Depressed: I Hate My Foreskin. How Do I Tell Girlfriend ? Posted: 08-01-07 01:36am
I hate it, I can't stand it. It's just so
ugly.
Well here it is. I have a girlfriend that
I love so much and I'm sure she will give
me a blowjob sooner or later and I'm
scated to pull down my pants and there my
foreskin penis is. I dont know if she
cares, or not, or she thinks its ugly.
This makes me very depressed I know that I can
talk to her but I really don't know how to
start the conversation and be like "Yea my
dick has a forskin". I just don't know.
Crap I'm so depressed. I can't imagin her
dumping me because of it. I hated my life
but when she came in it turned all around
and centers around her. I don't know what
to do.
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stancho
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2007 Posts: 1
Re: Depressed: I Hate My Foreskin. How Do I Tell Girlfriend Posted: 08-01-07 13:35pm
Find something else to be depressed about.
Having a foreskin is perfectly normal and
beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Catcher
wrote:
I hate it, I can't stand it.
It's just so ugly.
Well here it is. I have a girlfriend that
I love so much and I'm sure she will give
me a blowjob sooner or later and I'm
scated to pull down my pants and there my
foreskin penis is. I dont know if she
cares, or not, or she thinks its ugly.
This makes me very depressed I know that I can
talk to her but I really don't know how to
start the conversation and be like "Yea my
penis has a forskin". I just don't know.
Crap I'm so depressed. I can't imagin her
dumping me because of it. I hated my life
but when she came in it turned all around
and centers around her. I don't know what
to do.
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Larlen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 71 Location: New York, United States
Posted: 08-01-07 13:54pm
Just say "hey is there anything you hate
about yourself/down there? Well I hate my
foreskin . . . "
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Catcher
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2007 Posts: 24
Posted: 08-01-07 14:27pm
I just don't know know if girls really
care or not, because to me I think that if
she doesn't like it she might break up
with me or something and then im screwed
I just love her so
much, I don't want her to hate me and
break up because of my penis.
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BullZye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 112
Posted: 08-01-07 14:52pm
If she breaks up with you because of your
penis, she never loved you in the first
place.
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Larlen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 71 Location: New York, United States
Posted: 08-01-07 15:01pm
Imagine all this worry and she says
something like "oh thats fine my bf before
had the same thing . . ."
I'm a girl and to me it shouldnt matter if
she loves you!
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Catcher
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2007 Posts: 24
Posted: 08-01-07 15:24pm
Larlen
wrote:
Imagine all this worry and
she says something like "oh thats fine my
bf before had the same thing . . ."
I'm a girl and to me it shouldnt matter if
she loves
you!
That would be great if she says that
I know for a fact that she does love me,
and even if she wont break up with me
cause of my penis, how do I really ask if
shes okay with it. Because I don't want to
one day pull my pants down because she
wants to do it for the first time with me
and when she sees it I don't want her to
be like eww or something.
So I should maybe ask her or something
about foreskins before we do it or should
I just do it and take the chance that she
doesnt care?
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Larlen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 71 Location: New York, United States
Posted: 08-01-07 15:36pm
you deff. should bring it up in a
conversation or something. A bf I had bust
have been self concious about his dry skin
beacuse some how he brung it up in a
conversation. He said something like "oh
because I bruise easy and have dry skin."
I rather knowing about it before hand that
seeing it and thinking anything. So bring
it up in a convo. And dont forget to let
us know how it works out!
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 08-01-07 21:44pm
Foreskins are normal. That's just the
way the penis is. You do not have to
explain your foreskin to her unless she is
extremely uneducated about the human body
and does not know what a foreskin is.
Some women prefer circumcised, others
prefer uncircumcised penises, and others
don't care one way or the either. If two
people care about each other, something as
silly as a foreskin or the absence of a
foreskin isn't going to come between them.
I prefer men with foreskins, but my
current partner does not have one. No big
deal. I base my relationships on things
that are just a tad more important than
foreskins.
I know that I can
talk to her but I really don't know how to
start the conversation and be like "Yea my
dick has a forskin". I just don't know.
