Has your dad had surgery for his cancer? I wish I had an answer for you because my husband has pancreatic cancer. He had the surgery in august of 2003, he was doing well up until feb of this year. Now he is starting with the pain all the time.
I have been told that this type of cancer is very painful.
I know it is very hard for you to watch your dad suffer from his disease.
You will be forced to grow strong emotionally and in your faith, whatever it is. It is so hard to watch someone we love have such a dreadful disease.
I wish I could tell you your dad will come home, but that is something no one but the doctors could advise you.
Please take care of yourself and trust that whatever is best for your dad is what will happen, and that you will be strong enough to handle whatever that happens to be.
You and your dad will be in my thoughts and prayers during this extremely difficult time.
Thank you for sharing your dad's symptoms, this will let me know what to expect.

My dads coming home on tues. (thank god)

yes, he has had surgery for the cancer, in november 2002. Its been really tough since then... But ive grown a lot and I can deal with it much better than I used to.

It sucks though

i really feel like my dad is at the end of his rope... Not to be morbid. Hes just so weak...

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Thanks for your reply.
My husband is having a great deal of pain now, too.
We will see the doctor wed. Lets keep in touch.
I care about your situation.
Will write later, am waiting for the doctor's office to call us back.
God bless you and your family.