*
freak me out
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:38pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | | Marfa2107
wrote: | it is NOT about "giving"
either person sex
it's about the feeling.. and i'm pretty
sure other men (not yourself)
will agree with me..
maybe an immature guy.. that only thinks
about the next girls he's going
to bang...but deffinately not someone in a
serious relationship like
i, myself am
in... |
well in my opinion. There already is
feelings in a serious relationship with or
without sex. The man has feelings for you,
but not because your giving him sex. Once
feelings are brought into the picture, its
a different ball
game. |
thats what we have been trying to say lol
when its a real relationship
"love"
"puppy love" whatever it is
and the people have feelings for each
other then yes its different than just a
one night booty
call |
and what im trying is that women sometimes
mistake "love" for "sex". Thats where im
getting at. You can think your man is in
love with you but he might not be. Its
easy like that for a guy.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:41pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | | i dont think women as toys.
You can take it anyway you want. The
reason im saying it your responsibility is
because, who else will give him sex? Im
not talking about a knocked up teenager
who thinks she knows life because she
found a guy who is willing to have sex
with her. |
who else will give him sex
well he could result to
a dog
a horse
a sheep
and many other mammals that have
vaginas |
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what! its the truth
gross but true
it happens unfortunately
between both men and women and htese other
species
*shudders*
freak me out |
you pretty much dissed your boy, lol. You
said that if it wasnt for you then those
are his only options. 0of. Im sure he cant
be that bad.
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Marfa2107
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 1552 Location: Galena, Kansas United States
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:42pm
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that is a true statement...
a lot of women mistake sex for love
but all i'm saying is
A. don't go around saying things that make
all men look like they have no feelings
and all they want is sex (cuz thats what i
got)
and
B. don't tell girls to do something they
are uncomfortable with.. =( that is how
women get such low self-esteem
***edit: not the statement about the
mammals... but about woment mistaking sex
for love!***
**edit#2: i am an fool and apparently
don't know how to spell mammals**
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:50pm
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| Marfa2107
wrote: | that is a true statement...
a lot of women mistake sex for love
but all i'm saying is
A. don't go around saying things that make
all men look like they have no feelings
and all they want is sex (cuz thats what i
got)
and
B. don't tell girls to do something they
are uncomfortable with.. =( that is how
women get such low self-esteem
***edit: not the statement about the
mammels... but about woment mistaking sex
for love!*** |
A. In the beginning of a potential if any
relationship. That is all we want, because
that is what we are thinking about when we
are out with you.
B. Im not saying girls should do something
they are uncomfortable with. But the fact
that this girl is doing it because she
knows it pleases her man. Im saying thank
god, because most women such as yourself
do not view it like this. Be happy that
your man still wants to have sex with you
because who knows if he always will.
Guys just have as much low self esteem as
women but on different issues and if a
woman has a low self esteem because of
guys, then she really needs to work on the
fact that she lets a gender of people
affect her personality.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:51pm
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| Marfa2107
wrote: |
***edit: not the statement about the
mammals... but about woment
mistaking sex for love!***
**edit#2: i am an fool and apparently
don't know how to spell
mammals** |
or women. 
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The Ginger 1
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Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 556 Location: Loony-tune-land, England
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Posted: 08-09-07 17:54pm
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Hey now Guys this is getting out of
hand... I suspect you have your views,
however, it's causing a bit of an argument
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Everyday Struggle .. could you keep it
civil, or not post in this area ..
this is verging on Sexisim !!!
Thanks
Ginger
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 08-09-07 18:00pm
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| The Ginger 1
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Marfa2107
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | billyruffian,
I applaud the fact that even though u
dont like it, you will give him sex. Most
women dont do that, and lose their man
because of it.
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give him sex??
what is she like a slave??
you say it like it is her
responsibility..
and if a girl loses a guy b/c she wasn't
comfortable having sex...
i'm glad b/c that guy wasn't worth a
crap...
oh and btw.. my boyfriend finds sex just
as special as i do it's not just a f***
fest... it's intimate and means
something..
ane i don't have to GIVE HIM SEX...
you remind me of the men that everyone
complains about
only in it for the
sex. |
everyday struggle
are you ok? because seriously...why do
people think like you?
what the heck |
Because i am a guy. Im not a phony and i
tell it like it
is. |
Excuse me Everyday Struggle - this is a
Womans Chat Forum, so please can you NOT
post in this area ... stick to your own
Mens Chat Forum
Many thanks
GINGER |
But ofcourse, lol. I just thought that
since women posted there, it was ok to
post in here. But i can understand the
double standard. typical of females.
