Sexual Health - Men Forum - I Want to Be Prepared Sexually For My Fiance

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replied on July 30th, 2007

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Re: I Want to Be Prepared Sexually For My Fiance

georgejamos wrote:

This probably sounds funny, but great sex is very important for the both of us. We are a very sexually active couple. I am in the military now, and I haven't seen her for about 2 months now. When she visits this coming friday, I really want to be "ready" for. I'm a 22 y/o male, and im in pretty good shape. I workout every now and then, but my sleeping patterns arent good and I do binge drink a bit. It's really important to me that I give my fiance a sexual experience she won't forget, or experiences when she comes this weekend. I want to know what I can do to fully prepare myself, be it: cardio, weight lifting, vitamins, diet, sleep more, any herbal supplements, male kegels stuff like that. Also, should I not masturbate at all, or should I masturbate and stop before ejaculation? Should I put lotion on my thing at night? I want the sex to feel the best it can with the time i have to work with, and the ejaculation to be the best and most it can be, like even as far as the consistency and definately the taste of it. I just want to be ready and at the top of my game, that would mean alot to me and her too!!

Well, I'd say you can masturbate, and lotion is unnescecary, but you can go ahead. I think that you don't really need to prepare, but here's something that might intrest you:
If you contract the PC Muscles in Kegels Excercises, you can may be able to stop yourself from ejaculating and have multiple climaxes.

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MikeH90

replied on July 31st, 2007

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Re: I Want to Be Prepared Sexually For My Fiance

other wrote:

georgejamos wrote:

This probably sounds funny, but great sex is very important for the both of us. We are a very sexually active couple. I am in the military now, and I haven't seen her for about 2 months now. When she visits this coming friday, I really want to be "ready" for. I'm a 22 y/o male, and im in pretty good shape. I workout every now and then, but my sleeping patterns arent good and I do binge drink a bit. It's really important to me that I give my fiance a sexual experience she won't forget, or experiences when she comes this weekend. I want to know what I can do to fully prepare myself, be it: cardio, weight lifting, vitamins, diet, sleep more, any herbal supplements, male kegels stuff like that. Also, should I not masturbate at all, or should I masturbate and stop before ejaculation? Should I put lotion on my thing at night? I want the sex to feel the best it can with the time i have to work with, and the ejaculation to be the best and most it can be, like even as far as the consistency and definately the taste of it. I just want to be ready and at the top of my game, that would mean alot to me and her too!!

Well, I'd say you can masturbate, and lotion is unnescecary, but you can go ahead. I think that you don't really need to prepare, but here's something that might intrest you:
If you contract the PC Muscles in Kegels Excercises, you can may be able to stop yourself from ejaculating and have multiple climaxes.

he's talking about seeing her this Friday, Kegels won't really help that much in such a short time. I'd say masturbate before you have sex or you may experience PE due to the lack of sex you've had.

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georgejamos

replied on July 31st, 2007

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Im really interested in the quantity and it not tasting bitter, i know there are foods that will make it taste good or bad... which ones are the good ones, and will masturbating without ejaculating increase or decrease the amount of ejaculate I will have on Friday?

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MikeH90

replied on August 1st, 2007

Experienced User

georgejamos wrote:

Im really interested in the quantity and it not tasting bitter, i know there are foods that will make it taste good or bad... which ones are the good ones, and will masturbating without ejaculating increase or decrease the amount of ejaculate I will have on Friday?

stay away from spicy foods, I think. If you masturbate without ejaculating it would most likely cause an increase in the amount when you finally do cum. I don't think it has anything to do with masturbating though. Its just common sense, the longer you hold out the more your body makes and stores up.

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Kia

replied on August 1st, 2007

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MikeH90 wrote:

If you masturbate without ejaculating it would most likely cause an increase in the amount when you finally do ejaculate. I don't think it has anything to do with masturbating though. Its just common sense, the longer you hold out the more your body makes and stores up.

Not true.
Spermatazoa are constantly produced by the testes and take several days to mature.
They are only stored in the epidimis for a couple of days and if not ejaculated they are re-absorbed back into the body.
The seminal fluid, which most people think of as "cum", is produced on demand - holding of ejaculation will not have any effect on this and it is this fluid that is affected, in taste, by what you eat.

The fact that spermatazoa take a couple days to mature is the reason why when trying for a baby that you are best having sex every other day instead of everyday as this allows some time for the spermatazoa to mature and there fore gives a even higher chance of conception.

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MikeH90

replied on August 1st, 2007

Experienced User

Kia wrote:

MikeH90 wrote:

If you masturbate without ejaculating it would most likely cause an increase in the amount when you finally do ejaculate. I don't think it has anything to do with masturbating though. Its just common sense, the longer you hold out the more your body makes and stores up.

Not true.
Spermatazoa are constantly produced by the testes and take several days to mature.
They are only stored in the epidimis for a couple of days and if not ejaculated they are re-absorbed back into the body.
The seminal fluid, which most people think of as "ejaculate", is produced on demand - holding of ejaculation will not have any effect on this and it is this fluid that is affected, in taste, by what you eat.

I beg to differ - I always have more cum if I haven't cum in several days. If I masturbate 2 or 3 times in one day by the 3rd time there is hardly anything coming out.

The fact that spermatazoa take a couple days to mature is the reason why when trying for a baby that you are best having sex every other day instead of everyday as this allows some time for the spermatazoa to mature and there fore gives a even higher chance of conception.

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Kia

replied on August 1st, 2007

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MikeH90 wrote:

I beg to differ - I always have more ejaculate if I haven't ejaculate in several days. If I masturbate 2 or 3 times in one day by the 3rd time there is hardly anything coming out.

yes, if you masturbate several times in one day you will probably see a reduction in the quantity of seminal fluid - you haven't given your body time to produce more fluid.

but this fluid is not "stored" and waiting several days does not mean your body will build up a store of fluid and it also does not mean that you have to ejaculate to get rid of the fluid (because it doesn't build up).

This isn't just my opinion - this is how the reproductive organs function.

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georgejamos

replied on August 1st, 2007

New User

What if I masturbate but don't ejaculate???

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Kia

replied on August 2nd, 2007

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georgejamos wrote:

What if I masturbate but don't ejaculate???

any fluids that are present in the vas defferens and not ejaculated will be re-absorbed by the body.

The sperm will not be moved on from the epidimis and if not ejaculated by the time they are fully matured will also be re-absorbed by your body to make way for the new sperm that you body produces.

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