Hey, I read your post and I can only say
that I understand how you must feel
because i have similar but lesser
problems, so I understand. For me talking
to a good friend helps allot even if the
solace is temporary.
Although i am sure that Kia meant well by
saying all that, I can't shake the feeling
that her approach was, well how to put it,
a bit aggresive. Direct and, as it may
appear to some, not so empathic advice is
never accepted well by no one and
certainly not by a man who has problems
with his penis, i mean it's like saying:
"What are you babbling about just go fix
it like there is nothing to it. With a
snap of a finger." Like you haven't tried.
By this I don't mean that you should give
up on trying to fix it, of course. The
important thing is to NEVER EVER give up
and not to do anything rash when presented
with a solution, think it over and consult
with as much people possible, before
accepting any solution. This can help you
because ussually that way you avoid
mistakes and you stumble upon even better
solutions. Most people when presented with
a problem they just give up. Just don't
give up, do something every day that will
bring you closer to resolving your
problem. But try it with all your heart,
no matter how small the results.
Remmember, they are RESULTS! And
incremental actions leads to monumental
results! And if you have a problem
motivating yourself do not just think: "I
want it", but instead think: "why do i
want it". "Because of this and that" -
you'll figure it out eventually, and then
the "HOW" will come to you itself. You'll
be motivated like nothing you ever seen!
Trust me. And ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS imagine
for yourself the MOST positive outcome,
not possible positive outcome, but the
outcome that YOU desire. Full health,
partying, sex on the beach;) etc. Your
mind will try to find ways for you to
acquire/achieve that. All of this goes for
anything in life and esspecially health
issues, and esspecially health issues
concerning the penis. Happiness is the
progresive realization of a worthy ideal.
Mind you "the progresive realization", not
just the ideal itself - but also the
voyage to it.
You kinda lost me though when you said: "I
was born with a penile cancer. The result
of this is a fairly large tumor right
below my head." Did you meant the glans of
the penis when you said head? And where
exactly is this penile cancer on the
penis, with which you were born and from
which that tumour is the result? Did you
meant that the penile cancer and that
tumor bellow your head are the same
thing?
At the end I am sorry I cannot offer you
any medical advice, for that you'll have
to find a doctor, but a caring doctor mind
you, you'll know one when you meet and
speak with one, he/she won't leave a doubt
in your mind. But anyhow I hope that i
helped a bit with the advice that I
stumbled upon when i was depresed, and
that helped me. Best regards.
