The problem is not that I cannot get an erection, but rather that it doesn't come with arousal. Rather is requires physical stimulation to become hard. Should the physical stimulation stop, my penis fairly quickly becomes flaccid. This can lead to a problem with penetration because one I have put a condom on, I am somewhat flaccid. The secondary problem is that, after making out for a while and being incredibly turned on. He goes to fondle my penis (which is soft) and says something to effect of "don't I turn you on?". Not exactly the sort of thing that you want to hear during those passionate times. Its pretty much the same when watching pornography, an erection does not come despite feeling extremely aroused. That being said, once erect, I have little trouble having an organism normally.

I don't know if this falls under the category of erectile dysfunction or not. Is there anything that can be done to help with this?