Am I Pregnant Forum - I Think Im Preg page 9

Rawr12 on August 6th, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

Rawr12 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

rawr what the heck is your bf thinking?
if i were him i would have told your parents myself
or is he scared too?

because thats not right
if he really acred he would make you tell them
if he cared he would know whats best for you and that your mom need to know

how old is he and where does he work?
where do you work?

he is 18...and he does piercings at marks tatts and piercings
he wanted to go to my mom but I begged him to plz wait till I find out if I am or not becuase im not sure if I am yet.

if he is all this stuff your telling us he is, then why dont you mention it before we bring it up. you defend him alot. do you honestly think peircing people is going to keep you guys finacially stable until your child is 18 years of age.

i dunno
piercers and tatoo artist can make some good money lol

rarw hes 18?!?! what if your parents or some one presses charges for him being older than you and its illigal.

he does make good money and my mom doesnt care she lets him sleep over my house all the time

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hopefulmjz replied on August 6th, 2007

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xglamxdollx wrote:

she herself has told us how finacially and emotionally and everything she is. she may not have worded it like Im a million air or whatever but things she said has proven how mature and resposible she really is. she simply doesnt know what she wants. its obvious.
and just because shes 16 ou dont know how her life style is either. so i dont know what your talking about. you assuming things now.

How has she proven anything? She's told a forum full of people she makes good money and her family supports her? I don't see proof in that. Just an FYI, I wasn't even talking to you. Run along.

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young Girl replied on August 6th, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

and FYI i wansnt ttc
i had unprotected sex and knew it would happen eventually but i never knew when i ovulated or all that stuff
we just did it

anytime you have unprotected sex, that's fully knowing you can get pregnant. And by not taking action to prevent it, is considered TTC, FYI[/quote]

TTC= TRYING to concieve

unprotected sex= umm...unprotected sex

not trying to have a baby

ttc is TRYING

thanks

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xglamxdollx replied on August 6th, 2007

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hopefulmjz wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

okay well if your life is so peachy why are you trying to have her go behind her parents back and lie to them and then when she thinks its time she can tell them? she doesnt have a steady plan.
and i make teenagers look bad? hahaha. you make mothers, wifes, and plain out people look bad. your encouraging her to do something thats wrong.

When did I ever say I told her to go behind her parents back? I never said it, so stop putting words in my mouth. Grow up. I corrected the false info that was posted, about not needing a parent to go to the doctor. So it's just too bad I make everyone look bad. Just as long as I am not like you, I'll be alright.

hahaha i dont know how im so bad.
and your simply telling her yeah she can go there without a parent blah balh go behind parents back. she needs to tell her parents. and who even said shes pregnant? shes worrying for nothing.
your real mature for being a parent wife and everything.
(sarcasm)

if your telling her all that how would you like if your own child did what your trying to tell her?

yeah if your going to say youd respect it... sorry hun but your a horrible mom.

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Marfa2107 replied on August 6th, 2007

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personally i don't think you have any right telling her what kind of mom she is....

she is just saying that Raawr can get a blood pregnancy test without a parent, and find out if she really is pregnant without a parent having to go..and then if she finds out that she is... she can tell her mom...if she finds out that she isn't it's all behind her and she can get put on BC...
i understand waht Hopefulmjz is saying....

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xglamxdollx replied on August 6th, 2007

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hopefulmjz
i dont even know when you got in this with all your information thats more accurate than a doctor.
your the one that should "run along"

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hopefulmjz replied on August 6th, 2007

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Unprotected sex is the same as trying to conceive (yes, I knew that's what TTC means)
That's how babies are made. If you didn't want a child, you would have used protection.

And glamorkid, I'm glad you know my parenting skills! Can't wait to see how well you do! Maybe I can pick up some pointers from you!

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xglamxdollx replied on August 6th, 2007

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Marfa2107 wrote:

personally i don't think you have any right telling her what kind of mom she is....

she is just saying that Raawr can get a blood pregnancy test without a parent, and find out if she really is pregnant without a parent having to go..and then if she finds out that she is... she can tell her mom...if she finds out that she isn't it's all behind her and she can get put on BC...
i understand waht Hopefulmjz is saying....

she seems to have a problem with me for some reason?
but whatever.
i dont know what kind of parent she is but i dont think id care even if i did know.

i guess shes saying that but her being a parent wouldnt she encourage her to go to her mom ? instead of beind her back for so long? if shes not saying to go behind her back then shed be saying she should have her mom help her thats all her mom would want to do no mother wants to hurt their child.