PEACE!
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-09-07 18:05pm
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thanks ginger
sorry about that hun
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The Ginger 1
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Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 556 Location: Loony-tune-land, England
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Posted: 08-09-07 18:05pm
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | | The Ginger 1
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Marfa2107
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | billyruffian,
I applaud the fact that even though u
dont like it, you will give him sex. Most
women dont do that, and lose their man
because of it.
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give him sex??
what is she like a slave??
you say it like it is her
responsibility..
and if a girl loses a guy b/c she wasn't
comfortable having sex...
i'm glad b/c that guy wasn't worth a
crap...
oh and btw.. my boyfriend finds sex just
as special as i do it's not just a f***
fest... it's intimate and means
something..
ane i don't have to GIVE HIM SEX...
you remind me of the men that everyone
complains about
only in it for the
sex. |
everyday struggle
are you ok? because seriously...why do
people think like you?
what the heck |
Because i am a guy. Im not a phony and i
tell it like it
is. |
Excuse me Everyday Struggle - this is a
Womans Chat Forum, so please can you NOT
post in this area ... stick to your own
Mens Chat Forum
Many thanks
GINGER |
But ofcourse, lol. I just thought that
since women posted there, it was ok to
post in here. But i can understand the
double standard. typical of females.
PEACE! |
My apologies - I thought this was the
Womens Chat Forum, however, if you keep it
civil, there should be no problem.
Peace and Love !!
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The Ginger 1
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Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 556 Location: Loony-tune-land, England
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Posted: 08-09-07 18:12pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | thanks ginger
sorry about that
hun |
No problem, everyone is entitled to their
say .. but when it gets heavy, then we
must make sure there is someone to
Mediate...
Everyday struggle is just viewing his
beliefs, may it not be to everyones elses
beliefs, but he is entitled - just like we
girls are entitled to ours.. as long as
things remain civil, there should be no
problem .. I misread Womens Sexual forum,
for Womens chat .. and I have apologied to
him, as he is entitled to post, just as us
ladies post in Mens sexual.
Ginger
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-09-07 18:15pm
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| The Ginger 1
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | thanks ginger
sorry about that
hun |
No problem, everyone is entitled to their
say .. but when it gets heavy, then we
must make sure there is someone to
Mediate...
Everyday struggle is just viewing his
beliefs, may it not be to everyones elses
beliefs, but he is entitled - just like we
girls are entitled to ours.. as long as
things remain civil, there should be no
problem .. I misread Womens Sexual forum,
for Womens chat .. and I have apologied to
him, as he is entitled to post, just as us
ladies post in Mens sexual.
Ginger |
yes you are right
every day im sorry if i offended you in
any way
i understand your opinions and beliefes
and hope you understand mine as well
seems we dont get along very well
obviously we are two different people
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fallwithme
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Posted: 08-09-07 20:09pm
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don't apologise to him! look, sure
everyday you're allowed your own opinion
but this place is where people come for
help, you telling every girl that their
husbands and boyfriends are phnoey isn't
helpful. stop being such a jerk!
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Marfa2107
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-09-07 20:11pm
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | Ahahaha XD
You're citing ONE source, and even
funnier, it's from FOX news!!! ha ha
ha. |
and your citing an "ex" that no one knows
anything about and hes not here to verify
it.
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Yes, I have quoted my ex... that many
people on here know about except
you. And I never said my source was a
fact. You seem to think your ONE source is
definitive proof that all men on Earth are
pigs.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-09-07 20:22pm
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| fallwithme
wrote: | | don't apologise to him!
look, sure everyday you're allowed your
own opinion but this place is where people
come for help, you telling every girl that
their husbands and boyfriends are phnoey
isn't helpful. stop being such a
jerk! |
lol i know i know
but
sigh
its the only way ill be able to shut up
somehow angie always helps calm me down :]
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