Hello guys, I know you are gong to tell me to go get tested but let me run some things by you. I have to give you my sexual history to explane my worries. I am 33 and stated haveing sex at 17. from when i was 17 to 21 i have sex with about 15 woman. only 2 unprotected and one the condom broke on me. Went I turn 21 i found the girl i wanted to wed. I always used condom when i had sex with her. We decided to get married but first to make sure ther was no hiv in our systems. We did not goto the health department but gave blood through red cross(cause we did not think we had anything). they told us that they checked blood for several things including hiv and if infected by anything, they would send a letter informing you. I had not had not had sex with anyone in right at 6 months after about 2 months we both recived our doner cards and no letters saying you have anything. this was in 1996 so we married. in 2006 we seperated. I had sex with 2 women and touched another in that time. i used condoms every time. now we are back togheter. I actually put my finger into the vigia on all three of them. i never though of trasmfition from that before. now i have about 13 small black non raised spots on my foot. I am scared that It is ks. I have not been tested yet but how long would it take to develope ks, my mind is going crazy, is there anything esle that could cause black/brown spots on my foot? the are kind of faint and look like they are faiding and the size of pees and about 5 on the other. do ks leigions disapeer or are they there for good? the wife has been tested and negative. would a wound or cut on a finger have to be fresh to transmit? what is the time line for fresh. i do not think i had a cut, but you never know about a hang nail. or do you think it could be something from back in 1996? what is better the home test or just going to the doctor? thanks any thing to help calm my nerver before