I feel pain maybe twice a month after sex. So much pain I am in tears. The issue is the outside of my vagina gets really sore, if I touch it or when I pee after sex and immediately after we are done. I cant even walk sometimes. Its the surfice or my skin its not internal and it doesnt get red or any visual signs. We are rough but he doesnt "cut" me or anything and other times we can have sex 4 times in one day and nothing happens. Then one day we have sex and bam it hurts like hell. I can never feel pain before foreplay, during foreplay, during oral, and even sex, its always after.

My problem is the doctors say nothing is wrong. I have made so many appointments and they have run all tests and nothing comes up. I have had UTI's and yeast infections and this is not one of them. Otherwise the docs would find the infection, right? Could it be related to the herpes that I have?

Please someone out there reply? thanks