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Marfa2107 replied on August 6th, 2007

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She never said to go behind her moms back
ever!!!
she was saying that you can go to a medical clinic without a parent..
to ensure that it is a pregnancy!!!
that's it
she was not saying carry out the whole pregnancy behind her mothers back...

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young Girl replied on August 6th, 2007

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Rawr12 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

Rawr12 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

rawr what the heck is your bf thinking?
if i were him i would have told your parents myself
or is he scared too?

because thats not right
if he really acred he would make you tell them
if he cared he would know whats best for you and that your mom need to know

how old is he and where does he work?
where do you work?

he is 18...and he does piercings at marks tatts and piercings
he wanted to go to my mom but I begged him to plz wait till I find out if I am or not becuase im not sure if I am yet.

if he is all this stuff your telling us he is, then why dont you mention it before we bring it up. you defend him alot. do you honestly think peircing people is going to keep you guys finacially stable until your child is 18 years of age.

i dunno
piercers and tatoo artist can make some good money lol

rarw hes 18?!?! what if your parents or some one presses charges for him being older than you and its illigal.

he does make good money and my mom doesnt care she lets him sleep over my house all the time

yeah my freind bon was a tatoo artist for a while and he made great money

well atleats hes got a job and he will help you if it does happen

when are you testing again?

does he go to school or has he graduated

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xglamxdollx replied on August 6th, 2007

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well im tired of arguing with her. shes obviously right. let RAWR do whatever it is that she wants then. its her decision.

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hopefulmjz replied on August 6th, 2007

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Martha, thanks for taking the time to actually read my posts.
And no, Glam I don't have a problem with you. But you took the posts I clearly directed to GF, so if you think I've got a problem with you it's nobody's fault but your own.

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xglamxdollx replied on August 6th, 2007

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the words you use and the things you say, if your telling GF to watch what shes saying. try taking your own advice then.

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xglamxdollx replied on August 6th, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

Rawr12 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

Rawr12 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

rawr what the heck is your bf thinking?
if i were him i would have told your parents myself
or is he scared too?

because thats not right
if he really acred he would make you tell them
if he cared he would know whats best for you and that your mom need to know

how old is he and where does he work?
where do you work?

he is 18...and he does piercings at marks tatts and piercings
he wanted to go to my mom but I begged him to plz wait till I find out if I am or not becuase im not sure if I am yet.

if he is all this stuff your telling us he is, then why dont you mention it before we bring it up. you defend him alot. do you honestly think peircing people is going to keep you guys finacially stable until your child is 18 years of age.

i dunno
piercers and tatoo artist can make some good money lol

rarw hes 18?!?! what if your parents or some one presses charges for him being older than you and its illigal.

he does make good money and my mom doesnt care she lets him sleep over my house all the time

yeah my freind bon was a tatoo artist for a while and he made great money

well atleats hes got a job and he will help you if it does happen

when are you testing again?

does he go to school or has he graduated

so you say your mom doesnt care he sleeps over? then do you think shell care when you tell her if your pregnant or not?
well if she likes him at least she wont try to press charges.

GF her boyfriends a peircer not a tattoo artist?

so you should tell us once you test...
you said today right?
good luck, best wishes.

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hopefulmjz replied on August 6th, 2007

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xglamxdollx wrote:

the words you use and the things you say, if your telling GF to watch what shes saying. try taking your own advice then.

Um, can you explain a little more? Be more specific. I was letting the poster know that you don't need parents consent to seek medical attention. And you jumped on me.

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Rawr12 replied on August 6th, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

Rawr12 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

rawr what the heck is your bf thinking?
if i were him i would have told your parents myself
or is he scared too?

because thats not right
if he really acred he would make you tell them
if he cared he would know whats best for you and that your mom need to know

how old is he and where does he work?
where do you work?

you didnt kno what?

he is 18...and he does piercings at marks tatts and piercings
he wanted to go to my mom but I begged him to plz wait till I find out if I am or not becuase im not sure if I am yet.

if he is all this stuff your telling us he is, then why dont you mention it before we bring it up. you defend him alot. do you honestly think peircing people is going to keep you guys finacially stable until your child is 18 years of age.

i dunno
piercers and tatoo artist can make some good money lol

rarw hes 18?!?! what if your parents or some one presses charges for him being older than you and its illigal.

