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Q: Depressed: I Hate My Foreskin. How Do I Tell Girlfriend ?

asked by: Catcher on August 1st, 2007

New User

I hate it, I can't stand it. It's just so ugly.

Well here it is. I have a girlfriend that I love so much and I'm sure she will give me a blowjob sooner or later and I'm scated to pull down my pants and there my foreskin penis is. I dont know if she cares, or not, or she thinks its ugly. This makes me very depressed Sad

I know that I can talk to her but I really don't know how to start the conversation and be like "Yea my dick has a forskin". I just don't know.

Crap I'm so depressed. I can't imagin her dumping me because of it. I hated my life but when she came in it turned all around and centers around her. I don't know what to do. Crying or Very sad

Replies(8)

stancho

replied on August 1st, 2007

New User

Re: Depressed: I Hate My Foreskin. How Do I Tell Girlfriend

Find something else to be depressed about. Having a foreskin is perfectly normal and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Catcher wrote:

I know that I can talk to her but I really don't know how to start the conversation and be like "Yea my penis has a forskin". I just don't know.

Crap I'm so depressed. I can't imagin her dumping me because of it. I hated my life but when she came in it turned all around and centers around her. I don't know what to do. Crying or Very sad

Larlen

replied on August 1st, 2007

Experienced User

Just say "hey is there anything you hate about yourself/down there? Well I hate my foreskin . . . "

Catcher

replied on August 1st, 2007

New User

I just don't know know if girls really care or not, because to me I think that if she doesn't like it she might break up with me or something and then im screwed Sad

I just love her so much, I don't want her to hate me and break up because of my penis.

BullZye

replied on August 1st, 2007

Experienced User

If she breaks up with you because of your penis, she never loved you in the first place.

Larlen

replied on August 1st, 2007

Experienced User

Imagine all this worry and she says something like "oh thats fine my bf before had the same thing . . ."

I'm a girl and to me it shouldnt matter if she loves you!

Catcher

replied on August 1st, 2007

New User

Larlen wrote:

Imagine all this worry and she says something like "oh thats fine my bf before had the same thing . . ."

I'm a girl and to me it shouldnt matter if she loves you!

That would be great if she says that Laughing

I know for a fact that she does love me, and even if she wont break up with me cause of my penis, how do I really ask if shes okay with it. Because I don't want to one day pull my pants down because she wants to do it for the first time with me and when she sees it I don't want her to be like eww or something.

So I should maybe ask her or something about foreskins before we do it or should I just do it and take the chance that she doesnt care?

Larlen

replied on August 1st, 2007

Experienced User

you deff. should bring it up in a conversation or something. A bf I had bust have been self concious about his dry skin beacuse some how he brung it up in a conversation. He said something like "oh because I bruise easy and have dry skin."

I rather knowing about it before hand that seeing it and thinking anything. So bring it up in a convo. And dont forget to let us know how it works out!

Llewellyn

replied on August 1st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Foreskins are normal. That's just the way the penis is. You do not have to explain your foreskin to her unless she is extremely uneducated about the human body and does not know what a foreskin is.

Some women prefer circumcised, others prefer uncircumcised penises, and others don't care one way or the either. If two people care about each other, something as silly as a foreskin or the absence of a foreskin isn't going to come between them.

I prefer men with foreskins, but my current partner does not have one. No big deal. I base my relationships on things that are just a tad more important than foreskins.

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