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fff3
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Posted: 07-31-07 12:11pm
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so eiri, what do u think i should do?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-31-07 12:15pm
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| fff3
wrote: | | so eiri, what do u think i
should do? |
If the stretching is not working, I would
go in for more medical consultation.
Inform the doctor that you really don't
want to be circumcised, and you want to
try any other available option first.
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fff3
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Posted: 07-31-07 12:17pm
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what other options whoould he give me.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-31-07 12:18pm
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| fff3
wrote: | | what other options whoould
he give me. |
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fff3
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Posted: 07-31-07 12:22pm
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ugh i hate this.! so depressed u dont even
know. its killing me
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WHISKY326
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Posted: 08-05-07 16:59pm
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hey fff3. i am in almost exactly the same
situation as you are and i know what u are
going through. The problems called
phimosis and can mean a really tight
foreskin.
I finally bit the bullet about a week ago
and saw an urologist. straight away they
said a circumcision was the way forward.
my problem goes a bit further though as
the tightness has meant i always felt
uncomfortable and itchy when masturbating
and so have been unable to ejaculate.
According to the urologist the two things
can go hand in hand so i am a bit more
hopeful now.
whats really getting me down though is the
situation with my girlfriend who i met
about a month ago. We get on so well but i
just don't know what to do about this and
what and when to say to her. i dont want
this to end us but fear it could:(
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Mikolas
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Posted: 08-05-07 17:35pm
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Eerm... I am pretty confused. I'm not
circumsized, but what is this foreskin
retraction issue? Is this some sort of
problem I'm not aware about??? Somebody
explain this issue to me in detail please,
thank you.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-05-07 20:46pm
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| Mikolas
wrote: | | Eerm... I am pretty
confused. I'm not circumsized, but what is
this foreskin retraction issue? Is this
some sort of problem I'm not aware
about??? Somebody explain this issue to me
in detail please, thank
you. |
Yes, phimosis seems to be one of the most
common issues with uncircumcised men. The
foreskin is too tight to pull back over
the head of the penis, so sex is actually
painful and/or impossible.
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Dale123
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Posted: 08-05-07 22:10pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | hi
well i dont have a penis so i might not
be too helpful lol
(i wish i did but thats another story)
however its completely normal that youre
haveing this problem
most uncircumsized boys cant even retract
the forskin a little bit so your quite
lucky
yep exersizes would work and you may even
want to look into getting circumsized
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As far as I know most uncircumsized men
can retract there kin to clean under, if
they cant there is a problem.
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Dale123
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Posted: 08-05-07 22:11pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Mikolas
wrote: | | Eerm... I am pretty
confused. I'm not circumsized, but what is
this foreskin retraction issue? Is this
some sort of problem I'm not aware
about??? Somebody explain this issue to me
in detail please, thank
you. |
Yes, phimosis seems to be one of the most
common issues with uncircumcised men. The
foreskin is too tight to pull back over
the head of the penis, so sex is actually
painful and/or
impossible. |
I feel bad for men that have that it must
be sore. WOW Eiri you sure do know alot!
You're pretty smart! It's nice that you're
helping him and giving great advice
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silvrbreeze
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Posted: 08-05-07 23:20pm
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If you want to have sex, why don't you
just try it. Let your girlfriend know.
It doesn't have to be a big issue, just
let her know that your parents chose to
not have you circumsized when you were a
baby. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
That's how every man in this world is
born, you know. Try having sex and then
if it doesn't work out too well, you might
have something to worry about. A close
friend of mine is uncircumsized, and he
just talks about it like nothing. I would
not feel pressure to become circumsized if
this isn't what you want. Personally, I
would not want to have surgery that is
unnecessary. Even if your girlfriend is
on birth control (but especially if she is
not) pick up a pack of condoms or have a
friend do it for you if you are unable.
Try putting one on before having sex to
see what it feels like. Even if you are
nervous, know that no matter what everyone
is. People had sex long before they ever
heard of circumcision. It'll be okay, I
promise. If I were your girlfriend I
would completely accept it, and I wouldn't
look at you any differently.
If sex is painful, let her know and stop.
THEN you'll know you have something to see
a doctor about, but until then, relax. It
could turn out to be just fine.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-05-07 23:24pm
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I've heard bad things about putting a
condom on an unretracted penis.
The foreskin is supposed to retract, that
is its normal behavior. If it doesn't that
is unfortunately a problem. It's not
incurable and circumcision isn't the only
answer.
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Dale123
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Dale123
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Don't Try to Force It!
Posted: 08-06-07 00:18am
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Most boys will be able to retract their
foreskins by the time they are 5 years
old, yet others will not be able to until
the teenage years. As a boy becomes more
aware of his body, he will most likely
discover how to retract his own foreskin.
But foreskin retraction should never be
forced. Until separation occurs, do not
try to pull the foreskin back —
especially an infant's. Forcing the
foreskin to retract before it is ready may
severely harm the penis and cause pain,
bleeding and tears in the skin.
What Is Smegma?
When the foreskin separates from the
glans, skin cells are shed. These skin
cells may look like whitish lumps,
resembling pearls, under the foreskin.
These are called smegma. Smegma is normal
and nothing to worry about.
I I was you I would totally go to a doctor
and talk about this. Don't be worried. I
am sure lots of doctors see this! I would
try to solve it now, if I was you. Don't
worry. Just find out your options at the
doctor. As for right now.
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everyday_struggle
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Re: Depressed.. I Need Help Wiht This Issue
Posted: 08-06-07 18:50pm
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| fff3
wrote: | hi, this is so weird to talk
about this stuff but w/e
im 18 and im uncircumcised. my penis wont
retract so the head wont fully apear, and
i jus feel sooo different then like every
guy in the world.
all my friends always talk about sex and
like blow jobs and stuff and i jus feel so
different.
Im in a shitty position right now and i
kinda have a girlfreind right now. but
were both virgins......
please give me some
advice |
yo, i didnt read any previous posts. but
who cares, girls dont really care about
that stuff. unless you have something
bleeding or oozing that she may catch.
Girls are usually cool about caca like
that. Just dont say anything unless she
does.
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horton
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Posted: 08-06-07 22:14pm
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so if you have phimosis and u put a condom
on it still hurts to have sex even if the
condom is lubed?
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sWeEtPeEwEe
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Posted: 08-06-07 22:37pm
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i know some kid that got circimcised when
he was 16 and he ended up fine and i dont
think it took too long to heal either..
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BullZye
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Posted: 08-07-07 00:21am
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I'm 19 and i'm getting circumcised
sometime soon...
I also have a girlfriend and we haven't
had sex yet, so i'm hoping to get this
problem over with before we begin to start
our sex life.
I'm not looking very forward to the
surgical procedure but this stretching is
really not working for me.
I rather just get circumcised and come out
with a clean smegma-free penis and not
have to worry about my foreskin ever
again.
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wazzyandme
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As An Old Wise Woman I Say
Posted: 08-09-07 19:53pm
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since you have stated that she as well as
you are both virgins ...I would think it
will be her passion for you that
determines what she will think at that
right time and she won't be comparing you
to any other guy .....I had a husband once
that was not circumsized he was perfect at
what he could do ....a good thing to learn
is oral sex if your good at that its a
done deal . be safe be happy and enjoy
your life
wazzywoman
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Dale123
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Posted: 08-09-07 20:13pm
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| horton
wrote: | | so if you have phimosis and
u put a condom on it still hurts to have
sex even if the condom is
lubed? |
if you have phimosis should you use a
condom? I heard you shouldn't?
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