1. A woman's vagina does not stretch because of sex, so your girlfriend is as tight as she was when she was a virgin*.

2. Maybe your penis is just small or numb. Stop blaming the girl for your lack of sensation!

Seriously. If she's the only person you've ever had sex with, why hasn't it occurred to you that maybe this is what sex is supposed to feel like? There's probably nothing wrong with you or your penis (and there's certainly nothing wrong with her vagina).




*unless she's had a baby. or likes sticking footballs up there. or other large objects. you get the point.

i dont agree with your comment,,women do get bigger if they are being stretched by a big penis...i have had girlfriends who have cheated with someone who was bigger, and i could definitely tell after..i am 6 inches, with about 4.5inches of girth.....if she takes in a 9inch x 5.5 inch girth, for a while its gonna stretch to that size, and im gonna feel the difference

hahahaha..i find it funny that men think their "massive" penises can stretch a woman over time...NO..it doesn't..like tylanas said, it is the exact same as when the girl was a virgin, the ONLY way it would change is from birthing a child..the amount of lubrication present can change the "loose" or "tight" feeling..my boyfriend refuses to use ky jelly w/me anymore bc he says it is TOO much lube..and i agree...i swear..some men think they are all knowing...the vagina does NOT stretch over time!!! sportslo..you absolutely cannot tell JUST from sex if your gf is cheating on you..unless she passes on an std..so..thats all in your head kid...

first of all im no kid,, im 37yrs old and ive been with enough women to be able to make such a comment...women (and some men )would prefer if this was not so(so they could continue cheating)but from my experience , they do stretch to fit that bigger penis and the difference is noticeable

i..and many other women will tell you over and over again..the woman does NOT permanently stretch from sex!!! how soon after your gf cheated on you were you having sex with her? if she goes and has sex with him and the directly comes home and has sex with you then MAYBE you can tell a difference..but the vagina does NOT permanently stretch!this is completely a myth and I would hope that by 37 you would have figured this out by now! its all in your head...take it from a woman who has one..i know how it works, i haven't had a kid and mine is the same as its always been...

It does not stretch but some girls vagina's are bigger than the others. If your girlfriend is loose that does not mean she has been having sex with a giant.

You need more time to explore her to feel the thing. When I first started having sex with my girlfriend I could have gone for hours. (first first 1-2 months can't really remember). Sometimes it feels so warm that I can cum in 5 min.

I hope that helps

I would like to add something. I do think there are times when we may feel tighter or looser during sex.

1. Initial penetration is tight. Once I get wet and more aroused I feel myself open, thus becoming wider and able to take in all of him. Plus a woman’s vagina is designed to be able to stretch and expand for sex. This doesn’t mean that it doesn’t maintain its original size afterwards.
2. Not having sex for a while. This is true. And I have tested it. Now there isn’t a huge difference but a slight diff in tightness.
3. After children of course

Ok so I was never with anyone as well endowed as my hubby, nor was I a virgin when I met him. The 1st time we had sex he felt so huge and he says I felt so tight that it took a little time. It was a very very tight fit. Over the months that initial tightness went away and sex was never as difficult as before. Even he said that I was beginning to “fit him” and that it was easier for him to enjoy himself instead of being scared of hurting me.

I do think your muscles could remain looser than they were before if you don’t do kegals after birth. This is the only permanent stretching that I myself have experienced. My hubby and I are actually thankful. Before I gave birth I couldn’t take all of him, now we have the best sex…lol. So with kegals I feel more satisfied with being “looser” than before, But again a woman can make her vagina as tight as she wants to I think.

Some woman after birth are still loose even with the assistance of kegals, we probably dont like hearing this but its true.

Sex does not stretch a womans vagina and don't rely on your girlfriend for pleasure, communicate, there are other ways of enjoyment other than intercourse.

Men and woman need to understand that they are responsible for their portion of the enjoyment, whether that be communication or finding what works for them.

I agree with sportslo.. My penis is about the same size and my girl only had me.. I felt someone else was in their because the size and surcomfrence was quite noticeable after not having intercourse for 6 month. She fel like she had a 6' girth size peninis and a 8" in length... I ask her and she says that she never cheated. I wonder why her best freind and her bf boyfreind dont speak to her anymore... I always thought they had a manaye but she denies it and acts really offended. I wish the truth will come up so that the confusion will go away and we can make sound decisions..

Tylanas wrote: A woman's vagina does not stretch because of sex, so your girlfriend is as tight as she was when she was a virgin*.

2. Maybe your penis is just small or numb. Stop blaming the girl for your lack of sensation!

Seriously. If she's the only person you've ever had sex with, why hasn't it occurred to you that maybe this is what sex is supposed to feel like? There's probably nothing wrong with you or your penis (and there's certainly nothing wrong with her vagina).




*unless she's had a baby. or likes sticking footballs up there. or other large objects. you get the point.[/quote]



She's as wrong as two left shoes! Tate it from a man who has been around the corner a few times. A virgin is, by far tighter than a woman who have had sex with men of
all size of penis!!!!

