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Q: Depressed.. I Need Help Wiht This Issue
asked by: fff3 on July 30th, 2007
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hi, this is so weird to talk about this stuff but w/e
im 18 and im uncircumcised. my penis wont retract so the head wont fully apear, and i jus feel sooo different then like every guy in the world.
all my friends always talk about sex and like blow jobs and stuff and i jus feel so different.
Im in a shitty position right now and i kinda have a girlfreind right now. but were both virgins......
please give me some advice
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other
replied on July 30th, 2007
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Being circumcised, I can't be the biggest help, but I'll try.
I think that it's actuly ptretty normal for that to happen. I'm pretty sure that you also won't need circumcision. Just excersice it, and it'll be fine.

My $0.2
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fff3
replied on July 30th, 2007
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Laskfj
yea but idk what to do,
it will only go half way down the head when i dont have a hard on.
and when i do have one its more tight.
and im so shy to talk to anyone about it, i jus dont know what my girlfriend would expect. i want to have sex as well, and this jus stinks.
i dont think i would do the circumcision thing at all either
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other
replied on July 30th, 2007
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Re: Laskfj
fff3 wrote:
yea but idk what to do,
it will only go half way down the head when i dont have a hard on.
and when i do have one its more tight. and im so shy to talk to anyone about it, i jus dont know what my girlfriend would expect. i want to have sex as well, and this jus stinks. i dont think i would do the circumcision thing at all either

Well, can you still ejaculate/orgasm with it half way retracted? If you can, I'm pretty sure you can just leave it alone and it'll be fine.
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BullZye
replied on July 30th, 2007
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You have nothing to worry about.

I have the same problem but its even more messed up, I can't retract my skin AT ALL! I have to get circumcised soon.

At least your foreskin is able to go down halfway.

This is a good sign that stretching techniques can work.

Just spend 4-5 minutes twice everyday stretching your foreskin and pulling it but not too hard and it will loosen up overtime and you should be able to retract it fully.
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fff3
replied on July 30th, 2007
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thanks a lot, but stretch it sideways? or upwards.
idk do u think i should see a doctor because i want to have sex. but should i wait a little and see how the stretching goes?
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Dale123
replied on July 30th, 2007
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Re: ..
fff3 wrote:
thanks a lot, but stretch it sideways? or upwards.
idk do u think i should see a doctor because i want to have sex. but should i wait a little and see how the stretching goes?


Yes I would stretch it befor eyou go under the knife..

You could also google search HOW TO STRETCH FORESKIN

http://www.eskimo.com/~gburlin/restore/unc irc.txt
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other
replied on July 30th, 2007
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fff3 wrote:
thanks a lot, but stretch it sideways? or upwards.
idk do u think i should see a doctor because i want to have sex. but should i wait a little and see how the stretching goes?
You seem to have ignored, but can you ejaculate with it half retracted? If you can, than you might as well leave it because it won't interfere with sex.
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young Girl
replied on July 30th, 2007
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hi
well i dont have a penis so i might not be too helpful lol
(i wish i did but thats another story)

however its completely normal that youre haveing this problem
most uncircumsized boys cant even retract the forskin a little bit so your quite lucky

yep exersizes would work and you may even want to look into getting circumsized
Wink
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fff3
replied on July 30th, 2007
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Safd
well thats the thing i dont want to be circumcised. well i would but at my age(17) its quite risky.
i jus want to have sex and do the same stuff a circumcised man could do
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other
replied on July 30th, 2007
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Re: Safd
fff3 wrote:
well thats the thing i dont want to be circumcised. well i would but at my age(17) its quite risky.
i jus want to have sex and do the same stuff a circumcised man could do
Just answer. Can you ejaculate with it not entirley retracted? If so, then you're fine. Just leave it and you'll be able have sex like a circumcised man could.
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fff3
replied on July 30th, 2007
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heres the problem i cant fully retract it, thats the problem im having here, yea i can ejaculate but its not fully retracted if i do.
my problem is that its not retracting all the way
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Tylanas
replied on July 30th, 2007
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Re: Safd
other wrote:
fff3 wrote:
well thats the thing i dont want to be circumcised. well i would but at my age(17) its quite risky.
i jus want to have sex and do the same stuff a circumcised man could do
Just answer. Can you ejaculate with it not entirley retracted? If so, then you're fine. Just leave it and you'll be able have sex like a circumcised man could.


Actually that's not right. You can't put on a condom un-retracted and sex is very painful for both the male and the female with an un-retracted foreskin.
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fff3
replied on July 30th, 2007
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well yea obviously its not right, thats why signed up for this website, was for some help, im really feeling down these past months casuse i have a girlfreind...
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fff3
replied on July 31st, 2007
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can i please get some more help?
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young Girl
replied on July 31st, 2007
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hmmm i just dont even know

Sad im sorry hun
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fff3
replied on July 31st, 2007
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Sad
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young Girl
replied on July 31st, 2007
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may i ask what the risks are for getting circumsized at age 17?
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fff3
replied on July 31st, 2007
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anyone else?? because u loose some sensitivty and please i hear
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Tylanas
replied on July 31st, 2007
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fff3 wrote:
anyone else?? because u loose some sensitivty and please i hear


Of course you lose sensitivity. The foreskin is full of nerve endings. When you get circumcised, you lose all of those nerves.
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