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fff3

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Depressed.. I Need Help Wiht This Issue
Posted: 07-30-07 15:38pm

hi, this is so weird to talk about this stuff but w/e
im 18 and im uncircumcised. my penis wont retract so the head wont fully apear, and i jus feel sooo different then like every guy in the world.
all my friends always talk about sex and like blow jobs and stuff and i jus feel so different.
Im in a shitty position right now and i kinda have a girlfreind right now. but were both virgins......
please give me some advice
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other

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Posted: 07-30-07 15:43pm

Being circumcised, I can't be the biggest help, but I'll try.
I think that it's actuly ptretty normal for that to happen. I'm pretty sure that you also won't need circumcision. Just excersice it, and it'll be fine.

My $0.2
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fff3

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Posted: 07-30-07 15:48pm

yea but idk what to do,
it will only go half way down the head when i dont have a hard on.
and when i do have one its more tight.
and im so shy to talk to anyone about it, i jus dont know what my girlfriend would expect. i want to have sex as well, and this jus stinks.
i dont think i would do the circumcision thing at all either
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other

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Re: Laskfj
Posted: 07-30-07 16:02pm

fff3 wrote:
yea but idk what to do,
it will only go half way down the head when i dont have a hard on.
and when i do have one its more tight. and im so shy to talk to anyone about it, i jus dont know what my girlfriend would expect. i want to have sex as well, and this jus stinks. i dont think i would do the circumcision thing at all either

Well, can you still ejaculate/orgasm with it half way retracted? If you can, I'm pretty sure you can just leave it alone and it'll be fine.
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BullZye

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Posted: 07-30-07 19:35pm

You have nothing to worry about.

I have the same problem but its even more messed up, I can't retract my skin AT ALL! I have to get circumcised soon.

At least your foreskin is able to go down halfway.

This is a good sign that stretching techniques can work.

Just spend 4-5 minutes twice everyday stretching your foreskin and pulling it but not too hard and it will loosen up overtime and you should be able to retract it fully.
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fff3

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Posted: 07-30-07 21:48pm

thanks a lot, but stretch it sideways? or upwards.
idk do u think i should see a doctor because i want to have sex. but should i wait a little and see how the stretching goes?
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Dale123

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Posted: 07-30-07 21:53pm

fff3 wrote:
thanks a lot, but stretch it sideways? or upwards.
idk do u think i should see a doctor because i want to have sex. but should i wait a little and see how the stretching goes?


Yes I would stretch it befor eyou go under the knife..

You could also google search HOW TO STRETCH FORESKIN

http://www.esk imo.com/~gburlin/restore/uncirc.txt
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other

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Posted: 07-30-07 21:58pm

fff3 wrote:
thanks a lot, but stretch it sideways? or upwards.
idk do u think i should see a doctor because i want to have sex. but should i wait a little and see how the stretching goes?
You seem to have ignored, but can you ejaculate with it half retracted? If you can, than you might as well leave it because it won't interfere with sex.
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Posted: 07-30-07 22:00pm

hi
well i dont have a penis so i might not be too helpful lol
(i wish i did but thats another story)

however its completely normal that youre haveing this problem
most uncircumsized boys cant even retract the forskin a little bit so your quite lucky

yep exersizes would work and you may even want to look into getting circumsized
Wink
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fff3

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Posted: 07-30-07 22:26pm

well thats the thing i dont want to be circumcised. well i would but at my age(17) its quite risky.
i jus want to have sex and do the same stuff a circumcised man could do
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other

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Re: Safd
Posted: 07-30-07 22:58pm

fff3 wrote:
well thats the thing i dont want to be circumcised. well i would but at my age(17) its quite risky.
i jus want to have sex and do the same stuff a circumcised man could do
Just answer. Can you ejaculate with it not entirley retracted? If so, then you're fine. Just leave it and you'll be able have sex like a circumcised man could.
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fff3

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Posted: 07-30-07 23:11pm

heres the problem i cant fully retract it, thats the problem im having here, yea i can ejaculate but its not fully retracted if i do.
my problem is that its not retracting all the way
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Posted: 07-30-07 23:14pm

other wrote:
fff3 wrote:
well thats the thing i dont want to be circumcised. well i would but at my age(17) its quite risky.
i jus want to have sex and do the same stuff a circumcised man could do
Just answer. Can you ejaculate with it not entirley retracted? If so, then you're fine. Just leave it and you'll be able have sex like a circumcised man could.


Actually that's not right. You can't put on a condom un-retracted and sex is very painful for both the male and the female with an un-retracted foreskin.
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fff3

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Posted: 07-30-07 23:19pm

well yea obviously its not right, thats why signed up for this website, was for some help, im really feeling down these past months casuse i have a girlfreind...
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fff3

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Posted: 07-31-07 11:17am

can i please get some more help?
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Posted: 07-31-07 11:24am

hmmm i just dont even know

Sad im sorry hun
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fff3

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Posted: 07-31-07 11:33am

Sad
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Posted: 07-31-07 11:34am

may i ask what the risks are for getting circumsized at age 17?
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fff3

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Posted: 07-31-07 11:43am

anyone else?? because u loose some sensitivty and please i hear
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Posted: 07-31-07 12:03pm

fff3 wrote:
anyone else?? because u loose some sensitivty and please i hear


Of course you lose sensitivity. The foreskin is full of nerve endings. When you get circumcised, you lose all of those nerves.
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