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August 2nd, 2007
Hi, I am new to this but decided I needed some answers. I occasionally have sex with a very well endowed guy (friend with benefits) and usually sex is fine with him tho we tend to avoid me on top in the morning when he is bigger. But last night when he was on top it really hurt to begin with and then was ok again, then later when I tried to go on top we had to change position because it was too deep for me and hurt the entrance of my vagina also. This morning it seemed to be ok tho it hurt a little bit at the entrance, he was very understanding and the last thing he wants to do it hurt me but I still want to know what the problem is. I have been told to go to the doctor but there are no appointments til monday morning so I am searching for a few answers ot ideas in the meantime.
we always use condoms so I doubt it's anything to do with an STD (I have never had unprotected sex) but I am due to get my period today and was wondering if that could have made me more sensitive than normal. Or maybe it was because I had not seen him in a month and I recently had a urinary infection? Any ideas and help would be most welcome. Many Thanks. PB
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Willa Weintraub
replied August 2nd, 2007
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My partner is also very well endowed and for the first week or two that we had sex,maye even after that,it hurt. It could be because he was pounding me,lol but I think it was a combination of that and the fact that he was large. the pain was like,stabbing pain.like when you have sex and you have have gas? It doesn't hurt much now but every once in a while so I think its normal.also I tinki hacving your period could affect it. I noticed that when I was just about to get on my period I got a pap,and it hurt! usually they never hurt and I told the doctor it hurt and she said your about to start your period (My period was irregular so I had no idea).could be!
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Pease Blossom
replied August 2nd, 2007
Thank you! Smile
Starting to feel a little more at ease. Plus sleeping and a bath helped.
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Willa Weintraub
replied August 2nd, 2007
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Pease Blossom wrote:
Thank you! Smile
Starting to feel a little more at ease. Plus sleeping and a bath helped.
yeah,it does help. Whe this happened to me I couldn't poop for like 2 days.I felt constipated! lol maybe just take it easy and take a day or two break so you can heal up,thats what I do!
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Pease Blossom
replied August 2nd, 2007
I spoke to the pharmicist and she said that lack of lubrication was probably the problem, but it wasn't for 2 reasons, firstly because I was very 'happy' to see him and secondly because we used extra lubricant. She also said that it probably was not to do with my period or my bladder infection. So yea, now my doubts are back. I am kinda hoping she was wrong. Shocked Sad
I am going to try and see th doctor on Monday.
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Willa Weintraub
replied August 2nd, 2007
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Pease Blossom wrote:
I spoke to the pharmicist and she said that lack of lubrication was probably the problem, but it wasn't for 2 reasons, firstly because I was very 'happy' to see him and secondly because we used extra lubricant. She also said that it probably was not to do with my period or my bladder infection. So yea, now my doubts are back. I am kinda hoping she was wrong. Shocked Sad
I am going to try and see th doctor on Monday.
well she still could be right. I had plenty of lube too but from havnig sex more than once of for an extended period of time your body does absorbe the lube and all the friction can cause you to becomre sore (even though you were not completely dry).get it?
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Pease Blossom
replied August 2nd, 2007
~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:
Pease Blossom wrote:
I spoke to the pharmicist and she said that lack of lubrication was probably the problem, but it wasn't for 2 reasons, firstly because I was very 'happy' to see him and secondly because we used extra lubricant. She also said that it probably was not to do with my period or my bladder infection. So yea, now my doubts are back. I am kinda hoping she was wrong. Shocked Sad
I am going to try and see th doctor on Monday.
well she still could be right. I had plenty of lube too but from havnig sex more than once of for an extended period of time your body does absorbe the lube and all the friction can cause you to becomre sore (even though you were not completely dry).get it?


Yea, thanks. Guess I am just a bit worried because it has never happened before.
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Willa Weintraub
replied August 2nd, 2007
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well make an appointment just in case but im sure everything is fine!
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devoshree
replied October 23rd, 2012
when i sex with my boy friend some water like liqud came out after a while during sex..what is this? I'm i facing any abnormality..but one thing when water came out i felt much much pleasure.
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