I Don't Know What to Do.im Lost And Confused Posted: 07-31-07 11:36am
Im 47 and was employed 5 weeks ago.I met
someone and she asked me to quit my job.
And that she would take care of me and
promised me a job with her company.Now we
just broke up and Im here with no job and
no way to pay my bills or take care of my
21 yr old Daughter and my 9 month old
Grandson.Im am so depressed and lost and
don't no what to do.My car is on the verge
of breacking down I have 22.00 in the back
and no where to turn and no one to talk
to.
Please help me
Gary
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Posted: 07-31-07 11:39am
gary
its just like a cold hearted b**** to do
what that woman did
i think maybe you need to find another
job
close to home so you dont have to travel
far
put away some money slowly and get back on
your feet
best of luck and im here if you need
anything
-suzy
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sanjayk
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Joined: 28 Jul 2007 Posts: 16 Location: ,
Better Life Waiting For You !!! Posted: 08-01-07 00:11am
I believe better life is waiting for you.
Let me tell you my story. I still have
these problems but I see it only as a
situation which will change my life for
BETTER.
A)I have lost my job from the company
where I worked faithfully for 10 years.
B) I have some 25 million debt to pay off
for the house I bought with NO job to pay
the mortgage.
C)My wife had desserted me for a year
eventhough I loved her with all my heart
but fortunately my love prevailed and she
has come back to me.
D)My son suffered with asma like condition
who is just 3 years old and could not
breathe in the night and could not sleep
at all but by God's grace has recovered
now and is well.
E)I suffer from slip discs and suffer
intense backpain at night and cannot sleep
whole night because of it.
I should have died long along if I did not
have to take care of my family with 2
little children to take care of.I see the
twinkle in thier eyes and it makes me cry
at heart.
But I see my situation as a challenge to
overcome. I'm younger than you but near
your age.
What I have been doing while looking for
new job is change my thinking and have
positive outlook in life.I am having very
positive dreams which will become reality
in future.It may come soon or it may come
late BUT IT WILL COME INTO REALITY.
Also GOD created us in his own image which
means he the creator has given us the
power to create and re-create all good
things in our life.
If you were working earlier on a job, you
will work again on a new job.You can
re-create in your mind what new type of
job you wish to work on.It will come into
reality in time.
Start thinking positively, read some good
positive thinking books, internet provides
a lot of very very good listening
tapes,CD's, videos and mateial.
I found some and have listed in my blog
one is about how to change your thinking
in life. Affirmations by Peggy Mchole her
website destinyswitch.com is a master
piece.
Also have a look into science of getting
rich.
Do your best and leave the rest to GOD. He
will take care if you believe in him.
"Faith is the substance of things hoped
for and things not seen".
Hebrew 11:1
Cheer up.
You have lot to live for.
sanjay
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ripmyheart
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 5
Posted: 08-01-07 20:08pm
Hi Gary
I am really sorry to hear about what has
happened tp you. We always run the risk of
letting someone use us when we become
close enough to them, let them hurt us
more than any others. But having said
that, although it is important for you to
get over her, it IS important and urgent
to take care of your daughter and
grand-daughter. I know the task is huge
but you have to make a start somewhere.
get a job and make a start. You can always
come up with an alternative and move on to
something better.
