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watwudjesusdo
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Should I Stop Masterbation
Posted: 07-29-07 15:12pm
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yo whats up i am 14 years old and i need
some help i dont jerk off that much mabey
like once a week some times once every two
weeks. but im not one of those people who
are okay with this. i wanna stop for good.
every time i do it i get super depressed
and lash out at my mom or dad or my
friends and im not a fun person to be
around. i'm not a nerd either. i play
football and run track and stuff and i
have sh*t loads of friends but i can't get
girls to save my life. i used to get a lot
of girls like in 7th and 8th grade while i
masterbated more than i do now(back then
it was like twice or even three times a
week) but i havent had a girl friend in a
long while. i think its because i
masterbate and god is punishing me for all
the times i did it in the past. im not
butt ugly either a lot of girls think im
hot its just that i find my self always
being really shy around girls and i think
its because of smackin off. sometimes i
even get the courage to ask them for their
phone number but when i get to asking them
out i get turned down . thats what has
happened the last like 4 times i hate
being alone...i hate it so much and i
wanna quit so much but every time i get an
urge i just give in but lately ive been
tryin to fight the urges off but it still
has only worked for 1 to 2 weeks and then
i give in again and im still alone. also i
feel its affecting my preformance on the
football field. this is my 4th year
playing and im no slouch player. im the
starting wide reciever and last season i
scored 13 touch downs recieving. for those
of u who dont follow football thats pretty
good.... but i feel like days when i play
football one or two or even sometimes
three days after i masterbate i dont play
aggressive and i drop a lot more passes
than i would after going a week or two
after masterbating. all's i wanna do is
stop for good!!! please who ever reads
this give me some ways that i can stop or
some ways i can fight off urges or tell me
your opinoin on what i should do because i
know if im able to stop ill be more open
around girls and be better at football and
just a better all around person to my
family and friends but most importantly
ill be able to forgive my self and move on
to better things in life im done with my
immature childish ways i wanna be a
confident person and the only way thats
possible is for me to stop please please
please for God's sake help me out
here................................
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-29-07 15:15pm
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no way man
its a normal thing to do and theres
nothing wrong ith it!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-29-07 15:53pm
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with
masturbation. Guys do it, girls do it.
Married people do it, single people do it.
Old people do it, little kids do it. Many,
many people masturbate.
If ANY of the rumors about masturbation
were true, then there would be billions of
infertile, horribly ugly, physically weak,
blind, hairy-palmed, mentally handicapped
people out there.
You're 14. Stop worrying about "getting
girls". They don't want you at that age
anyway. It's all fake at that age. People
date or do it to be "cool" or whatever.
Masturbation, despite the rumors, does not
actually have any effect on sports, or
mental capacity, or sexual prowess, or
attractiveness.
Also on a final note, God isn't punishing
you. Then again, I'm not Christian so my
words on that matter really don't count.
But seriously, he gave you a penis and
free time. I don't think he's going to
mind you enjoying yourself. Heck, he gave
girls a clitoris, which has absolutely NO
purpose except to feel reeeeaaaally good.
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other
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Posted: 07-29-07 17:01pm
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I agree. If god(s) put the idea into your
mind that you should masturbate, and you
have a penis, it should work out. Just do
it if it feels good.
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watwudjesusdo
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Well Idk
Posted: 07-29-07 19:10pm
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idk it still dont feel right doin it and i
still wanna stop
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watwudjesusdo
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Posted: 07-29-07 19:13pm
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i mean like idk thats what every one says
but idk i really wanna stop please some
one send me sum ways i can stop
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other
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Re: .
Posted: 07-29-07 19:17pm
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| watwudjesusdo
wrote: | | i mean like idk thats what
every one says but idk i really wanna stop
please some one send me sum ways i can
stop |
If you really want to
deny yourself pleasure and the health
beifeits of masturbation, we can't help
you. You'll have to do it your self.
I suppose, judging by your name, your
doing because "religon dissaproves a self
pleasuring?" Well, I'd say drop that
mentality. I mean, allmost everyone has
masturbated. The President does, that guy
in front of you on the train, Martin
Luther King jr.. You see what I'm getting
at, right?
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watwudjesusdo
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Yeah
Posted: 07-29-07 20:02pm
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yeah but i doubt any of u are very
religious
im not really either, i sin just as much
as anyone else i sware i lie im not some
kinda jesus freak. but i know its not
right and you wouldn't beat off in front
of a preist would you?
