The vagina can be stretched.. Many men I know say there is a diffident difference with their wife before and after giving birth. As far as what men prefer. I have no idea.. But most tease about wanting a tight one.

i'm pretty sure they would prefer a tight one

I think they get more sensation from a tighter one ...

it doesnt get streatched permanantly after child birth though

and sex does not streatch out the vagina at all
niether does fingering or toys or anything

i don't want to have sex with a vagina, i prefer a penis, lol. specifically my man's penis. kegels ladies. it's all about the kegels.

It can stretch to fit certain sizes, but it stretches back to it's original "tightness" or close to it. Of course after childbirth it takes longer to stretch back rather than just after sex.

I don't know.. But men tell me it is not the same after children that is all I can go by.. I'm not a man and I don't do women.. But my hubby and other men have told me it is never the same after child birth. But then what do they know.. Maybe they swrink after they become a father..

after a woman has a baby - it's advised that she does 'pelvic floor excersises' not only does this strenghten the bladder, it also, tightens the muscles in the vagina .. it isn't a strenious excercise, all she gotta do is imagine she is 'holding in a pee' hold it for a little while and release it a little at a time ...repeat every bow and again...
the womans reproductive system is a wonderful 'machine' .. and like us all that stay in shape, you gotta keep fit on the inside as well as the outside !!
you could also do it whilst you drive, watching TV, or even whilst you are shopping ....

If you squeeze your kegal muscles right during sex, like right when he's about to climax, you will get great results.... for both of you.

Thanks for that Georgia - I couldn't remember the name of that muscle ..X

I realize that it can go back to (or close to) the size it was before, but I have heard some horror stories from some of my friends... both of the same girl...

One described it as having sex with a bowl of pudding...

The other she basically raped him in his sleep and the only reason he knew she was there was because he felt the weight of her...

So believe what you want... that's a promiscuous person that obviously can't get enough...

pudding?!?!?!?

The stereotype that a woman who has lots of sex gets "loose" is totally false. You can't tell how much sex a woman has by how tight her vagina is. It's totally an individual thing like breast size, and we get 'looser' when we're really aroused, because we have to be to let the penis in!!! It goes back to normal size after sex, though.

I think that stereotype came from men who think so highly of their penis that they believe it has magical powers to change our bodies. Give me a break.

But perhaps not after childbirth? Or so I hear. I can believe that a baby might do some more permanent stretching.

But like I said, just squeeze it while he's in there. He'll feel it. It's not about size, it's what you do with it. Lol!!!

I try telling the whole world that myself .... that 'little' muscle in our lady gardens needs just as much excersising as our legs and arms do ....
Ever seen the episode on South Park, when the girl pops ping pong balls out of hers in front of the US Soldiers .... I pee myself everytime I see that .. I think it was in the SouthPark the movie wiv Saddam in it ...
Yeah - I may be weird, but I'm honest ...

Holy lord ginger....

Have you seen "Priscilla Queen of the Desert"? A must see for all ping pong fans!

Ain't that Austrailian humor ... about a load of transvestities in a big bus ... No never heard ot it he he he