acutally they cant press charges. if they press charges on him they have to press them on her too.

oh wow
i didnt know that
Shocked

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young Girl replied on August 6th, 2007

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xglamxdollx wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Rawr12 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

Rawr12 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

rawr what the heck is your bf thinking?
if i were him i would have told your parents myself
or is he scared too?

because thats not right
if he really acred he would make you tell them
if he cared he would know whats best for you and that your mom need to know

how old is he and where does he work?
where do you work?

he is 18...and he does piercings at marks tatts and piercings
he wanted to go to my mom but I begged him to plz wait till I find out if I am or not becuase im not sure if I am yet.

if he is all this stuff your telling us he is, then why dont you mention it before we bring it up. you defend him alot. do you honestly think peircing people is going to keep you guys finacially stable until your child is 18 years of age.

i dunno
piercers and tatoo artist can make some good money lol

rarw hes 18?!?! what if your parents or some one presses charges for him being older than you and its illigal.

he does make good money and my mom doesnt care she lets him sleep over my house all the time

yeah my freind bon was a tatoo artist for a while and he made great money

well atleats hes got a job and he will help you if it does happen

when are you testing again?

does he go to school or has he graduated

so you say your mom doesnt care he sleeps over? then do you think shell care when you tell her if your pregnant or not?
well if she likes him at least she wont try to press charges.

GF her boyfriends a peircer not a tattoo artist?

so you should tell us once you test...
you said today right?
good luck, best wishes.

ohh well im not sutre about how much piercers make? i guess it depends on the shop and how much buissness they get

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Rawr12 replied on August 6th, 2007

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xglamxdollx wrote:

Rawr12 wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

hopefulmjz wrote:

xglamxdollx wrote:

hopefulmjz wrote:

the_girlfreind:
My mom owned her own daycare for 35 years...and she was willing to work with people in tough situations. She's not ghetto or unsafe. She was licensed, certified...the whole nine yards. For you to say no day care exists like that is pretty stupid. Arguing with the poster isn't going to change a thing. If she's pregnant, she's pregnant. If not, hopefully she'll wait awhile until she's stable. And how was it ok for you at 16 to be having unprotected sex and getting pregnant, and not for her? You are a hypocrite!!

i dont thnk shes being a hyprocrite. i think shes trying to help her. RAWR doesnt know what she wants and its obvious because shes making excuses up and what not and unlike RAAWR she has a job shes planning on getting engaged and everything sounds fine...bnut rawr just doesnt sounds ready at all. my opinion.

Being engaged means nothing. She is also 16, she's a minor! She was running around having unprotected sex....and to me that's just asking to get pregnant. I think most would agree intentionally having unprotected sex equals TTC.

she cant fix it, she is pregnant. but RAWR still has time to actually think it all through, and stop being selfish about everything.

are u talking about an abortion!!!!! cuz if so u can kick that idea out the window Im against that!!!! Thats jus messedup.....how am i selfish!!!!I came for help and all u two are doing is critizing me!!

thats NOT at all what im saying RAWR.
who says you are pregnant?
your assuming it.
and just becaues you have symptoms doesnt mean you are you can be putting it in your head. im against abortions as well. im letting your know that shes already pregnant shes having the baby and who knows if your pregnant yet? no one. so you still have time to actually think it through. your not emotionally or finacially ready. thats my opinion. and how do i know? because of what you have said.
im not trying to criticixze you im trying to help you.

Im jus saying it as if I was preg.....thats jus the way u seemed to say it...sry i took it the wrong way!

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hopefulmjz replied on August 6th, 2007

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One thing, before I have to go.....Glamdoll, why haven't you told your parents that you're pregnant yet? You know for sure you are pregnant....and you haven't told them, so you have no right telling Rawr she needs to tell her parents ASAP....she doesn't even know yet. Geesh, talk about takin' your own advice!
Well kiddo's, it's been fun but now I've gotta get ready for work!!

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Rawr12 replied on August 6th, 2007

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xglamxdollx wrote:

Marfa2107 wrote:

no they don't
she's the minor in the situation..
in Kansas, tho...
if you're 16 and it's consitous(sp?) it's legal..

in california its not like that.
unless it was rape they cant just press charges on him.
and besides her mom already thinks they have sex so i dont get why she wouldnt put her on BC or get the boyfriend out of the picture?

y would she kick my b/f outta thge pic he did nothing wrong!!
I love him and my mom knows that! how old is your babys daddy?

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