i would suggest using a lubricant if it hurts and see if that helps any?


and only 10% of women can have a vaginal orgasm
most women can only have clitoral orgasms.

You two just might need to learn more about your body. Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, not just vaginal. So make sure your clitoris is being stimulated during sex.

Is there any foreplay involved? That can be important, especially for the female. The male needs to be sensitive to what the woman wants. In my experience, if the man is selfish, or we are not invested emotionally, it really doesn't feel that great. I think you'll learn what you like! I had sex 3x with the guy I gave my virginity to and not one of those times felt good. (I really wasn't crazy about the guy, either. So, I learned.) It really wasn't until several years later that I started to enjoy it and really not until last year that it's gotten good (either because I am more into my boyfriends, or perhaps because my body wants me to have babies! The body clock is ticking.). Give it time and don't worry too much about it. Relax! The lube is a good idea for now, though.