I have PE and my wife is basically asexual, (I know, it's depressing)
Anyway we are going to see a sex therapist to resolve these issues.
we are following her instructions.
right now we're doing the no penis/vagina sex thing just massages, and oral me to her --- not her to me --- (I know, it's depressing)
the sex therapist mentioned eventually seeing adult movies together...but the ones i've seen alone (with my left hand) have been pretty degrading to women. ( I mean does anyone like to be sprayed with ejaculate on their face?)
I don't want to scare my wife as she is already uptight about even talking about sex.