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none of my questions are ever answered....

after having sex, no matter how long i lay still for, my husband's semen seems to always come right out of me.

could this be the reason I am not getting pregnant?

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replied July 27th, 2007
Extremely eHealthy
Maybe if you gave it more that 15 minutes you would get a responce. Also, you are posting in the wrong forum. If you are trying to get pregnant, post there. If not, you can post in women's sexual health.
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replied July 27th, 2007
Extremely eHealthy
Not necessarily. There should be enough of the little swimmers that some of them get to where they need to be. You can try laying with a pillow underneath your bum for awhile to help move the sperm up. How long have you been ttc? Do you chart your ovulation? Know that it can take a healthy couple up to a year to conceive.
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replied July 27th, 2007
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I'll answer you but the reason I didn't answer is I don't know. Whenever I stand up to use the bathroom after or whatever gravity takes ahold. But that is for everyone I assume. Maybe try a pillow under your bum after sex for about 10 mins or so if you are ttc. But I really don't know sorry.
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replied July 27th, 2007
thanks guys,

i just dont know what is wrong.

i have been trying since MArch and we even used the Femara already and all the HPT come up negative.
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replied July 27th, 2007
Especially eHealthy
it takes the average healthy couple up to a year to conceive. 4 months really isn't that long.
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replied August 1st, 2007
Hmmm.......
This girl Iknew told me that she didn't want to get preggers so she would stand up after sex to make it all come out, but after a while one day that didn't work and she did end up getting preggers. So my advice to you would be to try not to worry to much,and stay lying down for a while after before you get up, that may give the sperm time to travel inside so even if some does come out it all won't. Remember it only takes one sperm to get you pregnant.
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replied August 2nd, 2007
Especially eHealthy
The sperm has to get through the cervix--- if it's in your vagina after sex and leaks out, it doesn't matter because that sperm wasn't in the cervix anyway.

Only a little bit needs to get in there!
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replied August 2nd, 2007
Extremely eHealthy
how about afer sex you prop yourself up with your legs in the air and do the bicycle!
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replied November 4th, 2009
trying to get pregnant
i have been trying 2 get pregnant since 4 yrs now and it still hasnt happened why is that...we do lott of difent styles but nothing seems 2 work and the thing i smoke and drink nearly ever other day but thats just recently..plz if any1 can reply to this message i wud be happy from any comments
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replied March 3rd, 2011
try to go into the yoga pose, down-ward facing dog during intercourse and when he ejaculates stay like that for a while. I read that "doggy style" is the best position for getting pregnant
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replied January 23rd, 2012
babygurl
ok so.. i miss carried 7 years ago and today im trying so hard.. to get pregnant .but it seems to me it aint working Sad like right after sex my boyfriend semen comes out .no matter how long i lay there. the morning i wake up it still comes out Sad plz help me..
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replied January 23rd, 2012
beautiful02
ok so.. i miss carried 7 years ago and today im trying so hard.. to get pregnant .but it seems to me it aint working Sad like right after sex my boyfriend semen comes out .no matter how long i lay there. the morning i wake up it still comes out Sad plz help me..
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replied June 6th, 2012
need help
my husband semen comes out immediately as soon as he tries to penetrate,i am upset,pls anyone can help me,give me the solution even my husband is too upset
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replied June 6th, 2012
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It is a condition called 'premature ejaculation' (PE), He should seek help from his doctor if he cannot control it. I can guarantee you he is not doing it on purpose and it is even more of an issue for him than for you. It happens because he gets so over stimulated and excited by you.

He can try a thick condom to see if that will help. There are also condoms and gels that will make him less sensitive.

Use the google and search for 'premature ejaculation'. Just beware that 99% of the medicines and herbs that people are writing about is fake and a money making scheme. There are only 2 medicines that have been proven to work, antidepressants and erectile dysfunction drugs, sometimes both at the same time.

He should however not take it by himself. His doctor should first make sure it is ok for him and determine a dose.

Until he can get it sorted out, he should pleasure you first until you are satisfied. Oral sex, fingers or a sex toy can be used. Then you will not feel left out. You can also masturbate to satisfy yourself if you need to.

Take care.
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replied June 10th, 2012
Premature ejaculation
thnx kristigraham for your concern but its curable,its not a matter of concern i wish,infact my husband too remain unsatisfied and he is so upset that i cant tell you

can he use his finger instead of penis to arouse me

in case you can give me more suggestion then please do

once again thnx alot
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replied June 10th, 2012
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OK, as long as you deal with it. I understand that he is frustrated and angry, but that does not help to solve theproblem, it only makes it worse.

Yes, he can use his hands, fingers, or his mouth. He should give you an orgasm first, before trying his penis. He can use fingers inside your vagina while you or him rub your clitoris, or he can use his mouth and keep his fingers rubbing inside you at the same time.

If not, you will have to masterbate to get and stay satisfied. You can do that in front of him and make it part of sex play. Or if you do not want to do it in front of him, then do it when you are alone.
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replied June 11th, 2012
Premature Ejaculation
thanx kristi,infact earlier i was seeking the answer but not getting from anywhere,u r a perfect guide thanx alot,actualy my and my husband concern is whether premature ejaculation is curable easily,

As he is shy to consult a doctor also i heard start and stop technique how its wrk so that i can tell my husband how to do that he tried this but i thnk that the method was not correct

Please i am bothering you but i know u can uide me properly its an request

Please tell me that whether its curable or not
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replied June 11th, 2012
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As soon as he ejaculates, it is all over. So anything to prevent him from ejaculating will help.

Stop start method: when he feels he is about to ejaculate, he stops to make the feeling go away and then start again. Keep on doing that for a while to extend the sex time. He can practice that during masturbation.

It is important that he is able to recognize when he is about to ejaculate so that he can stop. You can also learn to recognize this to help him. His penis will go extra hard just before he ejaculates.

He can do kegel exercises and contract his kegel muscles and squeeze back his ejaculation. So encourage him to do kegels, and a lot of it. Just like it is good for you, kegels are good for him. So when he stop, he can also squeeze his kegels to make sure he does not ejaculate.

He also has a spot between his legs, between his scrotum and his anus where you/he can press to prevent his semen from coming out. That will make him last longer. You can try this while he is masturbating to see if it works for him.

He can wear the thickest condom you can find to reduce the arousal.

He can speak to his doctor to use a combination of ED and SSRI medicines. (A low dose of Viagra and antidepressants are showing a lot of promise in clinical trails)
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replied June 12th, 2012
thanx and realy u r a best guide,i like the way to answer,ill try this and will let u know incase i need any help ill ask you i hope you dont mind

have a nice day
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replied June 6th, 2012
Experienced User
The Semen is supposed to come out of your vagina. Propping you butt up on a pilliow or getting into the doggy style position with some pillows under your stomach will make it easier for the sperm to travek to your cervix.... they have otc fertility kits to help you ttc during your peak fertiltiy days during your cycle....

As far as your husband ejaculating quickly, you should have him penetrate deeply after you are in one of these positions and stay that way for 10-15 min after he ejaculates to give that sperm time to travel! As far as getting more bang for your buck sexually, try a "penis ring" its very restrictive of the penis and helps with maintaining a firm erection and makes it alot harder to ejaculate... you can purchase one on the low end a novelty store for around 7 bucks.
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replied February 22nd, 2013
i was worried if i cant get pregnant but thanks guy u really help me out alot... after me an my bf had sex i get up to go take a shower an all the sperm just fall out i was worried if something wrong with me or if i cant get pregnant but i guess i can i will have to stay there for the sperm to swim up enough before i get up...:]
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