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Q: What's He Thinking?!!
asked by: Larlen on August 1st, 2007
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Ok so here's my story. This guy asked me out a few months ago. I told him that his timing was wrong and that I wasn't completly saying "no" but just giving him a "yellow light". I told him we needed more time to get to know each other.

A few weeks before he asked me, there were compliments and flirting but after I said "no" he doesn't do them as much if any at all. We still talk but I can feel the kind of distance between us.

Does he still like me? Did I cause this? WHAT'S HE THINKING?

My other male friends suggested that his pride is hurt and he wants to just come off as if he doesn't care. They said he still likes me just that I'd have to be the one to ask him out this time - but I don't know . . . I still need more insight.
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Marfa2107
replied on August 1st, 2007
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yeah
even though you did not "say no completely" you still "turned him down"..
which that can hurt an ego...
i'm sure he thought he was doing everything right with compliments and
flirting... adn then when you turned him down he second guessed himself
because you made it look like it wasn't working..

idk that's just what i see..
maybe try to explain to him why you think you guys should get to know
each other better....
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