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Tylanas
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Re: Yeah
Posted: 07-29-07 20:19pm
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| watwudjesusdo
wrote: | yeah but i doubt any of u
are very religious
im not really either, i sin just as much
as anyone else i sware i lie im not some
kinda jesus freak. but i know its not
right and you wouldn't beat off in front
of a preist would
you? |
Well if he was hot...
Just because you "sin" doesn't mean you
can't be a Jesus freak... I know a couple
of Jesus freaks who happily admit their
sins, constantly <_< it's rather
annoying.
Anyway... as other posters have said,
we're not going to tell you how to stop a
perfectly healthy behavior. To me, it
would be like telling you how to commit
suicide, or how to cut off your own
fingers, or how to kill kittens. I'm just
not gonna do it.
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-29-07 20:21pm
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lolp beat off in front of a preist
hun
id do it in front of my grandmother
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-29-07 20:35pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | lolp beat off in front of a
preist
hun
id do it in front of my grandmother
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I did it in front of my mom and my grandma
once! But we were in a hot tub and there
were a lot of bubbles and a very
strategically placed water vent he he he
he
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-29-07 20:38pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | lolp beat off in front of a
preist
hun
id do it in front of my grandmother
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I did it in front of my mom and my grandma
once! But we were in a hot tub and there
were a lot of bubbles and a very
strategically placed water vent he he he
he |
ahh i remember reading that post somewhere
on here
lol
dirty dirty dirty
but you cant go wrong with a water
vent!!!!!!!
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watwudjesusdo
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Ew
Posted: 07-29-07 20:43pm
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thats disgusting you guys are horn dogs
thats so gross ew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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young Girl
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Re: Ew
Posted: 07-29-07 20:44pm
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| watwudjesusdo
wrote: | | thats disgusting you guys
are horn dogs thats so gross
ew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
whats gross about it? its a naural thing
and guess what hun
grandma does it too
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Re: Ew
Posted: 07-29-07 20:47pm
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| watwudjesusdo
wrote: | | thats disgusting you guys
are horn dogs thats so gross
ew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
And we're females too... according to the
wonderful Bible, girls aren't supposed to
have any kind of sex drive at all 
Secondly, masturbation is healthy and
natural. It releases tension, stress,
relieves pain, and relaxes you. It
releases endorphins in your brain, so it's
like eating chocolate but it's free!
Last edited by Tylanas on 07-29-07 20:48pm; edited 1 time in total
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Posted: 07-29-07 20:48pm
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That's kinda what they are trying to
explain to you. It's totally normal to
have these feelings. I'm a Christian but I
don't see anything wrong with
masturbating. It helps you to learn what
you like to do for later on in life when
you start a sexual relationship with a
woman. Let me ask you this. What do you
think about premarital sex?
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other
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Re: Ew
Posted: 07-29-07 21:03pm
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| watwudjesusdo
wrote: | | thats disgusting you guys
are horn dogs thats so gross
ew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
"Horn Dog?" I'm sure
everyone has masturbated
with a hot tub or pool vent at one point.
Seriously. Masturbation is great, kid.
Just go with it. You're acting as though
we're living in Victorian times
(masturbation was considered so bad, pants
had to be made a certain was so guys
couldn't touch themselves.  )
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Re: Ew
Posted: 07-29-07 21:10pm
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wrote: | | watwudjesusdo
wrote: | | thats disgusting you guys
are horn dogs thats so gross
ew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
"Horn Dog?" I'm sure
everyone has masturbated
with a hot tub or pool vent at one point.
Seriously. Masturbation is great, kid.
Just go with it. You're acting as though
we're living in Victorian times
(masturbation was considered so bad, pants
had to be made a certain was so guys
couldn't touch themselves. ) |
really? they had pants like that?!?!?
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Re: Ew
Posted: 07-29-07 21:15pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | other
wrote: | | watwudjesusdo
wrote: | | thats disgusting you guys
are horn dogs thats so gross
ew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
"Horn Dog?" I'm sure
everyone has masturbated
with a hot tub or pool vent at one point.
Seriously. Masturbation is great, kid.
Just go with it. You're acting as though
we're living in Victorian times
(masturbation was considered so bad, pants
had to be made a certain was so guys
couldn't touch themselves. ) |
really? they had pants like
that?!?!? |
Apparantly. However, the
pants makers who wore the pants they made
must have realized that they
wanted to touch themselves and so they
stoped making 'em like that.
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watwudjesusdo
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What Ever
Posted: 07-29-07 21:28pm
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what ever im not asking for people to tell
me its okay im asking poepl to help me
stop
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