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Q: Frightened....

asked by: ThisIsNotMe on August 4th, 2007

New User

okay im young.. and everything. but im just really scared of sex . i have years to go yet. but after reading everyones comments .. ive become really scared. what if its painful for me, and the doctors cant do anything? oh god. im really am worried. i sound really stupid , but, im scared if ill just aviod sex all my life, or until a later stage than i should have.

Replies(7)

ShiningShannon

replied on August 4th, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

I am sure you'll get over being scared Smile

It's natural to feel nervous on the first time, but once you start having sexual feelings for others it will be easy to get over that. How old are you? I had sex for the first time when I was 19 and it was not painful for me. It just depends on the person, its can be for some and not for others.

Tylanas

replied on August 4th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Re: Frightened....

harrietwilliams wrote:

Oh hun ^^ Painful sex that can't be cured is RARE. What is common? Well, many women do have a little bit of tolerable pain/discomfort when they first have sex, but it's not debilitating at all!!

ThisIsNotMe

replied on August 5th, 2007

New User

im 13 . so yes i know i have a long way to go.
awww thanks for you replies =] im just looking too deeply into it i suppose. thankyou so much!!

Moo

replied on August 5th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

There's nothing wrong with forward thinking but your fears will ease when you get older and the time is right so try relax about it!

young Girl

replied on August 5th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

harrietwilliams wrote:

im 13 . so yes i know i have a long way to go.
awww thanks for you replies =] im just looking too deeply into it i suppose. thankyou so much!!

hey hun
well dont be scared of sex
but definately make sure you protect yourself Smile

and take it slow. dont rush into it
everything will be fine

Very Happy

wazzyandme

replied on August 7th, 2007

New User

I Suggest That You Keep In Mind

if at all possible keep in mind the ages of the people making their coments . and remember the the only dumb question is the one you don't ask. you keep asking and give yourself time in about seven years or so you can answer some sex questions ...be safe and yeah I agree relax one day at a time ...wazzywoman

Georgia59

replied on August 7th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

The only pain I've ever had during sex was some mild irritation from not being well lubricated or from the ring.

It's never really hurt bad. It shouldn't. That's a sign that something is wrong and it is rare.

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