PLEASE...a virgin may feel tighter yes but did you ever stop and think why? think about it..a virgin is going to be VERY nervous her first time..thus shes probably gonna be kinda dry..less lube=more friction and more friction=a "tighter" feeling...just bc you've "been around the block" means nothing...every woman's vagina is different so you cannot sit here and say you are all knowing just bc you've "been around the block"..some are tighter than others, i mean..is every penis the same? no...men..i swear..they think they are all knowing about the vagina...this is exactly why i go to a FEMALE gynocologist...This girls vagina DID NOT STRETCH omg...i'm so sick of hearing this..you know what..i think you guys penises are just shrinking is all

worrywart01 wrote: PLEASE...a virgin may feel tighter yes but did you ever stop and think why? think about it..a virgin is going to be VERY nervous her first time..thus shes probably gonna be kinda dry..less lube=more friction and more friction=a "tighter" feeling...just bc you've "been around the block" means nothing...every woman's vagina is different so you cannot sit here and say you are all knowing just bc you've "been around the block"..some are tighter than others, i mean..is every penis the same? no...men..i swear..they think they are all knowing about the vagina...this is exactly why i go to a FEMALE gynocologist...This girls vagina DID NOT STRETCH omg...i'm so sick of hearing this..you know what..i think you guys penises are just shrinking is all [/quote]


I repeat: A girl who have never engaged in sexaul intercourse with men is, by far tighter than women who are sexaully active! You women out there who may be offended by my comments because I speaks of my experence, you need to accept the facts that when a virgin first have sex, there are some changes takes place: (1) She will bleed because ???? (2) Her vagina's walls are ???? I repeat" I am a man who have been around the block a few times/ I have been with virgins, I have been with women who have been having sex for two or three years/ a few years/ and some have been having sex for many many years! You will not know the difference unless you have experenced that as I have, If you havn't experenced that, then you don't know! You can not compare other women vagina with yours unless you have been with them! Don't be jealous!!!!

I repeat: A girl who have never engaged in sexaul intercourse with men is, by far tighter than women who are sexaully active! You women out there who may be offended by my comments because I speaks of my experence, you need to accept the facts that when a virgin first have sex, there are some changes takes place: (1) She will bleed because ???? (2) Her vagina's walls are ???? I repeat" I am a man who have been around the block a few times/ I have been with virgins, I have been with women who have been having sex for two or three years/ a few years/ and some have been having sex for many many years! You will not know the difference unless you have experenced that as I have, If you havn't experenced that, then you don't know! You can not compare other women vagina with yours unless you have been with them! Don't be jealous!!!![/quote]

Jealous? Jealous about what? I have absolutely nothing to be jealous about I'm just trying to set you straight..you keep saying that bc you've "been around the block" you know everything and you're right..and you're not..the vagina doesn't stretch unless youve had a kid..period...also 1)a virgin does not ALWAYS bleed..so bleeding does not signify that the girl is or is not a virgin..2)vagina walls...? not sure what you're getting at there..they dont move...the vagina temporarily stretches DURING INTERCOURSE..afterwards..its back to normal...it doesn't just stay that way...it irritates me when men throw around the words "loose" and "tight" to refer to a womans sex life...just bc shes had sex alot does not mean shes "loose" ..shes the same shes always been...you cant compare vaginas..they're all different..so your experience means nothing in this conversation..mostly its just an ego boost

stop arguing about women's Virgina. i m a women and i had a jerk boyfriend who told me he couldn't feel anything when he's inside me. i didt want to hurt his feelings telling him he was much smaller than the previous guy. but years passed and he begin to fit as snug as a bug.
the same holds true for my current boyfriend he was very small and i didn't feel anything while he was having sex with me, but over time again, he is snug when he's inside me and it feels really good.

Deniseforte, two guys told you they couldn't feel anything? What about the guys before that or after that?

Did they have to get used to your vagina? Maybe it was different to the ones they've experienced before? i.e. maybe they had only been with really short women, or something?

MyTurn
The majority of guys i was with were "anacondas" and the two boy friends in question were the smallest of the small. but the sex was good, it was better than those that was really big.
my girlfriend had the same problem, her finance was the smallest she's been with & after while she adjusted to his size.

this is humorous to me..God forbid I ever have sex with a man greater than 7inches I would hate for my bf to find out i've been "Stretched" GASP!

i think it's funny also. im starting to thing that guys who have a small penis has a "napoleon complex" about it.
my ex just told me in a very rude way. and he made it my problem & my fault. "your loose i cant feel your walls, i cant feel nothing,nothing!" he even told him friends.

i could've hurt his feelings & tell him that he is much smaller than my average joe. and he's not measuring up to my standards. but ive been with him for 5 years, and he went away for 3 months (no sex) and when he came back the sex "my loosey goosey" was snug.

I agree with you…you do adjust to your mans size. I know I have and my hubby has told me so. Right now im not liking my situation. Since baby my libido has been through the roof! But after having sex 1 time I remain “relaxed” (that term probably sounds better than loose) I cant seem to get that snug feeling unless some time has passed. Which sucks cause I would like to have sex a couple times in a row. Wish I could find a way…lol. Ive tried different positions to but so far I remain relaxed…guess I better just wait huh? Its only after I orgasm too. Oh well. Does this happen to any other women?